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Shelisa Marie | Personal Stylist, Fashion Buyer & Speaker

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New season = new arrivals, trends, and very tempting sales 👀… but do you actually have a vision for your wardrobe, or are you just shopping what’s in front of you?Here’s the thing: no matter the reason or season, shopping with intention is non-negotiable if you want a closet you love (and not one full of random buys).After seeing so many clients battle the same shopping stressors, I created a free shopping guide to help you shop smarter and make it fun again.✨ Download it now (link in bio) before you slip into the same shopping mistakes this season!#refinedstyle #personalstylist #njstylist #fallshopping by @refinedstyle

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A Dallas dump...featuring all things style, shopping & food! 😎🙌🏾 by @refinedstyle

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This past week was nothing short of amazing!! 4 stylist. 4 states. 1 amazing industry event 🥳🎊#entrepreneurship #personalstylist #style #sundayfunday by @refinedstyle

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Imposter syndrome can feel like something you only deal with at work…but sometimes, it’s showing up in your closet first.I see it all the time when working with clients. You know how you want to show up, you’ve leveled up professionally, your life looks different…but your wardrobe hasn’t quite caught up to that version of you.Suddenly, getting dressed starts to feel off. Not bad… just not quite right.That’s not you lacking confidence. It’s misalignment, and it’s an easier fix than you think.Because once your wardrobe matches your level, everything flows 🙌🏾#personalstylist #refinedstyle #njstylist #impostersyndrome by @refinedstyle

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Before it hits the rack… there’s a strategy.As a buyer, every decision impacts what you’ll eventually see in stores. We’re selecting styles months in advance, making calculated choices with one goal in mind… that moment when you see it in the store and say, “I need that!” 🤩So when I style my clients, I bring that same level of intention. It’s not just about me knowing what you want…it’s about understanding what you need.I’m thinking about YOU.Your lifestyle. Your body. Your preferences. Your goals. Your next level. 📈Speaking of shopping... what are you most excited to add to your wardrobe this Spring? 🌷 by @refinedstyle

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Girl, get dressed! Sometimes "doing too much" is exactly what your stylist prescribed. ✍🏾 It instantly lifts your mood, builds your confidence and sends the message to everyone around you that you're not afraid of taking risks.P.S. - you couldn't tell me nothing while I was walking the streets of New York in my new statement jacket lol. 💅🏾👑 by @refinedstyle

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Let’s be honest… people absolutely notice what you wear. 💁🏽‍♀️And before you roll your eyes… yes, there’s plenty of research to back it up.Your outfit, your confidence, and your unique flair (hello, personal style!) all work together to shape first impressions and open the door for conversations and opportunities.Your reputation may precede you, but your image should be the supporting character that backs it up.So whether you’re running to the store, attending a conference, or leading a meeting on Zoom, remember this:Your image matters. And when used intentionally, it becomes your superpower. 🦸🏽‍♀️💥 by @refinedstyle

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A boss lady doing her favorite work 🥹🫶🏾 by @refinedstyle

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Such a great evening celebrating International Women’s Day surrounded by a powerful group of women! 👑From delicious food and drinks provided by @aramark to a thoughtful women-led panel discussing the importance of community, taking risks, and reaching back to bring other women along the way, the entire night was a beautiful reminder of how impactful it is when women come together with intention.This was my first Dress for Success event, but it definitely won’t be my last. Supporting women in achieving their professional goals while helping them show up looking and feeling their best is exactly why I do what I do every day. 💅🏾Thank you to @phillydressforsuccess for creating such a meaningful space and for the reminder of just how powerful our community of women really is. 💫 by @refinedstyle

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Girl Dinner: Valentine’s Day Edition 🌹Last night I attended a private Valentine’s Day dinner in NYC celebrating women across sports, entertainment, and fashion. The night was filled with genuine conversations and new connections. It truly felt like the perfect evening to pour into one another on a day centered around love ❤️Grateful to @woyfoundation and @withoutlords for the invitation, the conversations, and beautiful energy in the room ✨ by @refinedstyle

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