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When we were Invited to our first rave, @dasenergifestival I went expecting to dance.

Instead, I found myself mostly watching.

And smiling.

Watching hundreds of people move through music in completely different ways. Some wild and expansive. Some barely moving at all. Some with their eyes closed. Some laughing with strangers. Some wrapped up in the people they came with. 💖

And somehow, none of it felt like it needed to be anything other than exactly what it was.

I’ve danced my whole life. Movement has always felt natural to me. I’ve never had much fear around taking up space, being seen, or letting music move through my body.

But this time, I didn’t feel any need to be at the center of it.

I felt full. 🫶

Completely, strangely, beautifully content just witnessing other people find their own version of that freedom.

Maybe that was my favorite part.

There was no right way to move.
No right way to look.
No prerequisite for belonging.

Just human beings remembering, for a few hours, that they could inhabit their bodies without apologizing for them.

And I felt so much gratitude for the friends beside me the kind of people who match my energy without requiring me to create it. Who can meet me in joy, curiosity, ridiculousness, stillness, healing whatever the moment asks for.

I think I’m realizing that wholeness feels a lot quieter than I once imagined it would.

It isn’t being the most interesting person in the room.
It isn’t being admired.
It isn’t even being understood by everyone around you.

Sometimes it’s sitting on the ground in the middle of all that sound and movement, looking around at a sea of people, and feeling absolutely no need to be anywhere else or anyone else.

Just this quiet knowing:

I am already enough.
They are already enough.
We don’t have to earn our right to take up space here.

And maybe there is something incredibly healing about witnessing other people remember that, too.

Thank you for the invite,  the love and the energy from our dear friends and guidance from rave master general  Mel. 🙏🏼#rave #thisiswhowearenow
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The water was that color. I promise we didn’t edit it.

swipe to the end and guess if we fell in. 

Mexico, you had us in a chokehold.
turquoise water. sunset kisses. and one very happy birthday boy in a sombrero. (@crossleyortho )
this trip was everything.
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