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If my last post triggered you... Don't read this!

You all work so damn hard to be successful.

You achieve success.

You progress in your career.

You get the house.

The car.

Beautiful families, children.

Relationships and social life is 👌🏽

You do it all so you can give your family all the the opportunities that you didn't have growing up.

You send the kids to the right schools.

You invest your money and make it grow so you can leave the family with financial freedom and security.

You apply the same level of work ethic, determination and drive your parents did when you were growing up.

You are doing everything you possibly can for the family in the long term, but what is the cost?

The hard work, those extra hours at work, the constant thoughts about growth and the next steps to secure a deal or get to the next level...

It comes at a cost to something you probably feel like you've neglected in a while...

You.

Right now what coping strategies are you applying to optimise your energy and manage your mind?

To be able to get more out of the hours you put in, without being shattered at the end of the night?

Or are you inadvertently passing on the same generational traits that led to our parents health deteriorating?

Hiding your emotions.

Repressing how you really feel.

Emotional avoidance.

Distraction.

Eating and drinking to numb the stress.

Do yourself and your family a favour in the long term.

Recognise your growth requires new coping strategies.

Your growth requires you to be in the best possible place for yourself and those around you.

Yoyr growth requires you to manage your thoughts, feelings and emotions with habits and actions that lead to positive outcomes.

Your family need you at your best now and for the next 30-60 years...

The financial security will never fill a you shaped hole in their lives.

My advice?

Smash the sh** out of mindset blockers that make you think you need to give up on yourself to give to others.

Show yourself and your family what a real role model looks like.

Break the generational cycles that are at the heart of poor physical, physiological and psychological health in our community.

Grow from the pain 💪🏽
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