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I’ve been sitting with this one.

Coming down from what was genuinely the happiest week of our lives, I’ve realized how lucky I am to live inside a bubble filled with love. My husband and I are surrounded by family, friends and a community that celebrates us exactly as we are. Sometimes I forget just how much of a privilege that is.

Then my mom proudly shared photos from her son’s wedding on Facebook. Her post went viral. And alongside so much love came this.

It was a reality check I didn’t expect, but maybe one I needed.

Because this isn’t really about us or our wedding. We are fortunate enough to have a circle that makes us feel safe, supported and celebrated. This is about everyone who doesn’t.

The queer kid reading comments like these. LGBTQIA+ people who still don’t feel safe living openly. Minorities and marginalized communities who are made to feel less than because of who they are. And anyone who has ever been judged, excluded or made to feel like they don’t belong.

I’ll admit that being comfortable inside my own bubble has sometimes allowed me to be quieter than I should be. This reminded me that having a safe space shouldn’t mean staying silent outside of it.

We have to stand up for one another, especially when the hate isn’t directed at us.

This isn’t about left or right. It’s about how we choose to treat other human beings. Speak up. Be louder about love. Stand beside people experiencing adversity. Defend people’s right to exist, love and live authentically, even when their experience looks nothing like your own.

To anyone who has ever been made to feel like they need to shrink themselves to make someone else more comfortable: there are people standing with you. I want to make sure I’m one of them, loudly.

Love still wins. Every single time. ♾️

#LoveIsLove #LGBTQVoices #Pride #ChooseLove #StandTogether
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A year ago today, April 25th — the perfect date. Not too hot, not too cold…

Just us at the courthouse ♾️

With everything going on in the world, we knew it was the right decision for our future to make it official sooner rather than later.

Locked in & counting down to the real celebration… 133 days ♡
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pov: you’re a disposable camera at our party ♥️💋🌹‼️💥🚨🆘❤️‍🔥🥵🍷
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𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘥𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘶𝘭𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘨𝘩 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘬 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘦𝘯𝘨𝘢𝘨𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵… 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘬 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘣𝘰𝘵𝘵𝘰𝘮 𝘰𝘧 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘮𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘤𝘪𝘳𝘤𝘭𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘢𝘯 𝘦𝘹𝘵𝘳𝘢 𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘢𝘭 𝘤𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘣𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘧𝘭𝘶𝘹 𝘰𝘧 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘮𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘢𝘨𝘦𝘴. 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘴 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘣𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘴𝘰 𝘧𝘶𝘭𝘭 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘯𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘸𝘢𝘪𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵’𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 — 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴, 𝘈+𝘙 ♡
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