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The leader in Evolved Er0tic Education & Coaching 🖤
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You’ve done the therapy. Read the books. Hired the coaches. Invested in your health, career, relationships, and personal growth.

But when was the last time you invested in your erotic self?

Not just having more s€x.

I’m talking about understanding your desires, learning how to communicate them, exploring your boundaries, discovering what turns you on, and developing a healthier, more conscious relationship with pleasure.

Because you can be successful in life, have impressive resumes and bank accounts- but still have mediocre intimate experiences and relationships.

And there’s no shame in that. Most of us were never given a meaningful education in this part of ourselves.

But at some point, we have to ask:
How much of ourselves are we leaving unexplored?

This is why I do what I do. And why I believe erotic education deserves a seat at the personal development table.

This clip is from The Initiation, my in-person experiential workshop. Our next one is tentatively planned for April 2027.

But you don’t have to wait until then to start exploring. ❤️‍🔥

My 5-day Tied & Teased online course is just $27 and introduces you to conscious k!nk, communication, bondage, impact play, and more, all from the comfort of your own home.

Consider it a little invitation to discover what else is possible. Your erotic education starts here. 🔗 in B!0 - @andmorepresents

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Curious about play parties, but a little nervous about actually going to one?

I hear this ALL the time.

What if nobody wants to play with me?
What if someone wants to play with me and I don’t want to?
What if my partner is excited, but I’m not quite ready?
What if I feel awkward, overwhelmed, or completely out of my element?

These are all valid concerns. And they’re exactly why I created The Initiation.

Because here’s the thing: Knowledge is power. And preparation creates confidence.

When you understand how to communicate, navigate consent, honor your boundaries, regulate your nervous system, and create your own experience, suddenly the unknown doesn’t feel quite so intimidating.

That’s what we spend 3 hours learning and PRACTICING inside The Initiation.

And then comes the really fun part. 😈

That evening, you’re invited to our private Playtime Party, a sober, conscious, heart-centered space filled with incredible humans who value connection, curiosity, and play.

You’ll already know many of the people there from class, and my team of Angels and I will be there to support you throughout the experience.

No pressure to perform. No obligation to play. Just permission to explore at your own pace.

Come single. Come partnered. Come curious. Come nervous.

You don’t have to have it all figured out before you arrive. That’s what we’re here for.

🔥 THE INITIATION | OCT 17 | AUSTIN

Our LAST in-person event of 2026, and ONLY 2 SPOTS REMAIN!

🔗 in B!0 to claim the final spots. ❤️‍🔥

@andmorepresents

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What if no one wants to play with you? 🥺

This is where erotic spaces get really interesting. Because sometimes we think we’re hungry for an experience when what we’re actually hungry for is validation.

To be chosen. To feel desirable. To know we still have it. To finally feel like we belong somewhere.

Those are incredibly human desires.

But when you walk into a room unconsciously needing other people to satisfy them, suddenly everyone around you has a job they never agreed to.

They have to make your night worthwhile.

That’s a lot of pressure to bring into a room. And to put on yourself.

And it’s why one of the things I teach at my Playtime Parties is to flip the question.

Instead of walking in asking:
“What am I going to get tonight?”
Try asking:
“Who do I want to BE in this room?”

Maybe you’re warm. Curious. Playful. Generous with your attention.

Maybe you have a beautiful conversation with someone you’ll never touch.

Maybe someone tells you no and you respond with such grace that they feel even safer for having met you.

Maybe you witness something that teaches you something about yourself.

Maybe you play. Maybe you don’t.

You can want things without making your happiness dependent on getting them.

That’s a very different way to enter an erotic space.

It’s one of the reasons I created The Initiation.

I don’t want to simply give you access to a play party.

I want to teach you how to be in one.

For 3 hours before Playtime, we practice communication, consent, attunement, navigating a no, advocating for yourself, regulating your nervous system, negotiating play, and letting go of the pressure to make something happen.

Then you come back that evening and actually get to experience the room you’ve been preparing for.

Not as someone waiting to be chosen.

As someone capable of creating their own experience and contributing to everyone else’s.

Our Oct 17th Initiation in Austin is our last in-person event of the year. And only 2 spots remain.

If you’ve been curious about stepping into this world, this is where I want you to begin.

