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I don’t think people realise that betrayal doesn’t end the day it happens.

It follows you, It shows up in the relationships that come after. It makes you question your intuition & makes you wonder if you’re asking for too much... or not enough. It makes you hesitate before fully trusting someone again.

I’ve experienced betrayal in different forms throughout my life, not just in love but In friendships, In people I thought would never hurt me.

For a long time, I hated what it did to me.

I hated that I became more guarded, that I questioned people’s intentions, that I sometimes expected to be disappointed before anything had even gone wrong.

But healing has taught me something I never expected... Betrayal didn’t change my heart, It changed my standards.

I don’t chase people anymore & I don’t ignore red flags to keep the peace, I don’t people please at the expense of myself either. 

I’ve learnt that not everyone deserves access to me & my circle is smaller now, my boundaries are stronger. My peace matters more than being liked.

And while there are moments I wish I’d never experienced the hurt... I also know I wouldn’t be the woman I am today without it.

If you’ve been betrayed, I hope you know this...
You don’t have to become hard & you don’t have to stop believing there are good people.

Just become more discerning about who earns your trust. Because healing isn’t about pretending it never happened.

It’s about refusing to let what broke you decide who you become. For some reason that was on my heart to share with you today xx
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🖤 AN EXCERPT FROM FROM MY SPEECH FOR @ariane_farrell_ 🖤 

My AriGal….. 

Thank you for choosing me and trusting me with your heart. 

Thank you for always buying two of all your instagram ad purchases just so you can give me one.

Thank you for loving our Broke Bestie so hard and giving her a safe space outside of my arms.

Thank you for not letting me cut you off and run away when things got a bit too vulnerable and hard.

Thank you for healing parts of my heart you didn’t break.

Thank you for making me feel as beautiful on the inside as you do on the outside.

And thank you for being YOU. I hope tonight of all nights, you finally see yourself the way the rest of us see you because Ariane Farrell you really are SO easy to love!
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Photos @billiebluephotos 
Makeup @maryestellemakeup 
Hair @hair_by_ariane 
Dress & jacket are oldies but goodies pulled last minute from my wardrobe and accessorised with my new @oosteromofficial belt from @alexandraeve8 tied together with a @blakthelabel rope belt I stole from my friend @juzza + @gucci heels 🖤
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Every collection just keeps getting better! Like I want EVERYTHING, so many beautiful pieces. Every little detail tonight was so thought out & was so nice seeing everyone dressed in the new pre fall pieces 👏🏽 

I’m wearing the Marco pant and the ignite bomber jacket both in burgundy. OBSESSED!!

@blakthelabel 
So proud of you @teresahodges_blak
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LIFE LATELY…. There has been a bit on!!! 

Business wins, fun events, celebrating the birthdays of people I love, dance mum life, lots of health, lots of wine, creating things I’m proud of AND the HUGE, unforgettable privilege of helping to bring the most incredible little boy into the world 🤍 

…… it is only March!!!!! 🎉
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Such a beautiful night with beautiful people @blakthelabel new RESORT 26 range. Thankyou for always dressing me in the most gorgeous outfits! How cute is this new set i’m wearing, so perfect for this summer!

So proud of you @teresahodges_blak 🐚
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heart is happy 🥹
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