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🎇 It's you. You're the one you've been waiting for.
🌒 Nourishing deep inner safety to expand your power × orgasmic pleasure 💦
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I WAS MADE FOR THIS.

Something happens when you actually let yourself truly desire your dreams, and claim it with complete surrender. **And have done the work to hold it.**

I can see that now.

My reality mirrored back to me the truth.

"You were made for this, Kate."

I declared this desire, to apply for well known sex, love, and relationship coaching certification, and surrendered to God. Full heartedly felt this, trusting, at peace and excited nervous for the pathway to unfold for me with each step I take, trusting the timing would unfold naturally with ease.

God provided, and made this pathway possible NOW.

I never thought this would be my path, to become a sex coach, and yet it makes so much fucking sense. Eeeeeeeeeee!

To my entire being, it feels like home, and yet I'm nervous excited for the woman I'll grow into.

To own my power even more.

But more than anything,
To be a sister alongside women, that I never had,
to mirror them their beauty in totality - their body, their vulva, of their sexual expression.

To become grounded fully in their power thru pleasure, as pleasure has been such a profound tool to heal my nervous system and ground my power.

To guide women thru somatic practices, yoni and breast massage, and expanding their minds of what pleasure and confidence can look like for the sex goddess that exists within us all.

I'm a fuck YES to it all.

I know I'm going to meet my own deeper blocks to my pleasure, pain, and anxiety, shit I already am in it. But I'm here for it.

I'm here for

My own transformations to unfold.
To become the receiver first, the student.

To nourish the depths of my body and soul, to bear fertile soil for my pleasure.

Cuz this bad bitch gunna reap her harvest.
Shits gunna get hot 🔥 🥵 🐦‍🔥

#sacredsexuality #badbitch #goddessenergy #sexcoach #pleasure by @thee.kate.bold

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a year ago

"My pleasure has been dry lately"

I bet you wouldn't believe that.

My body and capacity is recalibrating.

If you can relate, sis, I hope my words reassure you.

To remind you that you aren't alone.
So hear this -

Trust your body. Her cues.
There is no need to force or push.

But I will listen to her.

Even if my pleasure did go thru a season of expansion then suddenly felt not accessible.

I initially spiraled. And I won't lie it's been frustrating. Bringing up old patterns...

But then compassion kicked in, "of course...I'm working more than I have in the past 3 years".

Expanding to regulate toddler's nervous systems.
My body is touched out.
It needs time to rest.

Instead of wanting to replenish with pleasure and sensual presence, my body just wants to zen the fuck out, in a hot bath.

Any time I try to lean into my yoni egg practice, breasts massage, meditative practices, my body falls asleep or my body gives my feedback that she is a hard no.

So whether you have kids or work has been expanding your capacity, pleasure feels dry, and you rather just relax in the bath, or have time to yourself to just be, no agenda.

That makes so much sense.
Let her just be.

Life is full of seasons. It's simple as that, a season.
It's not gone forever.

In trusting your body, her boundaries, I promise you, what's on the other side, is worth it.

It's creating the fertile soil for your pleasure.
When your body softens on her timing...

Everytime you honor your body, her boundaries, her needs, she listens.

She pays attention.
Especially your yoni.

You're pleasure, your sexual expression, will return.

And trying to force or push sensual pleasure practices over a nervous system that is not there right now, isnt going to make it appear.

Trust me I know.
It will return.
And it will blow my mind body soul.
Trust the process.

p.s. I honestly was hoping to soak DEEP into my pleasure practices this month to create an offer for you badass women. My body is just not there...and I won't create this until I'm deeply in my embodiment. I can't wait to birth my offers to be a place of grounded power, pleasure expansion, and the confidence of a sex goddess. by @thee.kate.bold

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a year ago

There I said it. 😈

I'm OWNING this huge part of me.

And it's only just the beginning.

Episode dropping today.🎇

Link in bio, baddie. by @thee.kate.bold

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a year ago

I've been trying to get back to the woman in this picture.

Her liberation.
Her power.
Her pleasure.
Her inner safety.

She felt more free.
Not weighed down by her mind.

But I've realized I'm not the same person I was.

I'm remembering my essence before the trauma, before my mind had learned to self attack as survival.

And..
I'm rebuilding.