🔗 in B!0 - @andmorepresents

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You’re ready. Your partner isn’t. Now what? ↓

Maybe you’ve been following me for months. Watching the videos. Saving posts. Sending a few of them to your partner with a little:
“Soooo...thoughts? 👀”

You’re ready for something new.
You want to play. Explore. Make memories. Discover parts of yourselves you haven’t met yet.

And importantly:
You don’t want to do it without your person.

You love your partner. You want them beside you. Except every time you bring up taking a class, exploring kink, or going to a play party...
you can practically watch their nervous system say:
NOPE.

So you explain. You reassure. You send another Reel. You tell them how amazing it could be.

And when none of that works, maybe you start feeling frustrated.

Why won’t they just try it?
Why are they so scared?
Why can’t they be more open-minded?

Please don’t make their fear something you need to overcome.

So instead of asking:
“How do I get my partner to say yes?”
Try asking:
“How do I create enough safety for my partner to tell me the truth?”

Those are VERY different goals.

Because you don’t actually want your partner reluctantly walking into a play party thinking: Fine. I’m doing this because they want me to.

That’s not sexy. That’s not connection. And frankly, it’s not the yes you were hoping for anyway.

Maybe the next step is simply: “Would you be willing to learn about this with me?”

That’s one of the reasons I created
The Initiation.
It’s 3 hours of education and practice around consent, communication, attunement, boundaries, desires, nervous-system regulation, and how to navigate erotic spaces with confidence.

And here’s something I really want couples to understand:
Attending The Initiation does NOT obligate you to attend the Playtime Party afterward.

Come learn. Meet us. Ask questions. Experience the community. Pay attention to your body.

Then decide.

And if an in-person experience still feels like a-lot - start even smaller.

My 5-day Tied & Teased online course is 27, and you can explore the work privately together at home.

Ready to be in the room?

The Initiation - Oct 17 | Austin
Our last event of the year
Only 2 spots left!

🔗 in B!0

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If you imagine a play party as an all-you-can-eat buffet of er0tic possibility, there’s something I want you to understand before you grab your plate…

Please whatever you do - don’t show up starving.

Because people arrive hungry for: Touch. Attention. Validation. Adventure. Community. To feel desirable. To feel chosen. To finally feel something.

And none of those desires are wrong. But when you walk into a space expecting the room to feed all of that hunger, you bring a LOT of pressure with you.

You’re no longer experiencing the room. You’re trying to extract something from it. And people can totally feel that.

It’s one of the reasons I teach something very different at the Initiation (my play party primer).

Instead of walking through the door asking:
“What am I going to get?”
I want you to get curious about:
“What can I contribute?”

Because here’s what I’ve discovered after more than 20 years in these spaces:

Put a bunch of people in a room who are all trying to GET something, and the room gets hungry. There’s a “taker” energy that feels off and crunchy.

Put a bunch of people in a room asking what they can contribute?

People relax. They connect. They become generous with one another. Play emerges organically instead of being forced.

And eros has room to breathe. And it feels absolutely magical!

That’s the culture I care about creating. And it’s also why you can’t simply buy a ticket to one of my Playtime play parties.

Before you enter Playtime, I want you to understand how to be in the room.

That’s what we practice inside The Initiation- a 3-hour workshop where you’ll learn how to navigate er0tic spaces with confidence, communicate and negotiate play, attune to others, receive a no, advocate for yourself, regulate your nervous system, and let go of the expectation that something particular has to happen for the night to be worthwhile.

Then that evening, you join us for Playtime and get to put it into practice.

The Initiation
Sat, Oct 17th in Austin.
It’s our last in-person event of the year, and only 6 spots remain.

🔗 in B!0 | @andmorepresents

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When heart and play combine - magic happens. And you always create the best magic @kimiinch 💖

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What a f★cking weekend!

We just completed our 6-month Dom(me) Mastery Training (aka DMT), and I’m still taking it all in.

For 6 months, our students have been investing their time, energy, hearts, and courage into learning the art of Erotic Leadership ™ and Followership.

And this weekend, they got to bring it all into their bodies. They practiced. They created scenes. They experimented. They played. They flowed. They messed up. They tried again. They laughed. They cried. They supported each other.

Sat night we revealed everyone’s Erotic Archetype, and they arrived at the play party dressed as their archetypes. Watching everyone embody these parts of themselves we’d spent months uncovering was ridiculously fun.

