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@frankie.the.dutchie and Charlie are my world 🐶🐱
I'm just here for the animals 💞

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I am Jane Doe and this is my story.
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#janedoe by @tylarbonell

Thank you so much @photosby.bek for making me feel so beautiful with all 3 versions of myself 🥰 If you want your pictures done Rebekah is absolutely the way to go!💜 by @tylarbonell

Milestones are a big deal for me. Especially this one. A year ago today I found the golf ball sized lump in my armpit and from that moment on my life as I knew it would never be the same.
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I will never forget the paralyzing feeling of finding that lump. Shock, fear, confusion, terror.. no words can truly express that feeling until you go through it yourself. That moment is etched into my memory forever.
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I will never forget going to work that same night and telling my sweet boss Tracy what I had found and that I needed to go to the Dr immediately after we finished inventory.
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I’ll never forget sitting in the Dr office with Jason and hearing *that* sentence.
“I am extremely confident that you have lymphoma”
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It does not feel like only a year has past. It feels like a lifetime. I’m so bound and determined to raise awareness for lymphoma which is why I decided to post this video. If my raising awareness can help even just 1 person detect lymphoma early on then to me it feels like I didn’t go through this hellish experience for nothing.
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There are 2 good things that came out of this though. The first being the friends I’ve made. Nothing can live up to having friends that have gone through the same medical trauma that you did. You all know who you are and I love you guys more than anything in the world.
The second thing, I’ve found my career path. Working in oncology with other patients and loving every second of it.
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Lymphoma is the most common blood cancer for people aged 15-39. Please become familiar with the warning signs!!
-losing weight and you don’t know why?
- super fatigued for no reason?
- itching all the time and don’t know why?
- drenched in night sweat?
- found a lump in your armpit, neck or groin??
Please go visit your GP and get it checked out. It’s sooo much better to get it checked out and have it be nothing than to ignore it and have it be something.

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#hodgkinslymphoma #lymphoma #cancerawareness by @tylarbonell

👻October dump 🎃 by @tylarbonell

I got Frankie's photos back from her Dock or Treat competition last month! 🎃 She earned a new personal best of 18 feet 1 inch! I love my water girl so much!!!! by @tylarbonell

Look it! It's frickin bats. 🦇 I love Halloween. by @tylarbonell

Frankie graduated from the advanced dock diving class Monday night! This girl loves this sport so dang much and I can't get enough of watching her!! I'm so proud of you my sweetest Frankie! by @tylarbonell

My greatest love, my safest place, my sunrise and sunset. My favorite topic, my best friend, my confidant. 2 years of loving you has been the greatest gift I could ever ask for but I want 200 more years please. You make life so magical. I love you forever and more. 💞 by @tylarbonell

5 years ago this hell hole began lol
One second you're fine, the next you are launched into orbit with no control. It's been 5 years since my biopsy came back with confirmation of Hodgkins Lymphoma. It was stage 4. I underwent 6 months of 12 chemotherapy treatments and getting the most horrific white blood cell shot that in my opinion was wayyyy worse than chemo. I was so lucky to be a part of a clinical trial that had a 98% success rate. I learned so many really hard lessons in a short amount of time. Between losing friends and gaining friends, feeling a million miles away from my partner at the time, trying to cope with my body changing, trying to survive the side effects from chemo, kissing death on the forehead when I was hospitalized. Meeting my Matt and being able to fall in love with such a good man. He gets me through every single day. Having cancer completely demolished my life as I knew it. Nothing was the same anymore. I felt like I had to be the perfect cancer patient. But eventually that pressure becomes too much. If you're reading this and you're just starting your journey, in the middle of it or in survivorship, you will always have support from me. My messages are always open with zero judgement. Cancer isn't something we are meant to do alone. Community and relationships matter so much. Putting yourself first matters so much. At the end of the day, you are all you have. Give yourself some grace, some time and patience.. roll with the punches, scream, cry... Everything will be okay. You will find a new normal and you will learn how to live in it. 💞 by @tylarbonell

Our first day at Dock or Treat was a success! We got a new personal best of 18 ft 1 in 🔥 swipe to the last slide to hear Craig's amazing commentary/calling me out 😂😂 by @tylarbonell

🍂September so far 🍂 by @tylarbonell

Oh my Frankie, my sweet girl is 2 years old. What a cool ass dog you have become! You have been the funniest, coolest, most ambitious 1 year old I've ever known and I've had so much fun running alongside you.
Frankie hasn't even been dock diving for a year yet, and she is killing it! She can jump 18 feet on her distance dives. The love this girl has for the pool is crazy. I have absolutely loved watching her grow and excel in this sport.
She has so much energy and can (and does) play fetch for hours. Indoor or outdoor, it doesn't matter she just loves to play. Her puppy energy is unmatched ⚡
Her and Charlie are perfect together. They constantly give each other shit, wrestle, groom and on very slim occasions will cuddle and fall asleep together. They are the perfect pair.
Frankie is the sweetest bundle of love you'll ever know. She loves to love and she loves AGGRESSIVLEY. Which also makes her very protective, I know she's got my back, and she knows I've got hers.
She's so random and hilarious I'm constantly guessing her next move or what in the hell she's thinking 😂 She's super adventurous and always down to do anything at anytime.
Frankie I love you so damn much. I cannot believe this world has been so lucky to have you in it for 2 whole years now. Thank you for making my life so bright, for being my purpose and my reason everyday. My life became better the second you entered it. Happy birthday my beautiful girl. 💞 Here's to many more years of barking out the car window, dancing around the apartment with me, being the best copilot and storm chaser (from bed) with me. Everything I do, I want you there too. Happy birthday #2⚡💞🎉 by @tylarbonell