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Victoria Aigbe | Parent Educator

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Helping parents & educators raise confident, informed & protected children.
Parenting | Child Development | Early Years | Body Safety

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Your daughter is going to start puberty whether you're ready or not. The question is, will she hear it from you first, or find out confused, scared, and misinformed?
That's exactly why I put together the Puberty Preparation Handbook.

This is not one of those vague books that dance around the topic and leave you more confused than before. It breaks down everything, menstruation, body changes, hygiene, consent, boundaries, self esteem, everything your daughter needs to hear before she turns 14, explained in simple language you can actually use.

No big grammar, no shame nor dodging the real topics. Just straight, honest, research backed guidance any mother can pick up and start using immediately.

If you've been putting off "the talk" because you don't know where to start, this handbook does the work for you. Read it, teach her, and watch her grow up confident, informed, and unashamed of her own body because a daughter who understands herself will not be easily deceived, confused, or taken advantage of.

Get your copy today and start the conversation your daughter deserves.

Click the link below 👇

https://selar.com/m/Tutor_vee_01 by @tutorvee.parenting

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2 months ago

Before you beat that child again, there’s something I want you to think about.

What if the reason your child keeps repeating the same behaviour has less to do with the number of times you’ve punished them and more to do with what they’re actually learning from it?

Let’s talk about this. ☝️

#ParentingTips #PositiveDiscipline #NigerianParents #ChildDevelopment #ParentingCommunity by @tutorvee.parenting

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5 days ago

Your child is not slow, they are still learning.

Every time you take over because school is about to start, you take away a chance for them to learn.

We are not raising children to need us forever, we are raising them to handle life.

Swipe for 7 practical ways to raise a child who can do things for themselves, without feeling left alone. 👉

Which one will you start with this week? Tell me below.

#ParentingTips
#RaisingIndependentKids
#ChildDevelopment
#GentleParenting by @tutorvee.parenting

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5 days ago

You may be teaching your child to depend on you without even knowing it.

And it often starts with something that looks like love.

Parents and teachers, swipe to the end before you decide whether this is you 👀

Tag a parent or teacher who needs to read this.

#RaisingInformedKids
#TeachThemRight
#ParentingTips
#ChildDevelopment
#AuthoritativeParenting by @tutorvee.parenting

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7 days ago

by @tutorvee.parenting

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8 days ago

I am a teacher.

Not because I have all the answers, but because I have learned to see the child behind the answer.

I have taught letters, numbers and lessons but some of my most important lessons were never written on a board.

I have taught confidence.
I have taught courage.
I have taught children to speak, to think, to ask, and to believe that their little voices matter.

For over fifteen years, I have watched children grow and somewhere along the way, teaching became more than what I do. It became part of who I am.

I am Tutor Vee and today, I honour the teacher in me.

And to every teacher who keeps showing up even when the work is hard or when the impact is invisible and when nobody says "thank you"

May you never forget that the lives you touch may carry your lessons long after they leave your classroom.

Happy Teacher's Day to me,
and to every teacher giving their best to shape tomorrow. 🫂 by @tutorvee.parenting

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14 days ago

Tomorrow at 8PM, let’s talk about what is happening inside your child.

Not just the behaviour you see but the feelings behind it.

The beliefs they are forming.
The things they may be carrying quietly.

And what all of these are teaching them about themselves.

The theme for the month is 👇

THE INNER LIFE OF A CHILD
( Understanding what your child feels, believes and learns about themselves)

📍 Raising Informed Kids Community

⏰ 8PM by @tutorvee.parenting

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16 days ago

🇳🇬 HAPPY NEW MONTH & HAPPY 66TH INDEPENDENCE DAY, NIGERIA

Welcome to October. A new month, a new opportunity, and another chance to build the future we dream of.

As we celebrate our nation's independence, we are reminded that the future of every nation begins with the children we raise today.

A stronger Nigeria begins with stronger families, intentional parenting, protected children, and a generation equipped with the right values, knowledge, confidence, and identity.

At Teach Them Right Funhub Ltd, we believe that raising children intentionally is not just a family responsibility; it is an investment in the future of our nation.

🙏 Our prayer for every family this new month:

May God strengthen every home, provide for every family, protect our children, grant parents wisdom, and fill our homes with love, peace, joy, and abundance.

May our children grow into responsible, confident, compassionate, and purposeful individuals who will contribute meaningfully to a better Nigeria.

And may Nigeria experience the peace, unity, progress, and transformation we all hope for.

Happy New Month! Happy Independence Day, Nigeria! 🇳🇬

Together, we can raise brighter generations.

#HappyNewMonth #HappyIndependenceDay #TeachThemRightFunhub #IntentionalParenting #ChildProtection by @tutorvee.parenting

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18 days ago

I am softness wrapped in strength, grace dressed in courage, and a woman who knows the power of her own becoming.

I carry myself with quiet confidence, walk with purpose, and wear my worth like a crown that needs no announcement.

There's a certain beauty in a woman who knows who she is, honours how far she has come, and embraces the woman she is becoming.

I am not just a woman. I am a force, a presence, a whole story of strength written in elegance. And darling, I wear my 👑 beautifully. ✨ by @tutorvee.parenting

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21 days ago

Your child doesn’t need you to know everything, what they need you to know is what to teach them. These include body safety, boundaries, puberty, relationships, sexual knowledge, digital safety and identity.

These conversations can feel uncomfortable, but waiting until your child encounters a difficult situation can make them much harder to navigate.

The Whole Child Protection & Identity Blueprint gives you practical guidance and resources to help you have these conversations with confidence as your child grows.

Don’t just hope you’ll know what to say. Get equipped before you need to.

Comment BLUEPRINT and I'll send you the enrollment details.

#sexeducation
#intentionalparenting
#nigerianparents
#parentingtips by @tutorvee.parenting

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24 days ago

#intentionalparenting
#sexeducation
#parentingtips
#teachthemright
#raisinginformedkids by @tutorvee.parenting

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Loving your child is not the same as preparing your child.

There are conversations your child needs to have with you before the world has the opportunity to teach them the wrong things.

The Whole Child Protection and Identity Blueprint 2.0 was created to help you have those conversations confidently.

In this practical 2 week training, you will learn how to prepare children ages 2 to 18 for real situations involving:

• Body safety and boundaries
• Manipulation and grooming
• Puberty and body changes
• Age appropriate conversations about sexuality
• Assertiveness and speaking up
• Digital safety
• Privacy, secrets and unsafe requests
• Identity and self awareness

But I know the biggest problem is not always knowing what children need to learn.

Sometimes, you simply don't know what to say.

That is why your registration comes with practical resources you can keep using long after the live training ends:

📘 100 Difficult Questions Children Ask About Sex + Professional Answers
For those uncomfortable questions that can catch you off guard.

📕 Body Safety Script Pack
Simple language to help you teach boundaries and body safety without frightening or confusing your child.

📗 Sex Education Roadmap, Ages 2 to 18
So you know what conversations to introduce and when.

📙 Puberty Preparation Handbook
To help you prepare your child before the physical and emotional changes begin.

📱 Digital Safety Toolkit
To help you prepare children for the risks that can come with phones, social media and online access.

Plus your certificate of participation.

Training starts October 8th.

🗓️ 2 weeks
⏰ 8:00 PM
💰 ₦5,000

If you have been saying, “I know I need to talk to my child about these things, but I don't know where to start,” this is your starting point.

Don't wait until the conversation becomes urgent. Prepare now.

#Intentionalparenting
#sexeducation
#teachthemright
#raisinginformedkids
#Nigerianparents by @tutorvee.parenting

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