And then Sunday, we closed with this beautiful, sacred ceremony filled with tears, reflection and gratitude.

This is why I believe so deeply in experiential learning.

You can read about consent.
You can talk about desire.
You can intellectually understand attunement, boundaries, communication, leadership, surrender…

But eventually, you have to practice being the person you’ve been learning about.

Now, 6 months is a BIG leap of faith.

So if you’re looking at this photo thinking, I want some of THAT in my life, but maybe let’s not start with a 6-month training…

Come to The Initiation.

It’s our 3-hour introduction to navigating erotic spaces with confidence, communication, attunement, and embodied presence, followed that evening by our private Playtime Party, where you get to put what you’ve learned into practice.

It’s also your entry point into this community and future Playtime Parties.

Come curious. Come nervous. And come willing to explore.

Our Oct 17th event in Austin is the LAST one of 2026, and we have 8 spots remaining.
🔗 in B!0 💋

ANGELS: @roxy.ruse | @coachwladimir | @sacred.surrender | @tomas.le.chat |

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Austin! I have 2 seats left in the room. 🔥

This Wednesday night, I’m teaching The Art of Seduction at @elles_boutique___ and I want this room to feel intimate, playful, provocative, and very alive.

We’re going to explore the things that make someone magnetic beyond appearance:

The way you hold attention.
The way you use your voice.
The way you create anticipation.
The way you read another person.
The way you embody your power without needing to perform it.

And because I believe you learn this work by experiencing it- not just talking about it- I’ll also be doing a live 15-min Conscious K!nk Journey demonstration so you can watch these principles come together in real time.

Come curious. Come dressed in whatever makes you feel delicious. Come ready to play with how you create desire- not only in the bedroom, but in the way you move through the world.

The Art of Seduction
Wed, September 23 | 7–8:15 PM
elle’s | Austin

🎟️ Link in B!0

See you Wednesday. 😏 @andmorepresents

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On September 23rd, I’m returning to @elles_boutique___ in Austin, for The Art of Seduction. 🖤

And here’s the thing about seduction…
It’s everywhere.

You’re being seduced all day long- and most of the time, it has absolutely nothing to do with seggs.

The smell coming from a restaurant that suddenly makes you hungry.
The movie trailer that gives you just enough to need to know what happens next.
The outfit in a window that makes you stop.
The story someone starts telling that you can’t walk away from until you know how it ends.

That’s seduction.

At its core, seduction is simply the art of creating desire.

It’s understanding how to create that delicious little space between what someone has…and what they want.

Curiosity. Anticipation. Mystery. Attention.

Giving someone a taste without giving them the whole thing.

And once you understand seduction this way, it becomes so much bigger than looking hot or knowing the “right” thing to say.

It becomes something you can play with.

Your voice.
Your body.
Your attention.
Your presence.
Your ability to read another person and notice what makes them light up, lean in, and want a little more.

That’s what we’ll be exploring together at The Art of Seduction next week.

And yes… we’ll be doing it surrounded by some very beautiful lingerie. 😏

Sept 23 | Elle’s Boutique | Austin, TX

Tickets in B!0

Come play with me. 🖤 @andmorepresents

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MEN: What if being powerful isn’t what you think…
A lot of the men who find their way to me are successful, thoughtful, conscientious men.

They lead. They solve problems. They make decisions. They take care of people. They’re accustomed to being the one others rely on. And many enjoy that role.

But there’s often another curiosity underneath it: What would it feel like to let go?

To not know what’s coming next.
To trust someone else.
To receive instead of provide.
To stop being responsible for everyone else’s experience and simply be in your own.

Surrender does not make a man less powerful. Sometimes it teaches him about power.

I once worked with a man I’ll call Matt. He was accomplished and had spent much of his life being successful, responsible, respectable and in control.

Underneath all of that was a desire he’s carried for decades: He wanted to surrender.

Eventually, I created an experience where he could. But we quickly learned surrender wasn’t actually his greatest edge. Choice was.

Finding his voice. Owning his desires. Asking for what he wanted without knowing whether the answer would be yes.

That experience transformed his understanding of power. And he eventually became a masterful Leader himself and told me:
“I used to believe power was about control. Now I know it’s about choice.”

This is why I believe experiencing both sides of power can be so valuable for men.

