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new location for the ottawa book launch! 

We'll be holding it at @thegrove613 for capacity reasons but still hearing from and raising money for the @ottawatranslibrary. šŸ’œ

If you want a quieter way to pick up the book and say hi, come find me at @octopusbooks on Saturday, October 24, 11-1. 

If you want to join me, @adriennersphoto, and Alexis Shotwell for a reading and a conversation about friendship and community-building, come to @thegrove613 at 5 that same day, Saturday October 24. 

looking forward to seeing you! saturday October  24 11 am - 1 pm - Ottawa Book Signing  I'll be sitting out front of Octopus Books (116 Third Avenue at Bank St.) to sign books and chat.  Come say hi! Rain date Sunday October 25, 11-1. saturday October 24, 5 -7 pmOttawa Book Launch & Friendship Forum with Alexis Shotwell & Adrienne Row-Smith      fundraiser for the Ottawa Trans Library registration not required to order the book or anything else for pickup,  use code OTTAWALAUNCH at sheerspite.ca  :) NEW LOCATION: The Grove,  18 Louisa Street Unit 280 by @sheerspite
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I’m thrilled to announce that this winter, Sheer Spite Press will publish Ghost Town Trips: By Rail, Canoe, Bike, & Thumb, a collection of writing by Reece Steinberg, originally published in his zine Q For Treason.

ā€œI felt like this was the essence of how I wanted to live my life— bike through beautiful areas, stop in small communities, take breaks when I wanted to, and take pleasure in cooling off in the water.ā€

From hopping trains to British Columbia ghost towns, to canoe-camping on the Yukon River, to hitchhiking in rural Syria: Reece Steinberg’s travels have taken him to off-grid places few people get to see.

Traveling without a cell phone, high-tech gear, or much cash, Reece relies on paper maps and the kindness of strangers. His search for abandoned spaces brings him together with everyone from the Syrian uncle who led him to a rural backyard castle, to a gold prospector who calls everyone a ā€œdogfucker.ā€

Collecting work originally published between 2006 and 2016 as seven issues of the zine Q For Treason, this book is a reminder that adventure is always possible when you’re willing to step off the edge of the map. coming this winter from sheer spite: Ghost Town Trips: By Rail, Canoe, Bike, & Thumb, by Reece Steinberg. The book's cover has a photo of an abstract weaving by the author, which includes images of ghosts and houses. Behind the book mockup are four issues of the zine Q For Treason, which are printed in classic black and white photocopy. by @sheerspite
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Today on Gender Reveal, we've got a looooong excerpt from our chat with Lee Arden of @sheerspite! Topics include reinventing religion from scratch, avoiding friendship's monogamy problem, fostering community even when they're annoying šŸ˜Ž, and resurrecting Ursula Le Guin’s communal pickle barrels. Out in the main feed for free now! 

(Listen to the full episode on Patreon for friendship advice questions, zines & indie publishing shop talk, prude-slut solidarity with @prude.mag, finally giving up on Ottawa [my words not Lee's], and much more!) by @sheerspite
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would you like to read my book The Politics of Lonely for $00000? consider requesting it at your library!

to sweeten the deal, if you comment below and let me know you've requested it at your library i will enter you to win a copy of the book for keeps, plus each of my four (four???) zines about friendship. 

requesting stuff at your library is such a great way to support authors and publishers without having to spend any money! i do it all the time and it makes me feel so powerful.

also, the public lending right program allows traditionally published authors whose books are in libraries to make a tiny little bit of money in addition to the royalties we get from the library buying the book! very cool stuff!

here's her vital statistics for you to copy and paste:
Title: The Politics of Lonely: Why Is Friendship So Hard?
Author: Lee Arden
ISBN: 9781773638263
Publisher: Fernwood Publishing
Publication Date: September 10, 2026 book giveaway: for library lovers and broke beloveds. to enter: request The Politics of Lonely at your library and comment on this post by october 15. photo of The Politics of Lonely, and four zines: "Five Friendship Fantasies", "My Secret Friendship Dossier", "PALS: The Radical Possibilities of Friendship," and "Making Friends With Zines" taken in My Library by @sheerspite
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Elbert Bakker has won the Politics of Lonely scarf! Nearly 100 people entered the draw and I wish I could make a scarf for each of you. Thanks for reading and supporting this excellent book. Pass it around when you are done. 

Last words to Lee: 

ā€œWe will try, and we will fail, to make the power of our love for our friends as big and strong as the destructive power of the state. The answer isn’t to stop trying or to be more moderate in our ambitions. We need to keep trying in our personal lives to live up to the ideals we hold dear. We also need to keep fighting for massive changes to the way we live, to break down systems of violence, and to build systems of care.ā€ by @sheerspite
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8 days ago
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What a joy to chat with Lee Arden of @sheerspite on Gender Conceal this week! We had a great time chatting with them about friendship and its challenges, Quakerism, prude/slut solidarity, Margaret Thatcher-ass takes, Ursula Le Guin’s communal pickle barrels, and the "annoying to me personally" political z-axis. Lee also answers listener questions about friendship, breakups, and making big changes. Hope u enjoy! lee holding a copy of their book "the politics of lonely" by @sheerspite
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9 days ago
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Buy this book before the end of Sunday, September 20 and win this scarf I made! 

