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Happy Stoma Awareness day! 2026 

I got my stoma in February 2023. Before that i was fighting for my life silently! In the second picture i had been so poorly, during the whole night i had been throwing up, doubled in agony, sobbing wondering when it will all stop but i still showed up because life needed to carry on. 

The picture after that was New year 2022 into 23 unbeknownst to me i was going to get a call a month a bit later to say im having the op but in this moment i wasnt fully enjoying myself because i couldnโ€™t eat properly and i was crying daily! 

Fast forward to February 2023 when everything changed! I wasnโ€™t worried about what i potentially couldnโ€™t be able to do but i was focused on getting out of the misery i was in because for the couple of years before this my bowel was slowly giving up on me causing me to lose my appetite, to fall out of love with food, to be in agony, to be sick and to mess myself in public and infront of friends multiple times making me not want to leave the house ever again. I was coming close to an eating disorder because i was having to micro manage every bit of food item that was going in, unsure of the reaction i would have so it was sometimes easier to just not eat. 

The operation process was both incredible and difficult, incredible because i felt like a totally different person immediately and i felt like a whole relief lifted off my shoulders but difficult because i became very poorly with tonsillitis, UTI and then covid with a small infection in the wound. But i got there, i was taught how to change my stoma who i christened Peaches ๐Ÿ‘ 

So i want to now abolish some myths and worries people may have.. 

1. You can wear that outfit you love
2. You can be sexy AND feel sexy 
3. You can proudly show your scars off 
4. You can dress your stoma bag up and even get it a little wardrobe haha 
5. You can enjoy food and try new things
6. You can wear that Bikini/swimsuit and swim 
So this is me! Im engaged, perform, i proactively spread awareness, i have spoken at ASCNUK conference, been in Tidings magazine and helped write a Sex and Relationships booklet! Im a proud Ostomate ๐Ÿ’– @colostomyuk #stomaaware #stomaunlocked taken in Neston by @stephloutaylor
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3 days ago
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My Adhd has struck again and i forgot to post my part two soโ€ฆ. Just in time for September ๐Ÿฅด

AUGUST PART TWO

Barberfellas concert 

Chester pride with my favs ๐Ÿฅน

Choir of man as Mikeys birthday present! Got to see my gorgeous friend Claudia and party on stage!! 

Absolutely soaked after storyhouse open air theatre trip ๐Ÿ™ˆ 

Milkshake trip with the bestie ๐Ÿ™ˆ which turned into the craziest storm 

Plate painting with the hubby ๐Ÿ˜‹ 

Choir of man video compilation 

Alans beach themed summer party ๐Ÿ˜ 

Cinema group trip to see Stop! That! Train! 

Zoo trip with this gorgeous couple and my nephew ๐Ÿ’– by @stephloutaylor
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6 days ago
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AUGUST PHOTO DUMP PART ONE ๐Ÿ’–

Wowโ€ฆ August was the month of everything so needs to be a 2 parter ๐Ÿ™ˆ 

In this lot the month started with Woof! A dogโ€™s tail the musical to which i starred in my very first musical to a sold out audience at @storyhouselive which was incredible! I played Mama (the leads Sammyโ€™s mum) and also one of the Rottweilerโ€™s! 

Then onto Deva Fest! My favourite day of the year! Lots of giggles, fun, screaming, dizzy heads and Ronan Keating! As always its like being in Grease the musical๐Ÿ™ˆ with all my favs (some missing) and then Deva Fest day 2 with my hubby @alansr20 to make more memories on rides and then watch and meet Jessie J ๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿฅฐ 

Stay tuned for the second half of August round up ๐Ÿ™ˆ by @stephloutaylor
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JULY PHOTO DUMP ๐Ÿ’– 

Yes yes i know! Its almost September but iโ€™ve barely had time to sit down and do things for funsies haha 

July was one of THE BEST months i have shortly followed by this month! It started with a last minute trip to see Rocky horror with the husband @alansr20 swiftly followed by our Gay Muppets on tour holiday! 3 days of absolute bliss and mayhem! Sightseeing, fun, memories and games! And for a few hours we seemed to have lost @josh_suffield but we did gain a Fraudia Winklefringe and i deceived all my besties (sorry) and won the jackpot with my fellow traitors Sean and Irfan hehehe! 
And the names we came up almost had me throwing up with laughter! 
I swam in the sea (well actually Josh and myself kinda screamed mostly) but it was incredible. We went into a sauna and got all hot and steamy and just made the best memories! 

