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Author of GOOD APPLE and IT WAS AN UGLY COUCH ANYWAY. Contributing editor @southernlivingmag
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How do you capture the little moments? The day-to-day that builds into your life story? 

I keep what I call a “Joy Jar”— a log of something beautiful that happens each day. It’s an exercise in gratitude. In the good times the jar holds entire stories, text exchanges, photographs. In the harder times, barely-there snippets. 

I’ve kept a daily log since early 2024, and in what turned into a year of great transition – the loss of loved ones and a job – it became both a record capturing my life as it happened … and as I chose to experience it.

A year in, I began re-reading the excerpts, a chance to look back in real time at how my life has morphed in (at first) small, almost un-noticeable ways, building to change so big I barely recognize where I am now from where I was then. Mostly it has shown me that during a period of great loss, I was carried by a (growing!!) community of people who refused to let me fall. 

I’ve been thinking a lot about my next page — not just my new literacy nonprofit, @nextpageworkshop, of the same name (coincidence? certainly not) – but rather what I want out of my own future more generally. And while I’m not one of those people who maps out my life (I don’t even bother with a calendar some weeks), I do have an idea of the direction. It’s a route laid out in these past few months: my first public reading in New York, shooting a new doc in LA, lots and lots of picnics and terrace parties and @harlemrun … and with it the joy I’d been seeking all along. 

So no matter what part of the story you’re in, here’s to turning the page. I hope your next one is filled with all the joy you need to carry you through.✨

#MyJoyJar #memoir #dailylife #everyday #amwriting #writerslife #lifeofajournalist Writer and investigative reporter Emily Palmer laughing at sunset with the New York City skyline behind her. Overlaid text reads: “My Next PAGE: Excerpts from my Joy Jar, Spring / Summer 2025.”
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I’ve been counting down the days until I could share all the details with you…

🥳 I WROTE A BOOK! I cry/smile every time I see the cover and think about you holding it in your hands while you’re curled up in bed after a long day.

A HUGE thank you to Elizabeth Passarella (@espassarella), Christie Purifoy (@christiepurifoy), Sandra Glahn (@sandraglahn), Erin Loechner, and Lisa-Jo Baker (@lisajobaker) for their tremendous generosity in reviewing an early copy of my book. I have witnessed the warm support of the literary community through the gift of their time and expertise, and it has given me a much-needed boost on my publishing journey!

Join me in celebrating my new book, Good (Enough) Mother! It releases on March 11, 2025 and it’s available right now for preorder.

➡️Comment BOOK and I’ll send you a link with all the details.

This is my story of becoming a mom against all medical odds. This book is for you if you’re a mom—or someone exploring what it truly means to love and be loved. And if you appreciate a touch of humor in our messy world.

This book is quirky. It doesn’t fit neatly in a box and definitely doesn’t tie up in a pretty bow. Honestly, I ask more questions than I have answers—and I love that.

✨Preorders are the best way to support any author! It helps create buzz about this book. As a huge thank you for preordering, I’m giving you instant FREE access to my Journaling 101 course so you can start writing your story today.

THANK YOU to every single person who continues to support my work! It means more than you even know. ❤️

Let the fun begin! #goodenoughmotherbook
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