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💋 Go from “good girl” to Dreamgirl
💕 Attract commitment-ready men
📈 90-day transformations
🎙️Host of the “Date w/ Cents” podcast
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Being a good girl landed me in a low-effort marriage with a man who couldn’t care less about making me happy. I was so focused on being chosen that I didn’t recognize what I was actually being chosen FOR.Turns out I was chosen because I was easy. Easy to keep. Easy to manipulate. Easy to give the bare minimum to.These 10 rules exist because I refused to let that happen twice.Save this carousel. Send it to your homegirl. And if you’re ready to actually apply this to your dating life…Start with my free class: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 DaysHappening Sunday, February 15, 2026 @ 12pm CSTComment 3FORME to receive the link for the trainingOnce you register, you’ll receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.Inside this training, I’m going to teach you:🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by quality men who actually want to commit, without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE, even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation, without doing “the most” or feeling like a pick-me🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough, and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to youAnd how I went from married and miserable to dating multiple quality men who plan dates I actually enjoy, invest in me emotionally and financially, and ask what it would take for us to be exclusive.After coaching hundreds of high-achieving women through building rotations and getting married, I know exactly what works…and what keeps you stuck.Comment3FORMEto receive the link for the trainingP.S. After the training, we’ll open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed. by @torahcents

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That’s my story and I’m sticking to it 🥰. by @torahcents

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One of the hardest habits for “good girls” to break is…👉🏾Making themselves responsible for managing a man’s emotions.When a man disappoints her, she talks herself out of saying anything.She tells herself it is not that big of a deal.She decides to wait and see if it happens again.She convinces herself he probably didn’t mean it that way.Bc she doesn’t want to rock the boat She spends so much time thinking about how he might feel that she never stops to ask herself how she feels.A lot of women think they gotta learn the perfect way to communicate to keep a man.Nah...The bigger problem is that they believe they have to make things work with the one man they really like.When you believe that, you become more willing to overlook things..…give another chance he doesn’t deserve…& say things you do not really mean because you do not want him to leave.That is one of the reasons I want women to have more dating options.When you are meeting quality men consistently, one disappointing man does not feel so important.It becomes much easier to tell the truth, keep your standards, and walk away when something is not working because you know you will meet someone else.I’ll show you how to create more options in my free training.**Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days**🗓️ **Sunday, August 16, 2026**Reply 3FORME and I’ll send you the registration link.Once you register, you’ll receive a confirmation email with everything you need to join the training.Inside, I’ll teach you:🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you attract quality men who actually want to commit without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval.🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men anywhere, even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.🔥 How to become unforgettable on dates and in conversation without doing “the most” or feeling like a pick-me.🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough, and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.Reply 3FORME to get the registration link.P.S. After the training, we’ll open the doors to my signature program, C2C by @torahcents

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“Letting men lead” is why most women end up settling.When the “good girls” were taught this, we learned to put ourselves second. That’s why we end up overgiving, overinvesting, sacrificing, and hurting so much when relationships don’t work out.And people think marrying a good man solves the problem.NOPE!You can marry a great guy and still end up in a struggle relationship that doesn’t serve you…Because instead of co-creating a life that delights you both…You spend most of your time playing a role to fit into his life and what he wants. That’s why I care so much about teaching women HOW to date before they get into a relationship.Dating is where you find out what you want.And where you learn how to make decisions based on your own values……instead of waiting for a man to decide what your life should look like.Dating is where you learn how to speak up, hold your standards, and pay attention to yourself before a man needs supersedes your own I want women to get married to good men.AND have fulfilling relationships with them. Without losing themselves on the way there.If you want to learn how I teach women to do that, start with my free training Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days.Happening On: Sunday, August 16th, 2026 @ 12 pm CTReply “3FORME” for the linkOnce you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.Inside this training, I am going to teach you:🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued quality men who actually want to commit—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to youReply 3FORME to receive the link to registerP.S. After the training, we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed. by @torahcents

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If you’re over 30 and you’ve always been the “good girl,” dating can feel confusing.You gave men the benefit of the doubt.…kept trying to see the good in them.…even stayed patient when things didn’t feel right.… and even convinced yourself not to be “too picky.”You believed that if you showed up as a good woman, things would eventually work out.Then one day you looked up and realized...All of that effort still wasn’t creating the dating life you wanted.Nobody ever taught you how to create a dating life you actually enjoy.That’s what these four rules are for.I created them so I could date with intention AND enjoy it in the process. And the more I enjoy dating, the better decisions I make.I see men more clearly.I stay true to my standards.And I choose what’s actually good for me instead of making decisions based on fear, pressure, or chemistry.If you’re over 30, you’ve been the good girl, and you’re ready to build a dating life you actually enjoy, Join my free training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days.Happening On: Sunday, August 16th, 2026Reply “3FORME” for the linkOnce you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.Inside this training, I am going to teach you:🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued quality men who actually want to commit—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to youReply 3FORME to receive the link to registerP.S. After the training, we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed. by @torahcents