Then straight into Disability Pride Catwalk to which was amazing! Honoured to strut my stuff down the catwalk with the gorgeous @feyas_world as Host and Coach and was honoured to wear the beautiful adaptive clothing from both @maymarigolduk (@maydoes_ ) and @intotum_fashion (@hanan_tantush ) and thanks so much to @stephencainphotography for capturing the moment! 

Saw Moulin Rouge twice, once with Nora and again with Jo and Dawn and absolutely was OBSESSED 

Hangs and chills with the husband @alansr20 

Heartstopper premier with my gorgeous fiancee @jess_with_the_glasses and bestie @kathrynwrites (so emosh) 

Congleton pride starting off our Pride celebrations!!! ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿ’–

Next was Liverpool Pride and my god! I cannot begin to explain my excitement in seeing one of my all time female pop groups! Sugababes ๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿ˜ญ and to make the memories with this lot too! @james.a.morgan , @janw.schaefer , @sparkle1978 , @georginakwest , @neilnezkendall , @rowiseman , @josh_suffield 

Then i saw a bucket list show Sweeney Todd at Birmingham Rep and got to meet one of my favourite theatre performers and singers @raminkarimloo ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ญ 

The month ended with eating a scrummy Chinese with @michelleirving11 whilst working on her book ๐Ÿ’– 

P.s: ran out of allowed tags so missed people out sorrrrry!! by @stephloutaylor
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JESSIE J TOUCHED MY HAND ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ what an incredible night shared with my bestie @alansr20 โ€ฆ. They always put the wheelchair platform so far away from the stage and i wanted to be at the front and see one of my idols and favourite artists up close! โ€ฆ i have never been at the front, its too dangerous and scary but i was stubborn and adamant! My chair angled behind me, Alan behind my chair and some kind adults either side i was safe and it meant i got to meet Jessie and watch the powerhouse she is up close! Memories to treasure forever ๐Ÿ˜ญโค๏ธ๐Ÿฅน

#devafest #devafest2026 #jessiej taken in Cholmondeley Castle Gardens by @stephloutaylor
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2 months ago
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Wow wow wow WOW!!!! Had time to process yesterday now! For 10 weeks the Woof team have been putting their hearts and souls into bringing this story alive, an original musical written by the wonderful Matthew Harry Dodd โ€ฆ i remember having a conversation with Matthew in January 2025 about this musical and a song heโ€™d like me to singโ€ฆ fast forward a year and 7 months and we completed our first show to a sold out audience at Storyhouse ๐Ÿฅน baring in mind a chunk of our cast have never acted or its been a while since they have you would never have known as the audience roared with applause and cheers! Behind the scenes the blood sweat and tears of getting it all ready. We did everything ourselves from Props (thank you so much to Neil โ€˜Nezโ€™ for the tree props) and set to costume and music, photography and social media! I could not be prouder of everyone involved! And a massive shout out to Sean for being the incredibly talents Tail and Ears maker! You really brought our characters to life! 

And for myselfโ€ฆ you did it little Steph! You were told all those years ago that you couldnโ€™t be on stage because you looked weird and out of place so you were hidden, you watched your family in musicals and you cheered them on with such pride but that part of you that dreamed of doing the same thing! My disability didnโ€™t matter last night! I was Mama and also a Rottweiler ๐Ÿ™ˆ and i loved every second of being Mama especially to my โ€œbig, bright, beautiful boyโ€ Sammy aka Irfan ๐Ÿฅน and i got to share the stage with my best friends and make so many memories! 

To my woof familyโ€ฆ Josh, Mike, David, Andrew, Irfan, Jessica, Alex, Peter, Thomas (and Emily) Doddy, and Liv.. i love you all so much! I have loved making so many memories over the past 10 odd weeks and creating those stronger bonds! And excited to create more memories to come! 

Woof is performing at Live next week and then who knows where it shall take us! ๐Ÿถโค๏ธ 

Once i have the official photos I cannot wait to share them!โ€ฆ if you would like to donate to Joytown to help us on our journey then please do via this link  https://gofund.me/5d62f060b ๐Ÿฅฐ 

Thank you to @storyhouselive for having us ๐Ÿฅฐ taken in Chester, Cheshire by @stephloutaylor
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2 months ago
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JUNE PHOTO DUMP ๐Ÿ’– (finally lol) 

My god i have NOT stopped this month! Finally able to post!! 

June saw me at a careers fair at West Kirby Primary School which is always super fun! 

