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@simplyneli82

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✨ Digital Creator based in France
🎥 UGC • Digital Content • Creative Projects
🌍 FR • EN • ID
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🌿 Welcome to Simply Neli.

I’m Neli.

My journey has taken me through different worlds — from marketing and sales in Jakarta, where I learned negotiation, communication, reaching targets and creating results, to R&D in the food industry, where I developed recipes, experimented with ideas and learned how creativity can solve practical problems.

Today, I’m in a very different chapter, working in food packaging in France.

It’s honest, physical work — and it’s not where I want my story to end.

It’s where I am while I build what comes next.

🌿 Simply Neli is the creative business I’m building around the skills I want to develop and the things I genuinely love creating:

🎥 UGC & content creation
✍️ Writing & storytelling
📓 Digital products
💡 Creative ideas & problem-solving
📣 Marketing & communication
🎵 Music & creative projects

I don't believe our current circumstances have to define our future.

I don’t waste an experience twice.

I learn from it.
I create from it.
I turn ideas into something useful.
And when something creates value, I want to turn that value into opportunity.

So this page isn't about pretending I've already arrived.

I'm building.

Building skills.
Building products.
Building creativity.
Building opportunities.
And eventually, building a business that gives me more freedom.

If you’re here for the journey, the ideas, the creations—or perhaps something I can create for you—

welcome. 🌿

This is Simply Neli.

#SimplyNeli by @simplyneli82

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a month ago

🌿 A little note from Simply Neli 🌿

Being single doesn’t mean I’m here looking for a connection online.
And sharing my feelings doesn’t mean I’m inviting personal conversations in my DMs.

This space is simply where I release what I carry through writing, music, creativity, and honest reflection. 🎶🌿

I write about love, heartbreak, healing, loneliness, hope, and life—not because I’m searching for someone, but because sometimes words and music are the safest way to let the heart breathe.

You’re welcome to connect with me through the comments—share your thoughts, music, ideas, or simply enjoy the content together. 💚

But I’m keeping my DMs for myself.

No expectations.
No complicated connections.
Just music, stories, creativity, and a little piece of my world.

Simply Neli 🌿 by @simplyneli82

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2 months ago

Not everything you see is for attention…
some things are for healing.
I use this space to release, to understand myself,
and to connect through music and emotions.

If it resonates with you, you’re not alone 🌿

#simplyneli #love #grateful #healing #music by @simplyneli82

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6 months ago

Last night, I was overwhelmed with emotions and ended up writing so much nonsense. 😂 But hey, those feelings were still real...

Old Soul is a metaphor for myself. I met an online stranger who somehow felt so familiar to me. Through honest words and a shared sense of depth, something inside me felt recognised. It touched something deeper within me, and I ran...

Okay, I do believe in karma. 😆 Sometimes life lets us experience things that help us understand ourselves a little better. So, let's just say we're even now. 🤣

Old Soul became the hero of my awakening from my own destructive behaviours. Through that experience, I saw myself and found myself again.

Maybe his purpose in my story was simply to awaken me to the patterns I kept repeating. It was just two people sharing stories online, yet somehow, those simple exchanges gave me the strength to change the direction of my own story.

And for that, I'm grateful. 🌿

Because something in that experience awakened something deeper in me, something beyond what words can explain. Let's just say you can't fake energy, right? 😉

Whenever I remember the whole story, I can't help but smile. 😊 Life is sometimes much funnier than we realise, and what we experience can be very different from how others imagine it. 🤣

Honestly, my stupidity has no limits sometimes. I'll probably keep giggling about it for a long time. 😆

At the end of the day, I'm choosing peace, learning from the past, and leaving behind whatever no longer belongs in my life.

I still value my family's traditional values and manners. And I've learned that not every story people tell reflects reality. Everyone has their own perspective, but I know the life I'm living.

I'm simply enjoying building a peaceful, tranquil life of my own. 🌿

Besides, after a busy day, my energy is already at 1%. 😂 How could I possibly have enough energy to maintain all these wonderful stories about my life? 🤣

I'm just here, living my life, learning, growing, and finding reasons to laugh along the way.

Wishing everyone peace, love, and light, always. 🙏🌿✨

#SimplyNeli by @simplyneli82

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2 hours ago

Music 🎶 by @sarah_whatmore_ & @therealsholzy

🌿 SIMPLY NELI — MY LIFE, MY LESSONS, MY STORIES! 😜

So, why am I so keen not to reopen old chapters and accept reconciliation?

