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There are so many rules and messages we receive about dating, but what's important is how you feel in the relationship.

Do you feel calm or do you feel anxious and under pressure?
Do they respect your no or do you feel afraid to disagree?
Is it exciting and fun to be around them or do you feel like you're walking on eggshells?

On the latest episode of the Too Into You Podcast we explore these rules and expectations, dating as a young Black woman, and more with 3/4 of @thegalpalcollective

You can listen now, wherever you get your podcasts or visit toointoyou.ie.

Remember, you deserve to feel peace in your relationship. 🩷 #toointoyou by @toointoyou

Is your relationship healthy? 🚩🩷❓️

Take the quiz at toointoyou.ie and see if your relationship is healthy or abusive. #TooIntoYou by @toointoyou

Abuse can happen, even when you're young. But how do you know it's abuse?

On this episode of the Too Into You podcast we sit down with Too Into You Ambassador and beauty influencer @juliana_shiel 🎙️

When Juliana was 19, she was in an abusive relationship. Since then, she has become a Too Into You Ambassador, spending the last 5 years raising awareness of abuse in young relationships and the supports available at toointoyou.ie.

We chat with Juliana about:
- Why she didn’t think her ex was abusing her

- Why she wants to change people’s understanding of the ‘perfect victim’

- What she wants other victims of abuse to know

You can listen now to our episode with wherever you get your podcasts. 🎧▶️

And if you're worried about your relationship, or you're worried about a friend, you can chat to us at toointoyou.ie or by calling the Women's Aid 24hr National Freephone Helpline at 1800 341 900. #toointoyou #abusiverelationship #datingredflags #podcasting by @toointoyou

If you’re thinking of breaking up with an abusive partner, you may be conflicted, confused, frightened, or overwhelmed.

You know your situation better than anyone and what steps will be right for you. But you don’t have to go through this alone, we’re here for you.

You deserve safety, not shame. 💗

You can call us on the National Freephone Helpline at 1800 341 900 or use the chat service at toointoyou.ie and we can support you without judgement or pressure. #breakingup by @toointoyou

No one has the right to tell you what to wear, not even the person you're going out with.

But if they say things like
“If you wear that, I’ll be mad”
"Who are you trying to impress?"
"You look stupid."
"You're not wearing that."

These are red flags for control and abuse. You don't deserve this.

The only person that gets to decide your Halloween costume, what you wear, and your boundaries is you. 🧡🎃

You can visit toointoyou.ie to learn more about red flags, take the quiz, and find support. #Halloween #costume #couplegoals #redflag by @toointoyou

“If you wear that, I’ll be mad”
"Who are you trying to impress?"
"You look stupid."
"You're not wearing that."

No one gets to tell you what to wear, not even the person you're going out with.

That's not love, it's control and a red flag of abuse. 🚩

The only person that gets to decide your Halloween costume or what you wear is you.

You can visit toointoyou.ie to learn more about red flags, take the quiz, and find support. #Halloween #costume #couplegoals #redflag by @toointoyou

Spark real change, use your voice, build skills, and meet new people!

Visit toointoyou.ie/get-involved.

Together, we can change the conversation about love, respect, and abuse. 💖✊️

Applications to become a Campaign Ally close November 7th. by @toointoyou

Your costume is not consent.

Your boundaries deserve respect no matter what you're wearing, what day it is, or whether you're in a relationship or if you've just met.

This Halloween, remember, you deserve respect. 🎃👻🍬🦇 #consentculture #halloweekend #costume by @toointoyou

Can independence and love coexist? Yes!

A healthy relationship trusts you, respects your time, and prioritises your independence. ❤️

But if your partner
- sulks or pouts when you try to go out without them
- wants you to be in constant contact with them
- keeps you from taking part in your hobbies
these are red flags. 🚩

You don't deserve red flags, you deserve a happy and healthy relationship.

Learn more on the latest epsiode of the Too Into You podcast, or take the quiz at toointoyou.ie. by @toointoyou

If you're worried about a friend, we're here for you. To learn more, visit toointoyou.ie. by @toointoyou

Two days out from Shine and we're still reliving the magic! ✨💖

We're deeply grateful to our fantastic headline partner @primark and our incredible event partners @eleccommirl @sportireland @hermoves.ie & @sustainablysmart.plan, our media partner @beat102103, as well as all eight of our wonderful exhibit partners!

Your support means so much to us and to the 2000+ girls who found so much inspiration, celebration and confidence at Shine 2026! 💫

#shinefestival #theshonaproject #thankyou by @toointoyou

"I absolutely love being a part of something so important and so necessary."

If you want to make a difference, teach people about healthy relationships, and help us reframe romance, apply now to volunteer with Too Into You!

Visit toointoyou.ie/get-involved.

Together, we can change the conversation about love, respect, and abuse. 💖✊️

Applications close November 7th. by @toointoyou