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i got (cat)skills. the best week with some of the best people, best dogs, best reunions, great car rides, fabulous music, really good food, fine wine, & etc. @___brianreyes___ @trizzuto95 @javierperal @catskillsbehere @rossfenton
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Dope Jams Open-Air Festival ‘26 Locust Grove. Kaatskill Mountains. 📸 : @david.bachowski
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Time to make the templates! This is the first step to making traditional storm windows for old houses. #OldIsBetter #HistoricOakHill
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I hosted a dinner in New York last month. 10 guys, one table, a few hours. And I’ve been thinking about why I keep doing these ever since.⁣ ⁣ The straight answer is: because I really enjoy it. It’s in my plan. Simple as that.⁣ ⁣ I enjoy bringing good people together. There’s something that happens when you connect guys who should know each other and they actually hit it off — that’s a feeling I don’t get anywhere else. I’m not doing it to build a network or monetize anything. I just genuinely like curating a room and seeing what happens.⁣ ⁣ The guys I invite are entrepreneurs, founders, husbands, fathers, athletes, artists. Guys leading from the front. At 53, I’m not interested in influencers. I’m interested in those who are authentically influential.⁣ ⁣ And then dinner happens, and it goes everywhere. What they’ve figured out about their body at this age. Family. How they are as husbands and fathers. Money — not in a brag-about-your-portfolio way, but in a how-do-you-actually-think-about-success way. Business. Travel. What they care about, what they’ve done that surprised them.⁣ ⁣ You sit down with good guys and good food and the real conversations happen. Every time.⁣ ⁣ Some of these guys I’ve known for years. Some I interviewed. Some I just liked how they think, sent a cold reach-out, and they showed up. That part never gets old.⁣ ⁣ That’s really all I needed to hear.⁣ ⁣ Here’s the thing though: you don’t need a reservation at a great restaurant and a guest list of ten. You need a group text and a time.⁣ ⁣ Could be a breakfast. A walk. A group workout. It doesn’t matter. What matters is that you’re intentional about who you’re putting in the room — and that you do it consistently enough that it becomes a thing.⁣ ⁣ Most guys are waiting for someone else to organize it. Be the guy who organizes it. Pick four or five people you respect, reach out, and make it happen.⁣ ⁣ The connections, the perspectives, the conversations that only happen when guys are actually together, you can’t manufacture that online. You have to show up in person.⁣ ⁣ So do it. Start smaller than you th
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The dinner I hosted in New York last week made me walk away realizing something most midlife men are missing: better conversations, stronger friendships and a more meaningful life don’t happen by accident.⁣ ⁣ You Have To Build the Room You Want to Be In.⁣ ⁣ Most men spend the second half of their lives waiting to be invited into the right room. They’re waiting for the right network or right circle or right friendships or the right opportunities to magically come along. Well, I have news for you. It ain’t happening. Also, I think that mindset is backwards. ⁣ ⁣ I believe you need to create the rooms you want to be in and here’s why:⁣ ⁣ There’s a certain point in midlife where you realize you’ve spent years walking into rooms that don’t actually fit you anymore.⁣ ⁣ Business dinners you don’t care about. Networking events that feel transactional. Surface-level conversations with people who are more interested in performing than connecting. You look around and think, “How did I even end up here?” Not because the people are bad, but because somewhere along the way you stopped being intentional about who you’re spending your time with and what kind of energy you actually want in your life.⁣ ⁣ At 53, I know exactly the kind of conversations I want to be having and exactly the kind of people I want to spend more time around. I want to sit with guys who are building things, evolving, struggling, succeeding, failing, learning and actually talking honestly about all of it. Men who care about being better husbands, fathers, leaders and friends. Men who have perspective. Men who have done interesting things but aren’t trying to convince everybody in the room they’re important.⁣ ⁣ And I realized something: if that room doesn’t already exist, there’s nothing stopping you from creating it yourself.⁣ ⁣ That’s really what these dinners have become for me.⁣ ⁣ I hosted one in New York last week. Ten guys around a table at Cathedrale for a few hours and, honestly, it reminded me again how badly most men need this kind of thing in their lives.⁣ ⁣ To read the rest, subscribe to The Midlife Male Newsletter and join the 42,000 Men committed to maximizing midlife. Link in comments 👇🏻
