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Zac Spowart | Authentic Connection | Author

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I Help Men in their 30s-40s Find Peace & Attract the Love of their Life
•Clinical Coach: 15 yrs + 2 Masters 📜
•📖 Love Unlocked ⬇️ 🌴 Bali Based

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Welcome!

If you needed a refresher, just found my page, or are curious to learn more about Love Unlocked I’m glad you’re here.

My name is Zac Spowart. I’m a dual Masters clinician that’s spent the last 15 years of my life dedicated to helping women, men, adolescents, and families from all around the world.

If you’re curious why you keep attracting the same people and things repeatedly then this page and my book, Love Unlocked, are for you!

DM me UNLOCKED to learn more or click my website link in the bio.

From my heart to yours, welcome. Looking forward to connecting 💙🌏

📕- Link in bio
💻- Link in bio

#loveunlocked #consciousrelating #attachmentstyles #healthycommunication taken in Bali, Indonesia by @zacspowart

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6 months ago

Family… Friends… New Acquaintances… Welcome!

While some of you may know me from my other sober travel page, this is the beginning a whole new IG experience. I’ve been working diligently the last couple years on what is my life’s passion, this book, Love Unlocked: A Guide to Self-Acceptance and Conscious Relating.

What is Conscious Relating?

I’ve been asked this a lot lately.

It’s more than a buzz word being thrown around on spiritual retreats in Bali.

It’s personal awareness, ownership, integrity.

It’s Authenticity.

Because without understanding ourselves (our behavioral patterns, our deep-rooted psyche, and what drives us beneath the surface) we run the risk of living on a level of autopilot… unintentionally becoming a slave to urges, emotions, and our unconscious desires.

With over two decades of personal and professional clinical experience, two master’s degrees, and thousands of lives touched directly through my work as a clinician, I’m re-entering this space with genuine passion and excitement.

What separates me from the counselor next door? Glad you asked…

I don’t believe in the traditional style of counseling. I’m not married to labels or diagnosing (although I’m trained in it if it makes you happy to receive one)

I believe in something far more heart-centered. More flowy, but direct and challenging. More human-to-human.
More… unique.

This book is a culmination of personal, philosophical, and evidence-based treatment modalities. It marks the beginning of my purpose-driven work, and I’m genuinely so excited to share it with you here as the first post on this page, with many more to come.

📘 You can check it out via the link in my bio. 
Or DM me if you want to dive deeper into what it means to understand why we connect… and disconnect… the way we do.

I absolutely love everything related to human psychology and conscious connection, and I’m grateful to be here with you in this space.

Welcome to Love Unlocked. I can’t wait to connect with you all further 💙🌏

📘 Book: link in bio
🧠 3-month deep dive: DM “UNLOCKED” to apply (3 spots only)

#loveunlocked #consciousrelating #selfacceptance #attachmenthealing #healthycommunication Love Unlocked book cover. Conscious Relating and Self- Acceptance taken in Bali, Indonesia by @zacspowart

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9 months ago

Do you believe in coincidences?

I’m not sure I did either

Some say ODD or GOD

Meanwhile, having an incredibly challenging 2 years, navigating a number of difficulties in almost every arena of my life I found myself drawn to and inspired by this man @nicksantonastasso

I’d followed him for years before, but something called on me to really lean into his message. Everyday, no matter what, he wakes up, no excuses, just grinds and puts good into the world.

THAT’s my kind of person. Thats the kind of person I want to be more of.

How can I do this? I asked myself.

Not but a month later he appears randomly at a coffee shop I work at daily in Bali where I live.

I pointed at him in excitement, he pointed at me in playful response, and invited me for deeper conversation. A man on vacation, but making time for someone showing interest.

More of the type of person I strive to be and be around.

Fast forward and I’m honored, blessed, and proud to call this man more than a mentor, but a friend.

Messy movement, he likes to say. Just keep going 💪

So much of Love Unlocked being finished was inspired by these moments.

We just never know who’s going to come into our lives and when.

Keep your eyes open my friends.

That time could be now. This post. If it’s calling to you.

You don’t have to feel stuck anymore.

