Instagram story viewer> @athomewithmayah> Tagged
POSTS STORIES REELS TAGGED
I only have one picture of him like this on my phone.

But before Black Santa was easy to find in stores…he was my Daddy. 🥹🎅🏾❤️

Every October, my Daddy would start growing his beard. He had a Santa suit custom made, and when Christmas came around, he became Santa.

He’d visit local churches and even set up at his barbershop so families could bring their children to take pictures with a Santa who looked like them.

And I LOVED it.

I’ve always been a Daddy’s girl, so whatever my Daddy was doing, I was somewhere nearby supporting it. 😂 But this was different. It felt familiar. It felt safe. It felt like Christmas.

The community didn’t quite see it that way yet.

Black Santa was unfamiliar. He looked different from the Santa people were accustomed to seeing, and not everyone understood it. After a few seasons, Daddy stopped.

But our family never forgot.

As the years went on, if we couldn’t find Santas that looked like ours, we painted them. We made them. Or sometimes, we just didn’t have Santa at all.

And now, all these years later, I realize why finding Black Santas every Christmas means so much to me.

It was never just about Christmas décor.

It was familiar.
It was safe.
It was fond.
It was home.

It was Daddy. ❤️

So when y’all see me lose my mind over a Black Santa in the middle of Hobby Lobby 😂 just know there’s a little more to the story.

Before Black Santa became part of my Christmas aesthetic…

Black Santa was my Daddy. 🎅🏾❤️

#BlackSanta #BlackSantaMagic #BlackSantaMemories #DaddysGirl #GirlDad
15
Because apparently I don’t know how to just GO TO BED. 😭😂

I had been eyeing the football bell that @sharenalatrese posted and fully intended to BUY one from her because listen…I support paying people for their creativity! 👏🏾

Only problem? She wasn’t selling them (according to the comments), so I watched that tutorial like 10xs 👀

And somehow at 2AM before game day, I convinced myself that meant, “Girl, you can make that.” 😭

So I pulled out the Cricut, gathered what I had, followed her tutorial and made PJ his own custom #21 football bell. 🏈🔔

Was 2AM the appropriate time to start this project? Absolutely not.

Did I finish it?

Obviously. 😂

Shoutout to @sharenalatrese for the original idea + tutorial because THIS sports mama needed it! 🫶🏾

And this is your reminder: sometimes DIY isn’t about inventing something from scratch. Sometimes another creative teaches you something, you give them their flowers, and then you go make it your own. ✨

#FootballMom #SportsMomDIY #CricutProjects #FootballDIY GameDayDIY
16
When your daughter asks for an intimate birthday brunch and suddenly you’re cutting, styling, fluffing, arranging, and doing entirely too much…because that’s just who you are. 😂☕️🎀

And since we’re here…if I have 200 views, I should have 200 likes, because y’all are absolutely not about to watch me work this hard in silence. 🤣

“Spill the Tea: Livy’s Turning 14” is coming together and I’m loving every little detail. 🌸✨

This is the kind of stuff that makes me happy — creating, decorating, making things pretty, and doing the most for the people I love. 💕

Now…back to transforming my Florida room! 

#TeaPartyBirthday #BirthdayTeaPartyIdeas #TeaPartyDecor #14thBirthday #PartyInspo
21
back to up