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Riley ✨ | Psychic Channel & Intuitive Business Coach

@rileygoben

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Insecure women call it arrogance. Secure women call it knowing you’re a MIRACLE 😏

I went from friends who wanted me to humble myself to women who constantly hype me up and encourage me to become an even hotter, louder, richer and more confident menace😈🩷

And that didn’t happen by accident.

My friendships changed when I stopped tolerating jealousy, stopped taking responsibility for other women’s insecurities and stopped measuring my own worth against the women around me.

I stopped downplaying my wins, pretending I didn’t know I looked AMAZING and entertaining passive-aggressive comments just to keep the peace.

But I also had to look at MYSELF.

BECAUSE YOU CAN’T SECRETLY COMPETE WITH OTHER WOMEN AND EXPECT TO BUILD FRIENDSHIPS THAT DON’T FEEL LIKE A COMPETITION.

I stopped treating another woman’s beauty, confidence or success like it had anything to do with my own worth.

And I became the kind of friend I wanted to have.

The kind who gets genuinely soooo excited when another woman wins, celebrates her beauty without comparing, and can call her out on her bullshit without tearing her down.

I DON’T NEED THEM TO BE LESS TO FEEL INCREDIBLE ABOUT MYSELF.

And that’s exactly the kind of women I surround myself with today.

Women who don’t need me to be less confident to feel secure. Who can celebrate my wins without comparing them to their own. Who encourage me to be even MORE myself instead of asking me to tone it down.

Some women are uncomfortable when their friends know they’re freakin gorgeous.

MY FRIENDS ARE UNCOMFORTABLE WHEN I DON’T ACT LIKE I KNOW I’M FREAKIN GORGEOUS 😂😭

Because that’s what happens when friendships are built on genuine admiration instead of silent competition.

THE RIGHT WOMEN DON’T NEED YOU TO TONE YOURSELF DOWN. THEY ENCOURAGE YOU TO TURN IT THE FUCK UPPPP. 💋❤️‍🔥

@rileygoben I LOVE YOU BABEEE 😭🩷

And forever grateful to my mentor @madimaple for creating HOT GIRL $HIT and bringing together some of the most ICONIC, talented, powerful, confident, badass women into the same room. ONE OF THE BEST EXPERIENCES OF MY ENTIRE LIFE and the friendships that came out of it??? PRICELESS 💋

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This summer was the shit, and so are my people

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The most magical birthday ever!! 🧚🤍🌞 Surround by so much LOVE & light ✨

#spiritual #111 #spirituality #girlythings #lakehouse 🧚

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God forbid the girls crush a bag of crab and wash it down with some ultras

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Dude, I missed my guys. but seriously all of them need to stop trying to make me play pool it’s not gonna happen

- also I just found out about this multiple caption thing yall sit down for this

I got embarrassed and wanted to take pics thanks

Seriously don’t talk to us when this comes on

You’re pissing us off @trumanblack

Third wheelin w jayries

We won $1

Crystal from the bar shared some wisdom to the group

Had to take a pic with Crystal

And one without her

I almost hit myself with a hammer I think 4 times

Livs truck

George and Phil made the board don’t be fooled

Russell and Chris being fire

My jayrs being all cute

Russell and her sock

Dudes locked in

Wholesome shit. What about it

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Lil bita summer over there

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Lil bita summer over here

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Tirelessly keeping up with the Gen Z trends 😭😭😭😭😭

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A few weeks ago I got my shit rocked.

I was just coming off a 4 day branding bender in Las Vegas w/ @madimaple

Constant photoshoots. Insane stimmmmyyy conversations about business + content.

Making our own trending videos.

And if you told me 24 hours beforehand I’d be doing trends?

I would’ve gagged lmao.

But I love + trust Madi, and she invited us into it and 15 minutes later I wanted to make 15 more.

We made one video that was “me after you took 85 bad pictures of me” and laughed our asses off for 20 minutes straight.

I hadn’t laughed THAT hard in so long.

And on my flight back to San Diego that Monday, I kept thinking about her.

How much FUN she has in + outside of business.

How she built a business that creates impact and lets her live the life she actually wants + going to all the music festivals her heart desires

And I realized…

Somewhere between client calls + posting 3x a day,

I forgot my why.

WHY did I want to make 10x more money?

What was the drive behind it?

I’ve been thinking about this for weeks since.

Working in bed more.
Being more present.
Letting joy + FUN LEAD ME AGAIN.

And this morning while reading my book,

this post found me.

Because when I look at the future through THIS lens?

The money finally has a FACE attached to it.

A PURPOSE

I love my clients.
I love my audience.
I love what I do so deeply I could work 25 hours a day if I let myself.

But when the computer closes, the calls end, the work day is done… WHAT is the big picture?

WHY am I devoting my life to this?

and THAT is what I was reminded of this morning.

To make social media real again, show my audience what is available to them when they get out of their own way in their content, and help leaders be more REAL AF + in turn - make way more IMPACT + MONEY.

And live the life of my absolute fucking dreams.

So when I’m on my deathbed - i knew i did it ALL.

And with that in mind… this upcoming launch is about to be 10x more juicy.

I love yall. Stay tuned

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Golden hours here, hallelujah 🌞
#model #goldenhour #southfloridaphotographer #photography

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