First: I've learned my lessons. I don't want to keep repeating the same lessons just to experience the same pain with a different episode. 😂 I'm tired of this emotional Netflix series. New season, same trauma? NO, THANK YOU! 🤣

Second: Plot twist! I realised that part of the source of my heartbreak was ME. 😂 Instead of sitting quietly, facing my pain, and allowing myself to heal, I kept looking for new delusions to distract me. And guess what? More delusions, more attachment, more heartbreak! Girl, WHAT WERE YOU DOING? 😭🤣 I know, stupid… but at least now I'm aware of my own pattern!

Third: I'm a mother now. ❤️ I chose to become a mother, and I take that responsibility seriously. My biggest purpose is to do my best not to pass my pain and trauma on to my son. I can't give him a perfect mother, but I can give him a mother who keeps learning, healing, taking responsibility, and trying her best to give him the best of herself. He deserves that. And so do I. 🌿

Fourth: And Old Soul? 😜😉 Perhaps knowing him became a key part of my healing journey because, through knowing him, I started learning more about MYSELF, too.

So, WTF with all the noise and people talking shit about us? 😂 He is the HERO of my stories! And me? I'm not claiming to be innocent either. 🥳🥳🥳 I even labelled myself a PLAYER! HAHAHA! At least this girl can laugh at herself while learning her lessons. 🤣

To everyone who loves talking negatively about other people's lives: please, go find your own plot! My life already has enough seasons, unexpected twists, and questionable decisions. I don't need your commentary as a bonus episode. 😭😂

My life. My lessons. My stories. My way. 🌿
Like it? Fine. Dislike it? Also fine. Your opinion is yours; my life is mine. I'm no longer auditioning for a role in everybody else's expectations. 🤓😜

I'm just a woman learning to face herself, a mother trying her best, and an old soul still figuring things out 😉🫰🌹🙏

Good night world 🌎

#simplyNeli by @simplyneli82

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14 hours ago

I don't seek revenge. But yes, I'm aware that I'm hurt. And losing trust doesn't mean seeking revenge. 🙏

After my heartbreak with J, I never fully healed. When you confessed your love, my heart accepted it so quickly because we were already good colleagues and besties. Then you disappeared, and before I could heal properly, I found myself attracted to familiar pain all over again.

But the old soul isn't the reason I lost trust. My past is.

Funny enough, through this unexpected connection, I started learning to love myself, rediscovering who I am, and growing into a better version of myself. 🌿

He's probably very different from me, and maybe that's why my fear feels so real. Sometimes I was literally shaking and playing dumb while trying to understand what was happening between us. 😂

He doesn't truly know me, and I don't truly know him either—not in person. Yet this connection has felt meaningful. We're two wounded humans who crossed paths, shared parts of our stories, and somehow inspired growth and healing. I can only speak for myself, but I sense he may be growing, too.

Our connection doesn't have to become a romance to matter. We may simply have met for different reasons, at a time when we both needed to find our own paths. And for that, I'm grateful. 🙏❤️

And you? You knew me back in 2007. After eleven years of disappearing, I struggle to believe that what you felt was the same as what I felt. Maybe what remains between us is an old wound, an unanswered question, or an ego that never quite got closure.

But I'm no longer interested in making noise out of unanswered questions.

I'm not seeking revenge. I'm learning to trust myself again. And this time, I'm choosing healing over repeating the same pain. 🌿❤️

#simplyNeli

NB. Love should be beautiful, peaceful 🙏 when dramas attached means chaos not love anymore 😉 by @simplyneli82

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19 hours ago

🌿 Friday Night Thoughts: The Woman I'm Becoming 😂❤️

This week wasn't just filled with responsibilities and hectic workloads, but also overwhelming thoughts and overthinking. Somehow, my heart feels a little heavy for an old friend who chooses to keep the drama while I choose to ignore the noise.

And honestly? I quite like this version of me. 🌿 The woman who can finally say NO without feeling guilty, who no longer sacrifices her peace just to make others comfortable.

Blackangel is a closed chapter. 🖤 He still seems fascinated by my heart's desires, yet forgets he was one of the people who broke his promises and my heart, leaving me questioning my own worth.

I used to be a people pleaser, giving too much love to men who didn't know how to value me.

But not anymore, darling. 😆❤️

I'm not becoming cold; I'm simply learning that a good heart doesn't mean unlimited access to it.

Now, good food, good music, a little dancing, and absolutely NO unnecessary drama this weekend. And if Satan calls? NOT TODAY, DARLING. I'M BUSY DOING ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. 🤣😈

Simply Neli 🌿

#simplyneli by @simplyneli82

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2 days ago

I admit it, Blackangel broke my heart, and I never truly healed. I simply learned to numb the pain.

