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Recapping and discourse about Bachelor Franchise and beyond through a queer, b*tchy, silly goofy lens.
Part of @rosesforeverybody

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My interests have also shifted! Obviously I will always love pop culture news, reality tv, and celebrity gossip, but after talking about it for so long and in such detail, I’m a bit tired. This has brought me a lot of guilt, but I’m choosing to look at it as an era that’s coming to a close, rather than a failure for closing up shop. I learned new skills, made friends, and changed perspectives. I learned a lot about myself and about how I engage with the world.

The new changes in my life feel really good and I’ve decided to lean in. The impact of this though has been less time to work on RTBP. I do not want to diminish its legacy or not provide the quality that you expect and deserve from me so I had to make this difficult decision (after many tears and voice notes!). Projects aren’t meant to last forever; they are there to carry you to the next version of yourself.

I want to say, from the bottom of my heart, thank you. This podcast doesn’t exist without its patrons and I’ve loved all the laughs, thoughtful discussion, and friendship I’ve shared with you all. It’s truly been the best and most rewarding part. There are so many podcasts out there, other content you could watch, or ways to spend your money so to include me in your routine is so special and something I will feel proud of for the rest of my life. I feel so honoured to be welcomed into your homes every week! And I feel so cared for everytime you indicate that you are interested in what I have to say and my life behind the podcast.

Thank you to all my podcast guests for bringing their expertise, their jokes, and their analysis! I’ve made countless friends that I hope to stay in touch with. The pod really isn’t anything without y’all! Thank you for everything.

Yours in pettiness,

Torry xo

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1. Album artwork photoshoot 2. Recording with Nick 3. The funniest story I told on the pod 4. Kylie Halloween inspo 5. Nashville PC trip 6. Recording with Jenna 7. Recording with Cam and Gabbie 8. Recording with Nick 9. Recording with Jenn 10. Livestreaming

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We love a good origin story! We owe ours to Taylor Swift and @datecardpod 🌼

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We’re closing out our time with Bachelor Bob with a guest we’ve been dying to have on the show: Jenna from @datecardpod and the @rosesforeverybody campaign! We talk about how Bob was framed as the “fat bachelor” back in 2003, what’s happened with body diversity on the show since then, and what good body representation would look like on the franchise!

#TheBachelor #BachelorNation #rosesforeverybody

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For this week’s Bachelor In Paradise recap, we are joined by our friend @datecardpod. Dale, Kat, ‘Deadedgate’, Gary/Leslie/Natascha, Jonathan scrambling, and body shots. We get into it all!

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June was so fufilling 🌈🧡🩷✨

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We’re on YouTube as well and I finally learned out how to make thumbnails lmao link in bio

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Long post — but I hope you listen.

I’ve been getting messages asking for my thoughts on The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2, and honestly… I’ve got a lot to say.

Because this show isn’t just entertainment — it’s a mirror.

It shows what happens when queer people try to build love while still healing.

It’s not just about polyamory.
It’s not just about therapy.
It’s about survival, abandonment, unlearning what we were taught love had to be.

It’s about trying to be seen when you’ve never felt safe enough to show up fully.

And yes, it’s messy. But real love often is.

Excited to see how it unfolds.
Just remember: these are real people.
Be kind. Be soft. 🏳️‍🌈🫶🏼

#TheUltimatum #QueerLove #Netflix #FYP #WLWVoices #RealityTV #HealingJourney #LoveIsWork #ChosenFamily #TherapyIsATool #PolyamoryTruth #UltimatumQueerLove #QueerTikTok #LatinaWLW #POC #lgbt #Love #Insight #Therapy #WLW #Lesbians #lgbt+

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There were roses🌹, rocks🪨, sangria🍹, and a dramatic bull 🐂 this episode. A shocking self elimination and yet another contestant who doesn’t like how the show works…

👊 Hit the link in bio to hear us as we join Jenna on the @datecardpod and talk through the insanity and as always get into some extremely interesting tangents ☕️🫖

#thebachelor #grantellis #thebachelorette #bachelorinparadise #goldenbachelor #goldenbachelorette #abc #basketballplayers #baller #momswhowatchbachelor #truelove #realitydatingshows #podcast #newepisode #podcastcollab #datecard

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I’m baaaaaaack 🥳😇 after a very long off season (and skipping golden bachelorette almost entirely), I have returned from the depths of my competition reality show-filled summer and fall to get back into my OG fave. And of course I’m back with astrology!!! ✨🪐🌙

This is a fire and water sign heavy season so you KNOW the drama is coming! I’m surprised there’s no Cancer or Capricorn representation at all, but probably for the better since Sagittarius Grant might lean more toward the Geminis, Libras and fellow fire signs. I’m excited to see how it unfolds!! 🌹

PS hi @actual_sav_quinn what’s your sign?? 🙏🏼

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I am reaching out to my community for support during a rough time in my life.

In October I pinched a sciatic nerve on my right side. After a few weeks of working through the pain I had to take a break to heal.

I have done numerous therapies and things to get better as fast as I could so I could return to work as soon as possible - and it’s working. However, nannying is a necessity for the families I worked for and after a mutual discussion we decided to part ways, resulting in me being let go. Although I enjoyed my time with these families, in the end it is better for me to find a new job. This does mean I entered a period of no work… after a stint of time off.

Despite experiencing anxiety about my health and future income possibilities, I am staying positive and have plans in place for a great start to this new year feeling better and being employed. But the fact is I need help getting through this rough patch till income starts coming in again. And I am at a point where I cannot put off asking for help any longer due to my anxiety.

I need help paying basic needs such as rent, utilities, and assistance with my car troubles (repairs and replacement costs).

Any help is genuinely so appreciated. I know it’s the holiday season and things are hard for everyone and so I thank you for reading, considering, and sharing. You can screenshot and share or share this post. Link is also in my description. 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

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🎙️ On today’s episode of Good Girls Bad Days, we’re talking all things Bachelor, Twilight, and Taylor Swift—oh my! 💫

Our special guest, the fabulous Jenna Vesper (@datecardpod + @supermassivetwilighthole), dives deep into her mental health journey and shares how a sparkly vampire saga and a certain blonde pop icon helped her along the way. 🖤✨

Tune in for laughs, insights, and maybe even a little Edward vs. Jacob debate. 🌹🐺💔 Swifties and Twihards, this one’s for you! 💃🎶

🔗 Link in bio to listen! #GoodGirlsBadDays #TaylorSwift #Twilight #BachelorNation #MentalHealthMatters #PodcastLife #PopCulturePodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Swifties #Twihards #TeamEdward #TeamJacob #TaylorSwiftEra #PodcastEpisodes #TwilightSaga #selfcarejourney

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Congratulations to @joan_vassos and her season winner and new fiance @chockchapple!!! 💍💛📀📀📀 we are so happy for the first ever Golden Bachelorette couple and couldn’t have had more fun breaking down the finale events than with none other than Jenna from @datecardpod !!!!

Hit the link in bio to hear our thoughts as her journey wraps up, some updates and speculation about it the next bachelor season with @grantellis__ , and some overall updates in @bachelornation !!! 🥰🌹🔥

Thank you all for listening in as we wrap up our third season of @bachelorbuzzpodcast 💜

See you again in Jan 27 as✨ Grant’s✨season kicks off but if you’re lucky we may drop some bonus episodes in the meantime 😜

#seasonfinale #thegoldenbachelorette #bachelornation #goldenbachelorettewednesday #thegoldenbachelor #thebachelorabc #goldenyears #joanvassos #likefinewine #buzzed #abc #podcasts #momswhowatchthebachelor

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