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PHOEBE DAMARIS GUBB

@phoebedamaris

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〰️ raising kids with @joegubb_focus_puller
〰️ thirty years young, v old values
〰️ skate, camp, hike, picnic, ebike, sisterhood!
〰 Hampshire, uk 🇬🇧

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Not your average mum-in-law. Judging from my most loved videos, it turns out it’s not cute family home scenes that you want, but family dress ups 🤣

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If this birthday party doesn’t make it to the West Berkshire news I’l be gutted. 60 people dressed for a day on the riverbank gathered at the top of a hill for @beverleysmakerys birthday! So much fun- im still laughing thinking about it.

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Just wondering why were all trapped up in our homes, washing up solo, and over complicating when we can be doing this ⬆️
Wholesome upon wholesome with a side of dihorrea.

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After a premature, breech, Emergancy c section birth, an ambulance to a surgery for my newborn and a sudden death in the family, over a Christmas period, I was so overcome trying to navigate fragmented parts of my birth story and my entrance to motherhood.

Tracy was recommended to me
And after working with Tracy I left with this truth - ‘your nervous system can heal.’

I am now 31 weeks pregnant with my next child and with the help of Tracy and her sessions we were able to reposition how I look back on my entrance to motherhood and trust onwards and inwards that my next story is being written and I can heal and cope with what’s coming.

I experienced such a rocky start to motherhood with a traumatic birth, and I had wrote off my needs as some friends to seemed to have it much harder - or even more traumatic…but Tracy held me and my story.

She listened to me and validated my feelings.

This is what I needed and what women need post partum, their stories held.

Alongside Tracy and a supportive community, my church, and my friends, I’m out the other side.

Tracy gives plenty of materials and work in our own time too, the homework is on you after jam packed sessions.

This for example lead me to writing down my story in my own time once my kids were asleep to reflect back to her … and I know this was very valuable now in being able to love and retell what happened as I hold
the things that didn’t happen, Should’ve happened and Could’ve happened .. moments which now play out less and less as I approach another birth and it’s hard to look back at some photos of that time, but I’m safe in the knowledge I can move forward and carry what I’ve been through - it’s been tough but it’s been the making of me.

I’m so grateful we got these sessions booked and if I could afford it I would have done more and paid for all my new mumma friends to do the same.

Each birth and story needs to be held - this is the way you can.
#emotionalwellbeing #doingthebestican #newbornlifestyle #ptsdsupport #wellbeing #bekind #birthtraumaisreal #birthtraumarecovery #newbornlifestyle #regulation #postnatalawareness
Thank you @phoebedamaris for sharing your precious story

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places + faces

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A week in Port Isaac.
Inhaling the smell of the outdoors on their hair and skin, my first +6 hour stint of sleep (yay Lazarus), late nights and lie ins, hands to hold my babies, seagulls stealing ice creams, sea-shanty singers and family grace sung round the table at dinner time. So thankful.

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countdown for 🏡🇬🇧

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MERCY SHIP DIARIES 3.0

some goodbyes and some HELLOs - one week down working with @mercyships in Sierra Leone 🤍🤍🇸🇱

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home again 🤍

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Look at that glorious sky - thanks Joe and Phoebe for a memorable weekend together!

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My kids are awesome and my heart is full each time I'm with them - ever since they were born - thank you Jesus ♥️♥️♥️♥️

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