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What happened before the first day of trial started part 1. Audio in Finnish, subtitles in English.

#truecrime #truecrimesuomi #truecrimeusa #claytoncourthouse

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Part 2 is here!

#truecrime #truecrimesuomi #truecrimeusa

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Meni kyllä kauan sulatellessa tätä tietoa kun se tuli, vaikkei se hirveästi edes varsinaisesti yllättänyt.

It took me a long time to process the news when it came, even though it didn’t really surprise me that much.

#domesticabuseawareness #sexualabuseawareness #criminalinvestigation #truecrime #suomi

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Day 1 is here, stay tuned for day 2 🫶🏻

#courtcase #truecrime #truecrimeusa #truecrimesuomi #stlouis

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In English below

FI: Kuinka uskomattoman tärkeää se onkaan tulla kohdatuksi niin että tulet oikeasti kuulluksi. Sun kokemukset ja tunteen validoidaan, ymmärretään kuinka vaarallisessa suhteessa oot elänyt. Sua ja sun valintoja ei kyseenalaisteta, vaan annetaan aidosti ymmärtää että ”hei, mä ymmärrän miksi sä olit siinä tilanteessa vaikka se oli mikä se oli.”

Tää sama nähdyksi ja kuulluksi tulemisen kokemus jatkui koko vuoden aina siihen asti kun oikeudenkäynti alkoi ja tiiättekö mitä, se jatkui myös siellä ja jatkuu edelleen. Mikä onni, että just nää tutkijat Yhdysvalloista sattui hoitamaan tätä juttua. 🤍

EN: How incredibly important it is to be met in a way where you are truly heard. Your experiences and feelings are validated, and people understand how dangerous the relationship you lived in was. You and your choices aren’t questioned — instead, you’re genuinely made to feel, ‘Hey, I understand why you stayed in that situation, even though it was what it was.’

That same experience of being seen and heard continued throughout the entire year, all the way until the trial began — and you know what? It continued there too, and still does. What a blessing that these particular detectives from the United States happened to handle this case. 🤍

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Day 2, part 1 is here 🤍 Day 2 is all about stories of these brave ladies. There is too much stuff for one video so there will be more.

#sexualassaultawareness #sexualabusesurvivor #sexualassaultawareness #truecrime #courtday

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This might be the most confusing video from me so far, sorry 😆 It’s just so hard to explain this kind of behavior. There will be more, stay tuned 💞

While waiting please tell me have you even experienced this kind of behavior, like can you understand what I’m trying to describe here? 🫢

#sexualabusawarenes #survivor #domesticabuseawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #courtday

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Oletko kohdannut vastaavaa käytöstä? 💔
Have you ever experienced behavior like this? 💔

#violence #control #domesticabuse #survivor #domesticviolence

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In English below

🇫🇮 Tässä se nyt on, viimeinen osa toisen oikeudenkäyntipäivän videoista. Seuraavaksi paneudutaankin sitten kolmannen päivän pariin jossa itse syytetty kutsutaan vastaajan ainoaksi todistajaksi. Kannattaa pistää tili seurantaan niin et missaa kolmospäivän videota 🫶🏻

Oli todella outoa mutta samalla niin validoivaa kuulla että tää sama on tosiaan tapahtunut mun lisäksi myös muille kaikkine yksityiskohtineen.

Onko jollain kokemusta tuollaisesta katseesta ja silmien muuttumisesta? Se on kyllä erityisen omituinen juttu.

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Here it is — the final part of the videos from the second day of the trial. Next, we’ll be diving into day three, where the defendant himself is called as the defense’s only witness. Make sure to follow the account so you don’t miss the video from day three 🫶🏻

It was really strange, but at the same time incredibly validating, to hear that this exact same thing has happened to other people as well, down to all the details.

Has anyone else experienced that kind of look or change in someone’s eyes? It’s definitely one of the strangest thing.

#courtcase #oikeudenkäynti #sexualabusesurvivor #domesticabusesurvivor #truecrime

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In English below

🇫🇮 Hei, jätä kommentti tai viesti ja kerro mitä ajatuksia tämä sussa herättää? 💬
Miksi meillä vallitsee uhreja vähättelevä ja syyllistävä ilmapiiri, mistä se johtuu? Minkä takia minun pitäisi kokea asia minun mainehaitaksi jos joku muu päättää toimia minua kohtaan väärin ja miksi tällainen ajattelu kohdistuu etenkin seksuaali- ja lähisuhdeväkivaltaan liittyvissä rikoksissa?

🇺🇸 Hi, I’d be interested to hear your thoughts on this in comments or messages. 💬
Why is victim-blaming and victim-minimizing still so prevalent in our society? What are the underlying reasons for it?

Why is it often the victim who is expected to carry the burden of reputational harm when someone else has chosen to commit wrongdoing against them? And why does this attitude appear to be particularly pronounced in cases involving sexual violence and domestic or intimate partner abuse?

#victimblaming #victimblamingawareness #domesticabusesurvivor #sexualabusesurvivors #survivor

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Hi ❣️ Earlier I shared that my serial rapist ex had been sentenced to 319 years in prison in the U.S. Unfortunately, that turned out not to be accurate.

I watched his sentencing hearing remotely yesterday, and the final sentence is actually 291 years. The reason for this is that the judge ordered some of the sentences to run concurrently rather than consecutively.

That said, I think I can live with this sentence just fine, even if a few years were knocked off. He will be eligible to apply for parole in 270 years.

And honestly, I haven’t heard anything as unbelievable as what I heard during that hearing in a very long time. I’m looking forward to making a separate video about it for you all.

So if you’re not following me yet, now might be a good time—so you don’t miss that video when I finally get it finished.

And just to clarify: the 319 years I mentioned earlier was actually the jury’s sentencing recommendation, not the final sentence imposed by the judge.

#courtcase #truecrime #sexualabusesurvivor #domesticabusesurvivor #prisontime

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