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That burst of silliness, hyperactivity, wandering or âzoomiesâ you see right before bed?
That is your toddler getting a second wind. Also known as the Wake Maintenance Zone.
The Wake Maintenance Zone is a natural 2 to 3 hour window in the early evening where your childâs circadian rhythm actively promotes alertness, even when they are tired.
It happens just before melatonin starts to rise, and it is designed to keep the body awake for a long, consolidated day.
When a toddler is kept awake too long, their body releases cortisol and adrenaline to push them through this window. These are stress hormones that temporarily override sleepiness and switch the nervous system into alert mode.
This is why overtired toddlers often:
⢠Become silly or wild
⢠Run around or wander aimlessly
⢠Seem wired instead of sleepy
⢠Fight bedtime
⢠Look glazed, disconnected or emotionally reactive
Parents often assume this means they are not tired yet.
In reality, it means their biology is working against sleep.
Once cortisol rises, falling asleep becomes harder, bedtime becomes more emotional, and night waking and early rising are more likely.
This is why timing matters just as much as total sleep.
We cover how this shows up in real life through routines, sleep latency and bedtime battles inside our 2 to 4 Year Toddler Sleep Course, so you understand why bedtime feels hard and what to change to make it easier.
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About 0-6 months wake window I wish I know earlier to avoid fussiness and overtiredđ¸
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Sleep science is complex, but taking care of the basics like differentiating between night and day can help so much!
Check out my sleep guide, found behind the leaflet on my profile for more info!
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Parents are told to avoid overtiredness at all costs.
But the idea that overtiredness causes wakefulness isnât actually supported by the science đŤŁ
In reality, worrying about overtiredness often leads parents to try to settle their baby too early.
And when a baby isnât tired enough yet, sleep is much more likely to become difficult.
Understanding this is one of the biggest lightbulb moments when it comes to baby sleep.
If youâd like more support to set yourself up for a smoother, less confusing, more restful sleep journey in the weeks and months ahead - check out my course - Baby Sleep Unlocked.
Inside I teach you how to approach sleep in a way that supports your baby to settle easily and sleep well, all the while responding to them in whatever way works best! đđ¤
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If you know, you know. đ One minute theyâre angels, the next theyâre acting like theyâve never needed sleep a day in their life. Sending strength to all the parents currently negotiating with a pint-sized bedtime dictator. đŞâ¨ #Overtired #BedtimeBattles #ParentLife
For me the important message is to never see any chart or routine as gospel.
Always assume that if it clearly isnât working for your little one that itâs the routines fault, not yours.
Remember that if your little one is content sleeping less hours than the routine says...then that is fine!
That if you are consistently trying to settle your little one at a certain time and itâs not working...then itâs the wrong time rather than you being âbadâ at settling.
I truly struggled so hard with my first child because of this and now as a sleep consultant who has worked with over a thousand families I cannot explain the frustration over this. Too many parents have come to me absolutely ravaged from trying to get their little one to do something they simply canât.
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Kadang anak sudah kelihatan capek bangetâŚ
mata merah, badan lemas⌠tapi kok malah makin susah tidur?
Bisa jadi dia overtired, bund.
Kalau waktu bangunnya terlalu lama (wake window kelewat), tubuh anak akan melepas hormon stres seperti kortisol.
Efeknya? Tubuh jadi mode âsiagaâ, bukan mode âistirahatâ.
Makanya yang terjadi:
â Tidur cuma 20â30 menit
â Bangun kaget
â Rewel lagi
â Susah masuk deep sleep
Jadi bukan karena kurang capekâŚ
tapi justru karena kelewat capek.
Saat overtired:
â Kortisol naik
â Badan lebih tegang
â Otak sulit masuk fase tidur dalam
Coba perhatikan sebelum rewel muncul:
tatapannya mulai kosong,
gerakannya melambat,
atau tiba-tiba jadi lebih diam.
Itu biasanya tanda wake window-nya sudah mau habis.
Tidur itu bukan cuma soal ângantukâ,
tapi soal timing yang tepat juga, bund.
Anak bunda sering rewel sebelum tidur nggak?
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Youâre following recommended wake windows, nap times, and bedtimes, your baby can fall asleep independently, but your noticing itâs taking your baby 30 minutes to fall asleep at night or your toddler is waking up at 5am every morning.
How do you know if the right move is to actually push bedtime later?
⨠First look at the overall sleep distribution in a 24 hour period. Itâs possible youâre expecting too much sleep for you little one and need to adjust their schedule.
While every kiddo is different, a general rule of thumb is that, including naps:
âď¸ Infants 4-12 months need 12-16 hours sleep
âď¸ Toddlers 1-2 years need 11-14 hours sleep
âď¸ Preschoolers 3-5 years need 10-13 hourssleep
Next, what is your childâs behavior like throughout the day?
Are they happy, able to sit or play independently, and eating well without dozing off?
Or are they irritable, falling asleep in the car, or crying immediately upon waking up?
The latter are signs that they are actually overtired, so resistance to falling asleep at night or waking in the wee hours of the morning might actually be more of a behavior element and habit of difficulty falling asleep or going back to sleep independently.
In this case, Iâd recommend sleep training.
But, if you suspect that your child is in fact well-rested and might need less sleep for their body, try these tips! đđź
âď¸ Push bedtime back in 15 minute increments every few days to gradually adjust
âď¸ If they are over the age of 2, try reducing their nap in 15 minute increments
âď¸ If youâre also dealing with early morning wakeups, push back your response to go in by 15 minute increments every few days as well
Youâll know your baby or toddler has the right bedtime for them once you land on a time that they fall asleep quickly, stay asleep overnight, and donât wake up for the day until 6-7am.
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đđ when your kids get their second wind right before bedtime⌠and suddenly itâs a full-on chicken dance party instead of winding down!
Did you know that overtired children often go hyper instead of sleepyâso hereâs how to avoid the bedtime boogie:
â¨â¨ Stick to a consistent bedtime â¨â¨ Start a wind-down routine 30â45 mins before bed (books, cuddles, dim lights)â¨â¨ Factor in some âsilly timeâ earlier in the eveningâlet them shake out their giggles before itâs time to settleâ¨â¨ Watch for early sleepy signsâcatch them before they tip into overtired mode
because once the chickens start dancing, settling to sleep can become even harder!
Struggling to set boundaries in a sensitive way? Do you struggle to know what to say in the moment? Comment with a â¤ď¸ and Iâll send you my FREE âsetting boundaries, sensitivelyâ script.
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