Finished weaving this scarf inspired by @sheerspite Lee Arden’s exceptional book, ā€œThe Politics of Lonely—Why is Friendship So Hard?ā€ Made up a pattern that followed the colours right to left and back and forth and had a nice morning cutting off all the ends. Ready to go to a good home. 

Buy or order the book (link in bio) before the end of Sunday, September 20, and let me know so I can enter you in the raffle to win the scarf. Draw will be made on Monday. 

One last quote from Lee’s ā€œThe Politics of Lonely:ā€ 

ā€œIn the years to come, one of the few things that seems like a relatively safe prediction is that we will need one another more than ever. Friendship can’t solve all the world’s ills but it can help with some of them, and our choice is probably to suffer alone or to suffer together. We can chip away at the calcified loneliness of our lives, divest from isolation, and invest in friendship. We can shift one tiny aspect of our lives at a time: from isolation to connection, from buying to borrowing, from hoarding to lending, from lending to forgetting whose it even was to start with or why that mattered. We can braid, and interweave, and we can relinquish convenience in favour of the astonishing, annoying joy of being in the world.ā€ by @sheerspite
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11 days ago
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it was a delight to talk about queer friendship with @fish_skins of @xtramagazine. also did you know i am extremely small and tiny like the size of a teacup? by @sheerspite
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13 days ago
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āŒ DON'T read The Politics of Lonely āœ” here's some posts that summarize it instead the cover of "the politics of lonely", text reading "my book but summarized in memes and posts", an image of a button reading "we want the 0 hour week" and a sign reading " please please ask for ask for help help thank you thank you" by @sheerspite
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13 days ago
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Buy a copy of this excellent book by Lee Arden @sheerspite (link in bio or go to bookstore) and let me know and I’ll enter you in the draw to win a scarf I’m making inspired by the cover. As you can see in the pictures, it seems like it is going to be plain weave and feature some stripes but we will see where it goes. 

Here’s a paragraph from the book I’ve been carrying around about how friendship is the foundation for resistance, transformation and true community: 

ā€œMoving away from lonely convenience toward annoying inconvenient interdependence is difficult and probably a lifelong journey. We’ll all need to figure out how to be around people we don’t know and people we don’t like, to help them out, and to stand in solidarity with their struggles. We’ll need to build and sustain institutions and organizations beyond the scale and longevity of individual friendships. And it will be hard, hard, hard. But your friends are the people you already like. You’ve already chosen each other and built trust with one another. Strengthening your capacity for care and interdependence with your friends will stand you in good stead for extending your care outwards and being in community.ā€ 

(picture by friend & abiding inspiration @erikabmacpherson ) by @sheerspite
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Buy this book and win this scarf I’m making!

Lee Arden wrote this beautiful book I’ve been waiting decades for. Let me know you’ve bought a copy and I’ll include you in the draw for the scarf I’m weaving inspired by the cover. Link in bio, and available at bookstores. 

See update on the scarf progress here. I’ve warped it up with cottons from Quebec, sleyed the dents and tied it on and we are ready to weave. 

Here’s some excerpts from the intro:

ā€œPeople are lonely and struggling in friendships because of the historical, cultural, economic, and material ways that our lives are set up. These factors are not timeless and inevitable: things can be otherwise.ā€

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ā€œFriendship alone can’t pick up the slack from decades of austerity, unravelled social safety nets, or the crushing combination of bullshit wages and exorbitant rents.ā€

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ā€œIt is beautiful to have expansive hopes and dreams for our friendships, but when we fail to look at them in context and see all the external pressures placed on them, we’ll end up hurting each other.ā€

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ā€œI believe the solution is, first, to become aware of the ways austerity and other forms of structural violence show up in our close relationships and to cut ourselves some slack. Then, clearer-eyed, we can start tearing down the institutions that keep us separate, lonely, and struggling. Throughout this book we’ll look at ways that friendship can act as a gateway drug for community and political action: how it can both fill our hearts and serve as a powerful force for building a better world.ā€ by @sheerspite
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Buy this book and win a scarf! 

I’m so glad and grateful Lee Arden @sheerspite has written the book I’ve always wanted to read. I’m going to make a scarf inspired by the cover and if you’d like to win it, let me know you bought a copy of ā€œThe Politics of Lonely,ā€ either physical or digital (buy via the link in bio or at your local bookstore). I’ll draw the winner when it is done, likely a week or so from now. 

ā€œThe Politics of Lonely—Why is Friendship so Hard?ā€ is not a self-help book. It shows us that self-help is a trap—we will never be able to build a just and peaceful world on our own. Friendship is hard because our world opposes it with the terrible forces of capital and cruelty, but Lee shows us where we can grow and build the systems we need to make a life in community that cares for everyone. 

So, not a self-help book, but here are three pieces of advice from ā€œThe Politics of Lonely:ā€ 

ā€œEach of us needs a lot of people, and we need them very badly.ā€ 

ā€œIt is worth considering whether you might let your friendships inconvenience you a fraction as much as your job does.ā€ 

ā€œKill the Margaret Thatcher in your head.ā€ 

Again, buy the book, let me know, and I’ll enter you in the draw for the scarf I’m making on a rigid heddle loom in the basement with cottons from Quebec! 

Here’s some pics of me figuring out the colours and starting to warp the loom up with a vague plan for some kinda plaid I think? I love weaving it is the best you should try it. by @sheerspite
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