Unconsciously, that pain led me into even more painful heartbreaks. But you, Blackangel, were the man who turned my world upside down.

Even now, when someone tells me they love me, I feel like my world starts tumbling. Because every time I let someone into my heart, I end up getting hurt.

After you, it felt like the same painful patterns kept repeating themselves. And now, I'm finally aware of them.

So, no revenge, old friend. I'm simply admitting that my heart was broken, and I never truly allowed myself to heal.

Let's not focus on another old soul. He was the one who helped me when I was almost ready to give up, when I had lost myself because of love.

I never even truly acknowledged the heartbreak I carried from my relationship with my son's father.

Instead, I used my imagination to create a sense of peace, avoiding the pain I needed to face.

Thank God I still have my self-control and, most importantly, the awareness to recognize my own patterns. 🙏

You don't owe me anything, Blackangel.

I sincerely want you to find your peace and happiness. 🙏🌿

I was never angry with you. Perhaps we can simply say that this was fate.

You were not my destined soulmate, and you were never meant to be my backbone. We crossed paths, shared a chapter of life, and perhaps we were meant to be good friends.

And for that, I am grateful. 🙏🌿

Good night 🙏 by @simplyneli82

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3 days ago

Funny how life works. 😂

You spend so much time trying to become stronger, wiser, and more mature… then one day, you're smiling at the rain like a little girl again.

Maybe growing up isn't about losing that part of yourself.

Maybe it's about finally feeling safe enough to let her out. 🌿

Tell me, when was the last time something ridiculously small made you happy? ❤️

— Simply Neli 🌿

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3 days ago

Music 🎶 by @tophe4217

Chase your dreams, not people who didn't appreciate you in the first place. 🏃‍♀️💨

And when they come back? Girl, don't confuse a comeback with a character development. Sometimes the plot twist is just another trap. 😂🐸

Trust your inner voice. That little alarm in your brain might be more useful than your romantic butterflies. 🤓🚨

A beautiful face is nice, but does it bring you peace, pay your bills, or help you sleep at night? Because stress is expensive, darling — emotionally, mentally, and physically. 😆

Give me financial freedom, good health, genuine laughter, delicious food, adventures with my son, and a life where I can sing and dance without emotional drama or back pain. 💃💰🌍

I'm chasing dreams now, not people. My heart has retired from unpaid overtime. 🤣🌿

— Simply Neli 🌿

#simplyNeli
#love
#life
#Gratitude
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4 days ago

2026 REVIEW 🤓😂

Me at the beginning of the year: “I just want a peaceful life.”

Life: “Interesting. Here's some character development.”

ME: I DID NOT ORDER THAT.

Somewhere between J, Blackangel, Old Soul, my own feelings and my endless investigations, I realised something ridiculous.

I've been trying to solve the mysteries of the human heart while forgetting that I actually have a life to live. 😭

Little Neli just wants to sing, dance, play and laugh.

Adult Neli has apparently become a detective, psychologist, philosopher and unpaid investigator of her own emotional history.

GIRL. WHO HIRED YOU?! 😂

But here's what I'm taking from 2026: I don't have to understand every person, answer every question or reopen every chapter to move forward.

I can learn from the past without living there.

I can have feelings without abandoning my values.

And I can build a beautiful garden without making butterflies the purpose of my life. 🦋

My son, my health, my financial stability, my stories, my creativity and my joy deserve my attention, too.

Dear 2026, thank you for the plot twists.

For 2027, I'd like a little less drama and a little more money, please. AMEN. 😂🌿

What about you? Are you living your life, or are you also the unpaid detective of your own emotional chaos? 🤣

Simply Neli 🌿

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#love
#life by @simplyneli82

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4 days ago

Love can be beautiful, but poverty is no joke. 😆💸

Money can't buy everything, but it can buy comfort, choices, freedom, and adventures. 🌿✈️

And love? Sometimes, the wrong situation can cost you your sanity. 😛👻

At this stage of life, I'm choosing financial stability, my son, my peace, and dreams of adventures in the Amazon. 🌴😂

My heart wants romance. My mind wants peace. My bank account wants MONEY. 🤑

Love may be priceless, but living still costs money. 😂🌿

What's your priority right now: love, money, peace, or freedom? 👀

Mine now is peace with freedom and money 🤑💰,

#simplyneli
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#life by @simplyneli82

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