Are you hurting? Good
Are you struggling? Good
Are you confused, lonely, afraid, disoriented?
…. Good

I say good not because I wish pain on anyone, but because these are the moments that define us. These are the moments when our true character begins to show. It’s easy when things are easy.

Show me who you are when life gets hard. Better yet, show yourself. Not to prove anything, but to DISCOVER!

Do we encourage others when we need encouragement ourselves?

Do we give when we are financially in fear?

Do we honor our obligations because that’s what it means to be in integrity?

My invitation to you is simple.

FEEL🔥

Feel it all to heal it all

This is not the time to run, hide, or numb. This is the time to RISE💙

If you’re ready for a change DM “Unlocked” to apply for 1 of my private slots and 90 day container

#loveunlocked #attachmentstyles Nick Santonastasso, motivational speaker, Zac Spowart, conscious relating, counselor, author, bali, authentic relating, healing, attachment styles taken in Bali, Indonesia by @zacspowart

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9 months ago

A little Love Unlocked from the middle of the Indian Ocean 🌊⛵️

As I sit day 3 on this boat and know there’s only blue ahead and just us 5 out here for the weeks ahead I started to feel into the idea of connection.

Often it’s as simple as making eye contact with someone we care about.

What’s interesting to me is that what feels like connection to one person can feel overwhelming to another.

Eye contact is a great example of this. It can be incredibly intimate, and sometimes that intensity is a little much.

I was always raised to look people in the eye when you speak to them. But it’s important to note , if someone looks away, that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re uninterested or disconnected. They may just need a little energetic break.

Trick here is to soften your gaze. Give them room to adjust or do what they need.

Or better yet, we can ask!

Connection isn’t about forcing closeness. Even when we’re on a boat in the middle of the ocean. It’s about learning how to meet each other where we are.

And we don’t have to take those differences personally.

As always, if you need anything, I’m here for you. You’re never alone.

Welcome home 🏡

#LoveUnlocked #ConsciousRelating #EmotionalIntelligence #HumanConnection #Relationships by @zacspowart

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4 days ago

If you’ve ever drank just to make your brain quiet down, you need to watch this. #riseabove #podcast #addiction #alcohol by @zacspowart

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a month ago

This might be the most important thing you hear today. #trauma #mentalhealth #healing #mindset #service by @zacspowart

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a month ago

The Big Book doesn’t tell you how to stop drinking…it teaches you how to live. #sobriety #addictionrecovery #bigbook #soberlife by @zacspowart

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a month ago

From Cal Poly to a 170-man jail dorm 🤯🤯

#sobriety #soberlife #addictionrecovery #podcastclips by @zacspowart

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a month ago

You don’t miss the drink. You miss having a way out of your head…😳

#sobriety #addictionrecovery #mentalhealthmatters #soberlife #anxietyrelief by @zacspowart

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A 5-minute trip to the gas station right out of jail became the moment that changed his life forever. 😧

#riseabove #sobriety #addictionrecovery #podcastclips #jail by @zacspowart

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a month ago

Day 30 of our experiment 📖

A little different today…

I happened to be hanging out with my dear friend @liberatedwithliv , we were already talking about love and relationships, so we figured why not pick up Love Unlocked and continue the conversation together.

We landed on narrative identity.

In a nutshell, the stories we carry about ourselves, love, relationships, and the people around us.

Our past experiences help write those stories.

Who stayed
Who left
How we were loved
How we were hurt
What worked
What didn’t

And inevitably, some of those old stories follow us into new relationships.

They influence what we expect, what we fear, what we notice, and sometimes even what we believe is possible.

The challenge is remembering that our past can inform our story without having to keep writing it.

Sometimes the person in front of us deserves the opportunity to be someone new.

And sometimes we deserve the opportunity to become someone new too.

Fun way to celebrate Day 30 with a friend, give her page a peek! 😊

As always, if you need anything, I’m here for you. You’re not alone.

Welcome home 🏡

#LoveUnlocked #NarrativeIdentity #Relationships #ConsciousRelating #SelfAwareness by @zacspowart

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OMFG 😞

#riseabove #addictionrecovery #sobriety #accident #dui taken in Jupiter, Florida by @zacspowart

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