But from a place of true inner safety, true acceptance, and sovereign leadership.

A completely new foundation, so I can hold the level of expansion, liberation, power, and pleasure I truly desire. So I can hold that level of possibility and be a embodied mirror for the women I'm here to serve.

I wish I could say getting off antidepressants was easy and that it didn't tremble me to my knees...

It cracked me the fuck open.
My pain. My trauma. My anxiety.
So much grief over losing an older version of myself.

But it also opened my heart.

It helped me see miracles admist the pain and hardship. The miracles were so obvious and undeniable, and that love made be see that the universe abundantly supports me esp in what I was born on this earth to embody and birth.

I'm still here.

Devoted to my inner safety, liberation, pleasure, and power.

And yours

Because we are born for this sister

I love you
💋❤️ by @thee.kate.bold

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3 months ago

This is me.

I'm not apologizing.
I'm not shrinking.
I'm not going to justify.

I'm choosing me at whole new level.
I'm behind proud of myself. 😭😭

I had to let old identities die to create more space for more of me and all my fucking bad bitch energy.

Including nannying.
It was a season, as I build safety and capacity within. I got be a guardian angel to these beautiful children, impact their confidence and safety within, and now my wings are spreading.

I'm MOVINGGGGGG
to Indiana wiith my Beloved man.
Leaving Minnesota, is something I wanted to do for the longest time, and I accepted universe's redirection even though it was worst timing possible.

The universe closes doors and opens new doors.

It's just up to you to choose it and walk thru those new opportunities, and allow the portal to transform you in the fire. Again and again.

I'm here for the journey, and I can't wait to see who I become in this new chapter.

Expect bold art, seductive offerings, and bad bitch energy 100x.

💋💋
Muah

#badbitch #liberation #selflove #sensuality #sacredsexuality by @thee.kate.bold

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7 months ago

"How's sex coach training going?"

It's been the biggest initiation
of death within,
life bringing huge changes,
choosing to rise than shrink,
& not running from the fear,
releasing outdated identities,
tapering off ssri's,
and learning to master sitting in
the discomfort of frozen emotions
and parts of myself that are yearning
to be held in loving presence
deeper than I ever have.

I'm still in the death process.
Excited to see myself thru out this portal. 😈

More to come on the other side, my bad bad bitches. 💋

#badbitch #sexcoach #pleasure #feminineliberation by @thee.kate.bold

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8 months ago

Five years ago my SSRI medication became my lifeline.

Now it's wreaking havoc on my sleep, sex, and sanity.

This September the medication that worked so well suddenly started to cause intense side effects of restlessness where I wanted to rip my chest out of my body. It completely disturbed my sleep.

They said I was anxious.
I wasn't.

I advocated for my body, trusting my body and intuition.

*You know your body better than anyone*

The withdrawals sucked.
(With supervision of my doctor)
I remember balling my eyes out wanting to hit my head against a wall, hugging my man.

Then I was put onto a new SSRI.

That basically caused agitation, the feeling of something crawling under my skin at night, complete disconnect to my yoni, and a non existent sexual function.

I'm done.

It's funny how what can be your lifeline can now be the source of suffering.

As I embark on sex, love, and relationship coaching training to start in a couple of days, I'm reminded that our bodies are so fucking intelligent. They give us cues and signals all the time.

I believe my body's cues and signals regarding SSRIs side effects is that it's no longer a resource. I let go of my old life, and I can create deep profound inner safety without it, as I build my new life of my dreams and greatest desires.

It served it's time to help me heal. Beyond grateful for that.

I share hoping anyone who suffers from SSRI side effects or any medication for that matter, to trust your body.
There comes a point in our healing journey where if it's no longer supporting you, it's time to face the changes, even the discomfort, but will be well worth it. Telling myself right now 🫣

And to bring awareness to how detrimental this medication can be for your sexual function and ability to connect your yoni.

You got this.

Cheers to my sex drive being restored. 🥂😈❤️

Muah 😘

Kate by @thee.kate.bold

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9 months ago

I go thru seasons of numbness with my pleasure too.

Shit I've gone thru many seasons of vaginal burning and pain too.

Even decades.

I'll dive deeper into that later this month.

For now baddie,
I want you to remember this -

The women you see online, fully expressed, confident in their sexuality,
those women go thru those seasons too.

