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Noise and claps for Mr. and Mrs. Crooooooom 👏🏻

Bringing all of our family and friends to Mexico to celebrate our love was the most incredible experience that we will be reliving over and over for the rest of our lives 🥹😭🥹 I surprised Wes with the song I walked down the aisle to and he surprised me by having my dad and one of our best friends play our first dance song. Can’t wait to relive it again when the professional photos come in!
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This morning we head to witness the marriage of Morrie Hudiburg & Wes Crum. 
I think Eryn sent this to me as some advice to share with her daughter. 
It showed up in my Substack feed and same for women as men. As said, “for richer, for poorer til death do we part”. 
Life is a roller coaster and who better to share it with than someone you’ve grown up with. 

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My Grandparents Were Married For 60 Years.

One Day I Asked My Grandfather:

“What’s The Secret To Loving The Same Woman For A Lifetime?”

He didn’t laugh.

He didn’t say “communication.”

He didn’t say “date nights.”

He looked at my grandmother, who was in the kitchen, and said:

“You don’t love the same woman.”

That confused me.

He said, “She changes every few years. And if you don’t update the way you love her, you lose her.”

He told me the girl he married at 22 wasn’t the same woman at 30.

Motherhood changed her.

Loss changed her.

Time changed her.

“At 40,” he said, “she needed respect more than romance.

At 50, she needed partnership more than passion.

At 60, she needed presence more than promises.”

And every time she changed, he had a choice:

Complain that she’s “not like she used to be.”

Or learn her again.

He said the biggest mistake men make is this:

They fall in love once.

Then stop paying attention.

“Loving a woman for a lifetime,” he told me,

“is deciding to stay curious about her.”

Not assuming you know her.

Not freezing her in the version you met.

He leaned back and said something I’ll never forget:

“If you stop studying her, someone else eventually will.”

Sixty years.

Not because it was easy.

Because he kept relearning her.
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Some of my fav pics from the big couple of days! For the whole library of pics, hit up FB. @patjohnsonphoto could not have done a better job!!! We were so happy to have you there ♥️
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Projectors not-self theme is bitterness + their signature is success // recognition.

And there’s a reason for it! Here are my reflections: 

Have you ever tried to guide a car out of a tight parking spot + have it not go well...?

Projectors are here to guide. They’re designed to be in relationship, connecting, using their penetrating aura to recognize  gifts, identify what’s not working, + offer their one of a kind advice.

When their gift of guidance is welcomed, received + appreciated - when the car gets out of the tight spot without a scratch on it - everyone jumps up + down and says thank you, hugs all around, “let me buy you coffee!”

Good, invited guidance needs to be successful. Projectors need that, the collective needs it. What would the world be without it? Stuck in a tight spot with no help. 

Feeling successful means not only did a projector follow their S+A but that their beautiful penetrating aura did its job + did it well. They didn’t overextend their energy resources, they were recognized + rewarded properly for their contribution.

It is...for lack of a better word...a complete success. 

When a projector is advising and recognizing others but not receiving + being recognized themselves, when they’re over extending + burning out, when they’re pushing their guidance without invitation + therefore not being heard or recognized for their contributions. Bitterness. Saltiness. No good very bad days. 

Honoring and choosing to feel and find success is protective for you, my lovely Projectors. It’s healthy. It’s making sure the energy you do have (which isn’t always very much) is making an impact. Aligning with the feeling and/or desire of being recognized, and successful - it’s not selfish, it’s meaningful + good for you.

I think it’s important to remember that what success looks and feels like in your life is up to you. You can find this feeling every day by asking yourself “what does success feel like today.” “What can I do right now to feel successful.”

And as always, be mindful of the mind. Of the shoulds. Of forcing yourself to do something because you *think* it will make you feel successful. Your sense of success is personal, so be gentle!!
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