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You know why it’s so hard to stop giving a man chance after chance?Because you don’t have anybody else better in the pipelineIt’s a lot easier to say, “He did it twice. I’m done,” when there are other men asking you on dates.But when he’s the first man you’ve liked in six months?When your dating apps are dry?When you don’t know when the next man is coming?Suddenly you got a whole lotta grace. 😂Now you’re explaining why he canceled.You’re telling yourself he’s probably busy.You’re wondering if you’re being too strict.You’re asking the group chat if you should give him one more chance.And this is one of the biggest reasons I teach women skills to create more options for themselves. Because having options changes the decisions you make.👉🏾You stop trying to turn every man you like into your man.👉🏾You stop holding onto men who keep disappointing you because you’re afraid of going back to having nobody.👉🏾And you can actually pay attention to who is showing up, who is consistent, and who deserves more access to you.Join my free training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days.Happening On: Sunday, August 16th, 2026Reply “3FORME” for the linkOnce you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.Inside this training, I am going to teach you:🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued quality men who actually want to commit—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to youReply 3FORME to receive the link to registerP.S. After the training, we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed. by @torahcents

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You’re not shy or socially awkwardYou’re insecure & lack social skills🚨 New episode of the Date with Cents Podcast! 🔥Reply “podcast” for the link to listen How I Get Quality Men to Notice Me When I Walk Into a Room (Without Looking Thirsty)In this episode, I cover:💃🏿 Why you can feel completely invisible even when you’re standing right there in the room💃🏿 Why you keep getting approached by men you don’t even want—and what’s really pulling them to you💃🏿 The reason men keep approaching you at the wrong spots but never the places you actually want to be💃🏿 The reason I can walk into any room and know my type is going to notice me—no ifs, ands, or buts💃🏿 Why “I’m shy” is keeping you stuck—and what to do about it at your big ageReply “Podcast” to listen by @torahcents

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You’re too nice to men. And this why dating is draining you.Some man you’re not even interested in is talking to you, and instead of wrapping it up, you stand there and give him a whole conversation. You let him ask you question after question. You wait for him to be the one to end it, because walking away first feels rude. That’s a lot to keep giving men you don’t even want, and it’s why the thought of meeting more of them feels like too much.Comment PODCAST and I’ll send you the link to almost 200 episodes on meeting quality men, getting approached more often, building your roster, and choosing better men. by @torahcents

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🚨 New episode of the Date with Cents Podcast! 🔥Reply “podcast” for the link to listen How I Get Quality Men to Notice Me When I Walk Into a Room (Without Looking Thirsty)In this episode, I cover:💃🏿 Why you can feel completely invisible even when you’re standing right there in the room💃🏿 Why you keep getting approached by men you don’t even want—and what’s really pulling them to you💃🏿 The reason men keep approaching you at the wrong spots but never the places you actually want to be💃🏿 The reason I can walk into any room and know my type is going to notice me—no ifs, ands, or buts💃🏿 Why “I’m shy” is keeping you stuck—and what to do about it at your big ageReply “Podcast” to listen by @torahcents

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The 5 Lies Costing You Your Summer Boyfriend 🌞PLUS....The Relationship Roster Challenge is Officially Open ✨This is my 6-week live challenge for women who want more dates, more options, and a commitment-ready boyfriend by the end of summer.If you've been wondering where you're supposed to meet quality men...If you're putting yourself out there but not getting results...If you're overthinking one man because there aren't enough men in the picture...This is for you.Over six weeks, I'll help you:💃🏿 Meet more men without dating feeling like a draining 2nd job💃🏿 Build a dating life that feels natural, playful, and delicious💃🏿 Finally date men that you actually are excited aboutHere's what we're covering:✨ Kickoff Call — Get Activated: Complete your Roster Readiness Assessment, identify your biggest opportunity for growth, and create your personalized game plan for the challenge.✨ Week 1 — Get Noticed: The H.E.A.T. Framework for becoming more visible, approachable, and magnetic.✨ Week 2 — Get Approached: The Three Energetic Embodiments that get men starting conversations and pursuing you.✨ Week 3 — Get Pursued: The B.O.M.B. Experience for creating the kind of connection that gets men planning dates, reaching out, and wanting to see you again.✨ Week 4 — Get Options: The R.O.Y.A.L. Method for managing 2–3 men without guilt, confusion, or putting all your hopes into one guy.✨ Integration Call — Keep the Momentum Going: Celebrate your wins, troubleshoot your challenges, and create a plan for maintaining your momentum long after the challenge ends.Plus:✨ Weekly training videos that show you exactly what to do, how to do it, and when to do it✨ Weekly live group coaching calls✨ A private community for support and accountability✨ Replays if you can't attend liveI've run this challenge at $220.This summer it's $97 — the lowest I've ever offered live coaching.🚀 We start live Saturday, June 13 at 10am CSTDrop "ROSTER" in the comments and I'll send you the link. 🤍 by @torahcents

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Most women don’t need more motivation to date They need a dating strategy they can actually stick to.That’s exactly what we’re building inside the Relationship Roster Challenge.Over the next 6 weeks, I’m going to help you create a love life that keeps moving...….even when work gets busy, life gets stressful, or a man disappoints you.You’ll learn how to:💃🏿 Get noticed by quality men in real life💃🏿 Get approached, pursued, and asked out by men you’re actually excited about💃🏿 Create the kind of connection that gets men planning a second date before the first one is even over💃🏿 Build a roster of quality men so one ghosting situation doesn’t send you back to square one💃🏿 Create a dating strategy that fits your actual life instead of requiring you to be motivated all the timeSix weekly live calls with me, a private community, step-by-step actions every week, replays if you can’t make it live.We start Saturday, June 13 at 10am CST.The investment is $97 — normally $220. The lowest I’ve EVER offered it. And I’m not sure I’ll ever run it at this price again.Drop “ROSTER” in the comments and I’ll send you the link. 🤍This is your summer. by @torahcents

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Slowing down is my practice 😇 by @torahcents

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