What you don't always see is their hardships or blocks they experienced before they alchemized their trauma, blocks, etc.

I wish it was talked about more...

Numbness, burning, physical pain sensations related to women's pleasure.

It's okay if your pleasure doesn't feel as accessible right now or lately.

Having numbness or pain with your pleasure does NOT mean your broken.

How human of you, love.

It doesn't mean your pleasure will never return.

It doesn't mean the women you see online are just lucky and get to experience a magical sex life, that you are seperate from these experiences...

Sometimes online spaces and how our minds work can create these lies and misperceptions.
That those experiences of amazing pleasure are for a select few..

But the truth is...
many many women experience seasons of contraction, numbness, burning sensations in regards to their pleasure. You are not alone sis.

But you know what comes after contraction?

Expansion.

Wherever you are on your pleasure journey, it is beautiful.
It's one stepping stone on your path.
It's not forever.

I wish I had a big sis that told me this...

Your pleasure journey is unfolding for you.

You're body isn't broken.
You're not behind.
You don't need to rush this.
You can't rush this...esp not in a safe way for your nervous system to not be retraumitized.

No force.
No pressure.

A safe haven, of unfolding,
the fertile soil,
that is your pleasure.

I promise. 😘

Kate xo

#feminineliberation #sacredsexuality #pleasure #badbitch #goddessenergy by @thee.kate.bold

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a year ago

"I used to cringe at the sight of me in pleasure"

But now I see a beautiful goddess.
I see art embodied.

Its wild to recall that I thought I looked gross, dirty, and didn't like seeing my body.

I definitely didn't feel sexy.

So much of that was inherited.
Indoctrination of societal, familial, & religious views.

I decided those views were not mine to carry.
It ended with me.
I started creating my own views

By repetition of meeting my body.

Over and over and over again.

In my practice.
In being with my body.

In self pleasure, and having awareness of what thoughts were coming up. Still creating safety with myself. Expressing thoughts with my lover. Or finding mentors to hold me to expand my expression by deeping my connection with myself.

Some times I faced those views in that moment,
other times at completely different moment,
more than anything I remember the harsh self judgemental condemning slut-shaming religious voices started to fade.

And of course there are times at new edges, new levels, I have to meet those parts. Where pleasure may not feel as natural.

But I know it will soon.

By meeting my body where she is.
Over and over again.

Then one day in pleasure, you'll realize, and celebrate -

🎇 I orgasmed for first time in a new way with myself and/or lover,
🎇I felt safe enough to let go or even try a new position
🎇I let myself receive pleasure from my partner/myself and got lost in waves of pleasure than being lost in my head
🎇 I experienced new level of body sensation, whether squi💦ting, orgasmic energy in my nipples, came from internal pleasure.

It's infinite bad bitch.

You got this. 💋

#sacredsexuality #pleasure #badbitch #bodyconfidence #pleasurepractice by @thee.kate.bold

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a year ago

Fertile soil for pleasure

It's not about technique of touch...

but creating solid foundations
that MELT the armour
the anxiety, the freeze,

The calming of the mind
deep inner safety
holding yourself
like you would to your
bbf, baby sister, or child

esp if you relate with
having very active mind

this episode I walk you thru
3 simple essential steps
to creating fertile soil
for your pleasure

It's so much easier
than you realize 🙃

You know where to find the link.

Big sis got you 💋
I love you, bad bitch

Kate

ps. I bet you're already doing these 3 things.

#badbitch #goddessenergy #feminineliberation #sexcoach #pleasure #sacredsexuality by @thee.kate.bold

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a year ago

It's gunna be wild.
And I'm here for this shit.
❤️‍🔥😈

#badbitch #goddessenergy #feminineliberation #sexuality #ownyourpower #pleasure by @thee.kate.bold

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a year ago

"I'm becoming a sex coach."

I'm OWNING it, baddie.
It feels sooooo delicious.

Who knew claiming and taking action
on the life you deeply desire
would feel so pleasure filled
and expansive af.

Wanna hear more? Episode drops today. 🎇

Link in bio to access my podcast.

Muah 😘

#badbitch #goddessenergy #feminineliberation #sexcoach #badbitchpodcast by @thee.kate.bold

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a year ago