Quality time with Rich ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅน 

Lottie huffing at me because how dare i not give attention 24/7 

Quiz night out with these beauts ๐Ÿฅน

Went and did the most Wuthering heights day in Llangollen to raise money and it also it seems go viral in Japan! ๐Ÿ‡ฏ๐Ÿ‡ต 

Me and my bestie gal Kathryn ๐Ÿฅฐ

Me and my mamma went to the beach because it was so hot only the sea could help ๐Ÿ˜… mum looks so pretty ๐Ÿ˜ 

Had the honour of photographing Manchesters first Disability pride eventโ€ฆ the Disability Pride Catwalk created and run by @recondition.mcr .. had the privilege of photographing all these gorgeous stunning models!! And also spent more time with the stunning @feyas_world ๐Ÿ’– #disabilitypridemcr26 

Absolutely howl at this image of Mikey! No context! 

Sweet little Albus! ๐Ÿฅน

Pickle sitting โ€ฆ she actually likes me ๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿ™ˆ๐Ÿ˜‚ 

Lottie and her tiny t-rex position 

Felt cute and so did peaches ๐Ÿ‘ taken in Neston by @stephloutaylor
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3 months ago
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Hello everyone!!! 

After months of absolute agony i have given in and asked for a quote from RGK wheelchairs for a wheelchair that actually fits me to my measurements because my last chair and my current where/are ex-demo sale chairs. However the price is eye wateringly just over ยฃ7000 ๐Ÿ˜ญ so i cannot fund this myself. I am looking into grants to cover costs but this of course takes time and energy and it can be a long time until the grants are accepted, approved and given so i have started up a GoFundMe to get me started! If anyone at all can help whether thats donating or sharing! I would be forever grateful! 

Link to fundraiser in bio. ๐Ÿ’– #gofundme #donations #fundraiser #charityninja #gofundmedonationsappreciated 

https://gofund.me/99018cc8b taken in UK by @stephloutaylor
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4 months ago
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MAY PHOTO DUMP! 

What an incredible month! Ignoring health and focusing on the positives! Its been filled with fun, laughter, love and first times! Starting the month with a group Devil wears prada cinema trip! Obsessed! 
To finally seeing Operation Mincemeat on stage ๐Ÿฅน and meeting the phenomenally talented cast! 

To absolute chaos with my besties and then winning my award ๐ŸŽ‰ 
Seeing sunny afternoon with Jess and having our first Woof rehearsal ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿถ 

Then it was the gig of the year! Proud Marys in Manchester! As the guests of Manchester Proud Chorus! We sang and we performed in scorching temperatures but we survived and i for the first time properly went clubbing in Canal street! And didnโ€™t get back to the hotel until 3:45am .. WHO EVEN IS SHE? 

The month ended on a somber note but to cheer my beautiful Jess up we went to a gorgeous park and enjoyed the sun, picnic and a day out! Looking beautiful ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿฅฐ by @stephloutaylor
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4 months ago
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A while ago i was informed i had been nominated for a community pride award as part of the @nestoncyc CH64 Community Volunteer Awards and i was overwhelmed with the nomination but i definitely didnโ€™t think iโ€™d win as i was up against some incredible inspiring individuals 

However โ€ฆโ€ฆ I WON ๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿฅน

My write up says i won because โ€œSteph volunteers with several organisations and has been supporting NCYC by utilising her videography and photography skills by putting together promotional videos about volunteering. Steph understands the importance of volunteering and wants to support her community by showcasing why people should volunteer. Steph has also offered her support in leading a photography course for young people and is working with NCYC to make this a realityโ€.

Still in shock! Thank you so much โค๏ธ 

Thank you to @brpimages for the photos 

#awards #winner #community #proud #volunteering by @stephloutaylor
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5 months ago
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APRIL PHOTO DUMP โค๏ธ 

The month started out FABULOUS at Popilicious Popcorn where the most incredible Drag Queens performed 

Then it was Easter weekend! Nantwich Jazz Fest seeing Tokyo Misfires! Then Easter Dinner with the family! 

Onto Legally Blonde with a record breaking amount of people from our group seeing the show, 9 of us haha! It was incredible and Amber was outstanding! 

Then it was @drewdoran0 birthday celebrations! 30??? Can you believe it?? 

Then my bestie and soulsisterโ€™s birthday celebrations at the Trafford Centre ๐ŸŽ‰ 

Then the best experience being on a entrepreneurial panel discussing to an audience about our experiences through venture and what happened after! 

And ending on my floofbaby Niece Lottie who held me captive ๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿฅฐโค๏ธ by @stephloutaylor
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5 months ago
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Another hilarious water/filter challenge ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ 

#waterchallenge #filterchallenge #filter #challenge #fyp by @stephloutaylor
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6 months ago
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