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Midlife Lately…April @melrobbins You’re amazing. @the.chrisrobbins you’re a great friend. @sawyerrobbins such a pleasure meeting you. @themidlifemale Guys dinner in NYC with old friends, new friends and men who inspire me every day. Conversation with @patrick.mcenroe that I can’t wait to share with y’all. Bat Mitzvah for my friends daughter was really special time to reconnect with some of my lifelong friends. @lookopticusa partnership launched and I can see clearly now;) @arod we need to talk 😉 We got our @eightsleep and this is definitely going to help my marriage @getrally.co is the massager I didn’t know I needed and I’ve tried every one of ‘em… Harper went to Joshua Tree and I had serious FOMO Still FaceTiming a f*ck ton with both my boys. Just love them ❤️ Training and rehabbing shoulder continues…This time @anatomy Spoke @wellistweek & met up with friends in Miami Found my dream car 😉 Changed my mind…Pickleball isn’t stupid. I’m addicted. - How is this my Midlife? Join the 40,000 men reading The Midlife Male Newsletter every week. Design your midlife action plan and start living happier, healthier, wealthier, stronger and having more fun in midlife. It’s all possible! Link in bio
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When I first launched @breakthelove, the Startup Girl Foundation was one of our earliest investors. Full circle moment for me to have Break Sports honor @eileengu as the inaugural Sports Shiftmaker last Friday at The Shiftmakers Awards. It was incredible to see 4 women shifting society honored by @theshiftison while surrounded by so many dear friends, who have supported me throughout the years this Women’s History Month ❤️
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That’s a wrap @cultureofbatheing NYC 2026. Not sure exactly what is next, but my gut says this is the beginning of something very big. The coldest weather and the biggest blizzard in decades couldn’t stop 10,000 of you from enjoying the heat and creating a sweaty community in the middle of the coldest winter. Thanks for helping make the world’s largest urban sauna village such a success. ❤️🔥❄️ And to the hundreds of people who worked to make this possible. Most importantly @thermegroup and the team at Therme US and @abathingadam . We also could not have done this without the expertise from @therme_bucuresti and @thermeerding @fishko.inc THANKS: Our host : @dominopark and @twotreesny Sponsors: @athleticbrewing @vitalproteins CULTURAL PROGRAMMING CURATED IN PARTNERSHIP WITH @pioneerworks and Shoham Arad SAUNA VILLAGE PRODUCTION AND PROGRAMMING CURATED IN PARTNERSHIP WITH @superiorsaunas @shaelyn.crutchley WITH SAUNAS BY @superiorsaunas @airstreamsauna @aitosauna @solunasauna @leilsaunas @altaersauna @overlandsauna @fireflysauna @nightjarsauna @colincabalka @tatankasauna SAUNA GUIDES @russianturkishbaths @othership @bathhouse @nem_itsumo @nitr000x @aufgussmaster.alonzo @hot.tamolli.anne @j.ule201 @aufgussart @sauna.witch @brostiucandreea @carmeniacob_ @stoicamsorina10 @TheWellnessBlend @ohhjoliii @alexiirvine @thebanyahouse.mn @banyafest.mn.us@b.brozova @hendrik.b @wellness.ambassador_cosmin.n @_lolacole @marcel.be4191 @darnellmmd @aufgussmovements @edenembodied @ericka.jones_@garybrecka PERFORMERS @msambermartin @mariasemple @mistertace12 @chanceswithwolves HxH: @chris_ryanwilliams & Lester St. Louis @samerghadry @crying2leya @sew_handpan_school_nyc @brooklynragamassive @lavenderhealer @jannalevin @casholman @leonardkoren @aaadotorg @danharris @chinatownbasketballclub @secret_riso_club @bagstrat @secularsabbath & OTHER FRIENDS @marcellazimmermann @digitalcounsel.xyz @aiir.agency @rossfenton @dryrobe @h2tabs @harmlessharvest @longdrink @phyhealth @everydaydose @liquidiv @saunawater Sorry for those that I left out! #sauna #saunavillage #thermegroup
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AIIR x Fitt Insider Building quietly. Growing intentionally. Moving forward together. Let’s go. 🚀
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We’ve been busy. AIIR is out of stealth. Partnering with @fittinsider. Welcoming @rossfenton as Co-Founder. Announcing our founding client roster. LET’S GO.
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Rich because this is how many runners I get to cheer on. pics 1-6: @stefaniacurto pics 7-10: @gconnelie pics 11-12: @sonovisualss
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