Want to become a better Leader?
Learn what it feels like to follow.
Learn how vulnerable trust actually is.
Learn attunement. Pacing. Responsibility.

Or maybe you’re simply tired.

I recently asked a man who described himself as the person “looking out for everybody”:
“When was the last time you felt completely taken care of?”

His response?
“Oh shit. I don’t even know.”

Sometimes a man’s desire to surrender isn’t about weakness. It’s relief.

And then there are men who are simply done with experiences that don’t mean anything. One-night stands. Casual encounters.
Men also want depth. Connection. Presence. An experience that actually matters.

That’s what A Conscious K!nk Journey can offer.

It’s all about expanding your range.

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For the woman who holds everything together…I see you.

You know how to make decisions. Take care of people. Anticipate what needs to happen before anyone else notices.

You manage career, family, the calendar, the emotional temperature of the room.

You’re really good at being capable. And maybe you genuinely love the woman you’ve become.

But underneath all that competence, there can be another question:
Who am I when I don’t have to hold everything together?

I see this often in my work with women.

She wants to receive without immediately thinking about what someone else needs. To stop monitoring herself long enough to actually feel. To surrender.

Or to make noise. Take up space. Ask for what she wants. Be messy. Be powerful.

Sometimes she doesn’t even know what she wants yet.
She just knows:
There’s more.

I once worked with a woman I’ll call Eva. Successful. Polished. Self-aware. And no stranger to submission.

But even her surrender had become something she knew how to do “well.”

She was performing. So her Journey wasn’t about teaching her to submit. It was about giving her permission to stop doing it right.

Afterward, she told me:
“I feel like something inside me has switched back on.”

THAT is what I wish more women understood about this work.

A Conscious K!nk Journey isn’t about deciding you need to surrender. It’s about discovering where your range has become restricted!

Maybe receiving feels vulnerable.
Maybe wanting feels selfish.
Maybe you’re great at giving but uncomfortable when all the attention is on you.
Or maybe surrender is easy, and your edge is discovering your authority.

There is no one way a woman is supposed to be.

We use Eros as a laboratory to explore parts of you your everyday life may never have given you the conditions to meet.

You don’t need to know exactly what you want before you explore. Curiosity is enough.

This post is only a taste of what I’m sharing in my series inside The Underground (my mailing list).

If you want the full series, including what these journeys can offer women, men and couples, join my mailing list, through my B!0. 💋

@andmorepresents

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HOW K!NK IS LIKE A MEDICINE JOURNEY

1. Both can shift your state of consciousness.

Sensation, surrender, anticipation, breath, and intense presence can move you out of your everyday thinking mind and into an altered, deeply embodied state.
We call this subspace/topspace.

Suddenly, you’re not thinking about your responsibilities or who you’re supposed to be. You’re HERE.

2. Both can interrupt deeply practiced patterns.

The person who controls everything gets to surrender.
The person who always accommodates gets to ask for exactly what they want.
The person who lives from the neck up suddenly has a body.
The person who always knows what’s next enters the unknown.

Sometimes you have to step outside your ordinary pattern to actually see it.

3. Both can temporarily loosen your attachment to identity.

I’m the boss. I’m the caretaker. I’m the good girl. I’m the strong one. I’m the person who has it all together.

What happens when, for a few hours, you don’t have to be any of them?

Call it an ego interruption rather than an ego death. You get to discover who else is in there.

4. Both can give you a radically different perspective.

It’s one thing to intellectually understand:
I’m allowed to receive.
I’m allowed to want.
I’m allowed to take up space.
I don’t have to control everything to be safe.

It’s another thing to experience that truth in your body.

5. Both can bring what’s hidden to the surface.

Desire. Fear. Shame. Power. Control. Vulnerability. Grief. Playfulness. Pleasure.

Eros has an uncanny way of showing us where we’re free- and where we’re still holding on.

6. Both can create a felt experience that talking alone couldn’t produce.

Sometimes the breakthrough isn’t another explanation of why you are the way you are. Sometimes it’s giving your nervous system an entirely different experience of what’s possible.

7. Both need INTEGRATION.

The peak experience isn’t the whole journey.
What did you discover?
What surprised you?
What did you learn about your desire, power, boundaries, relationships or capacity to trust?

If you want to learn more, make sure you’re on my mailing list before Monday. 🔗

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