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Love Him @pastordonj | #BoyMom
Certified Marriage Coach | Wife Coach |
Relationship Coach @marriagekeys

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One Key 🔑 we teach our clients is give each other “Grace to Grow”.

Give Each Other Room to Evolve

The person you married will grow, change, mature, and discover new dreams. Don’t punish your spouse for becoming a better version of themselves.

“Marriage isn’t about staying the same; it’s about growing together.” @marriagekeys

#marriage #relationships #relationshipgoals #marriagekeys #marriagegoals

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What changes when you’re connected? ⁣
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Support shows up. Accountability kicks in. Your capacity grows. Healing happens. And somewhere along the way, you find out who you really are. Join the global house for a virtual conversation on Tuesday, Sept. 29, at 7 p.m. CT. ⁣
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Register now at TPHD.org/eMixer 💻

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Happy Birthday to my loving wife, my best friend, and my partner in this journey called life. ❤️ @phaedracjohnson

Today, I celebrate YOU and thank God for the incredible woman you are. When I look back over the years, I’m reminded of just how much you have ridden with me through every season the highs, the lows, the victories, the challenges, the dreams, and everything in between.

Thank you for believing in me, standing beside me, encouraging me, and continuing to ride with me even when the road wasn’t always easy. Your love, patience, strength, and presence have meant more to me than words can ever fully express.

We’ve traveled a lot of miles together, and I’m grateful that I get to do life with you. I wouldn’t trade our journey, our memories, our laughter, our lessons, or the life we’re continuing to build together.

I love you, I appreciate you, and I’m grateful for you. My prayer is that this new year of your life brings you the same joy, love, and blessing that you have poured into so many others.

Happy Birthday, my love! Here’s to many more years, more adventures, more laughter, and more life together. ❤️🎂🥂

I’m still riding with you! #happybirthday #marriage #relationships #happy #birthday

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The Baker shall remain Anonymous if they choose to. However, this (Oreo Cookie Cinnamon Roll) is absolutely DANGEROUS! We had to pull out the Paper plate because we knew it was about to get MESSY! If Cinnabon tries to do this, you saw it here First! #oreo #cookie #cinnamon #roll

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When we listen only to formulate our reply, we miss the opportunity to understand their perspective, their feelings, and what they’re really trying to say.
Listen to understand, not just to respond. You might be surprised by what changes when you do.
@marriagekeys @phaedracjohnson #21keysforabettermarriage #marriagekeys #relationships #relationshipgoals

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We are incredibly grateful to have been part of a truly historic moment at @investfestival

It was an absolute honor to serve as a speaker and my wife and I participating in a book signing for our book (21 Keys for a Better Marriage). Also, connecting with an incredible community of entrepreneurs, leaders, innovators, and visionaries.

With 30,000+ attendees, 400+ vendors, 100+ speakers, and countless lives impacted. @investfestival and @earnyourleisure continues to create a powerful platform for connection, inspiration, entrepreneurship, and transformation.

Invest in yourself. Get in the room.
Expand your network. Elevate your vision.

@investfestival 2027: We’ll see you there!

#investfest2026 #invest
S/O @wlewisiv

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MARRIAGE RETREAT 2026!

Exciting News: Our Relationship company @marriagekeys is partnering with @foreverforwardmarriage. Together we are building a retreat for healthy marriages. An environment for healthy relationships to flourish. A private retreat for couples who genuinely love being married.

Not therapy. Not recovery. A celebration of the life you’ve already built together. (Link in Bio)

*Space is Limited*

Let’s Go! @s2spodcast @etthehiphoppreacher @9to5millionaire @cking1128 @candisquinney

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So much to be thankful for but first let me thank @michaeljmacdonald @earnyourleisure and @roesson for gifting myself and my @theblack_xchange community tickets to be in these rooms. Huge shoutout to @marvelbishop and @onlythebesacademy for letting me join your media team as well! I got to see @investfestival from a different lens this year and meet some amazing people turned community. I cant wait to continue sharing the amazing interviews I had.

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When you become the director for @pastordonj when he's off stage 😂

#Minishotta
#marriagekeys x #Investfest
#eyl #bts

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What an incredible honor and opportunity to have spoken at @investfestival! We’re truly grateful to stand on a platform that brings together visionaries, entrepreneurs, investors, and leaders who are committed to building, growing, and creating impact. The energy was unmatched.
My wife @phaedracjohnson and I got the opportunity to do a Book Signing for our book (21 Keys for a Better Marriage), network and dance. The conversations were powerful, and being able to share our voice, experiences, and insights with such an amazing audience was a moment we will never forget. We’re excited about what’s ahead and deeply thankful for every opportunity to pour into people, inspire the next generation of leaders, and add value to the entrepreneurial community. @investfestival was more than an event. It’s a Movement!

Thank you! @earnyourleisure @troymillings @rashadbilal @michaeljmacdonald @mgthemortgageguy @themasterinvestor and so many others…

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“We’re Back!” Here’s a Marriage Key: “Seek to Understand before You Seek to be Understood!”

Great relationships are not built merely on speaking well, but on listening deeply. Listening communicates value, respect, and understanding in ways that words alone cannot. Many relationships struggle not because people have nothing to say, but because they fail to hear one another. Listening allows us to respond with wisdom instead of reaction, empathy instead of judgment, and unity instead of conflict. In every healthy relationship whether in marriage, friendship, family, or leadership people feel most loved when they know they have been heard.
#Marriagekeys #marriage #relationships #communication #relationshipgoals

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Have you been wrestling with the tension between what you want and what God is calling you toward? That’s a real place to be, sis. And while obedience can feel slow, costly, resistant, or unclear in the moment, don’t abandon the assignment just because it’s stretching you. Stay faithful in it. The harvest is tied to your endurance, not your ease.

Here’s what 𝗚𝗮𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗮𝗻𝘀 𝟲:𝟵 can look like in real life:

➜ Doing the right thing when no one claps for it.
➜ Continuing to sow faithfulness when results feel delayed.
➜ Choosing integrity when cutting corners would be easier.
➜ Staying kind when people are difficult, dismissive, or misunderstand you.
➜ Remaining faithful when your environment is pushing you to compromise or quit.
➜ Holding your values in spaces that try to reshape or shrink you.
➜ Choosing healing and wholeness over inherited survival patterns.

This is what staying rogue looks like. And in due season, it will not be wasted. So wear the life God has laid out for you instead of squeezing yourself into something that was never designed to fit. Trust that what He is tailoring for you is good.

More insight on staying faithful in seasons of resistance in this week's 𝗥𝗼𝗴𝘂𝗲 𝗥𝗲𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁!

𝗦𝘂𝗯𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗯𝗲 𝘁𝗼𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗼𝗹𝘃𝗲.𝗰𝗼𝗺/𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁.

#womanevolve #devotional #mondaymotivation

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