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Wedding & Event Styling, Decor & Props🌿
Sustainable•Relaxed•Award-Winning•Featured•Accredited
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📍London & Kent
est 2018

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And that’s it! 🔒All votes are locked in!
The voting has closed and it’s all down to the @twia_official judges now!
A huge thank you to all my couples who voted for us!
As I went down the list of voters each wedding made me reminisce on the beautiful couple and all the gorgeous details of their big day!
Thank you for putting up with my reminder emails! 🫣 😂
I am so so grateful to each and every one of my couples who voted and I genuinely can’t thank you enough!
Now we just wait and see!
Becoming a finalist is amazing in itself but just imagine if we win! 🤪
Cross all your fingers for us and sustainable weddings!🍀 🤞🏾
Thank you again!
X taken in London, United Kingdom by @4yaparty

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6 days ago

The obsession that you have to chase the latest wedding trend is exhausting for me as a wedding supplier so it must be tiring for those of you planning weddings right now!
Styles change so quickly, it may be hard not to change your mind multiple times through the planning process! 😂
I know I struggled with that when planning my big day with Mr 4YaParty!
My business head was telling me to do a more modern style because that would work well for being an “on trend” wedding on my socials.
But my heart wanted the rustic, whimsical day that I didn’t get to have at my first wedding. (Yes, married & divorced before I was 30, joys of getting married too young lol😂)

Was flower crowns and naked cakes trending at the time?
No! 😂

But that’s what I wanted and Mr 4YaParty just wanted me to be happy! Although he did pick the colour scheme which I absolutely adored! (Glad he didn’t let me pick purple again!😜)
Our wedding wasn’t trending at the time and it certainly isn’t trending now but whenever I look at our wedding photos I feel so warm and fuzzy because it is so US!
Relaxed, whimsical, rustic and full of warmth! That is us!
Maybe you’re a bright colours couple or a modern classy couple or a nerdy or gothic couple - whatever your vibe, let it out!

Do you want to look back at your wedding photos and say “I wouldn’t do that now but it was popular at the time…” or do you want to say “I wouldn’t change a thing because it was so US!”

Relaxed weddings that are beautiful, injected with personality and kind to the planet is our style whatever that looks like for you!
DM for a wedding brochure and let’s create magic together!

Happy Sunday 🫶🏾 taken in The Oaks & The Olive Terrace Wedding & Event Venue Eltham by @4yaparty

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8 days ago

🖤Gothic Wedding🖤
Don’t get me wrong, I love a traditional weddings BUT when I’m presented with a quirky, alternative or gothic theme I go absolutely coconuts for coco pops! 🤪
This is where I get to stretch my creativity skills to the limit and I loved bringing this one together for my gorgeous couple at Hall Place last week!
To be honest, this is quite tame for me, I had a box of skulls that were gagging to come out but we had to tone it down a little for this one! 😝
So if you have a Halloween party coming up that needs some eco friendly decor make sure to get in touch!

P.S I have NO clue who did the cake but I’m still picking my jaw off the floor since seeing it on Thursday 😅

🖤❤️🖤

Venue: @hallplaceweddings taken in Hall Place Historic Home & Gardens by @4yaparty

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13 days ago

As it gets colder my arthritis flares up more and the walking stick makes more of an appearance.
So if you see me with my walking stick this Winter, don’t worry I’m not injured!
Just living with a lifelong disability, while running a business, volunteering in the community, with 4 neurodiverse kids while being an epic wife like the absolute boss b*tch I am! 😜
(Subtle Brag!) 😂 taken in London Kent by @4yaparty

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16 days ago

Uhhh 😍
I can’t with just how lush this wedding was to style!
I’m honestly so lucky to have a job that I absolutely adore!
All the deep reds, trailing greenery and lush draping made this bang on trend while the vintage candelabras and vintage books brought the old money style and was the perfect combination for this gorgeous wedding at @trafalgartaverngreenwich
I’ll be at their wedding showcase on Sunday 4th October! Make sure you have registered for a ticket!
You don’t want to miss it! 🫶🏾 taken in Trafalgar Tavern by @4yaparty

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18 days ago

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GOTCHA! 😂 There are no three things. 🤣

Because actually, this post is a massive appreciation for the DIY couples. 👏🏾💜

Those who spend months collecting jars, hunting Marketplace, making signage, arranging flowers, painting backdrops and turning a pile of random bits into something that feels completely and utterly them!
There is SO much love, creativity and time that goes into a truly DIY wedding, and when you stand back on the day and look at what you created it feels amazing.

But those aren’t my couples… 😅

My couples are TIRED! 😴
-They’ve got jobs.
-They’ve got kids.
-Family commitments.
-Hobbies.
-Friends.
-A social life they’re desperately trying to cling onto while planning an entire wedding. 😂

They do NOT want to come home after a full day and start glue-gunning flowers onto something they found on Facebook!
They don’t want 40 boxes of wedding décor taking over the spare room.
And they definitely don’t want to be lying awake at 2am thinking:
“Does this all actually go together or does it look like I’ve raided the middle aisle of Aldi?” 😭😂

And that’s ok, because that’s where I come in. 💜

You bring me the ideas, the Pinterest boards, the random photo you saved six months ago and the “I don’t really know what I want…” and I turn it into a wedding that feels completely YOU!

I take away the stress, the pressure to be creative, the endless buying, making, storing, transporting, setting up and clearing away. And I take away that horrible fear that after all that effort, it might still look a little… thrown together. 👀

Instead, you get a beautifully styled, cohesive wedding that looks intentional, feels personal and is executed properly, most importantly, without creating a mountain of single-use wedding waste in the process. 🌿

You don’t need to make your own centrepieces to prove you care about your wedding.
You can just hire someone who loves doing it, has been doing it for 8 years 😂🙋🏾‍♀️

So if you’re reading this thinking; “Thank Goodness that’s me!”
Then congratulations.🥳 You’ve just found your wedding stylist. 💜

Slide into my DMs to get a copy of our wedding brochure.
(No glue gun required. 😂) taken in London Kent by @4yaparty

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20 days ago

Back at The Gardens, Yalding
Was so lovely to be back at @thegardensyalding last month for a gorgeous rustic sage wedding featuring our Sophia collection!
Thank you to @everframe_photography for capturing me and my team deep in concentration mode while we styled the Gazebo and the Tipi’s! 🥰
If you’re looking for a photographer to capture your behind the scenes make sure to get in contact with Marinique from @everframe_photography
Looking for gorgeous wedding decor that doesn’t cost the Earth! 🌍
Get in touch for a copy of our wedding brochure for sustainable wedding decor!
💜 taken in The Gardens at Yalding by @4yaparty

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24 days ago

Crunchy leaves, Hot Chocolate, Pumpkin Spiced Candles, Scarves and Boots 🥰
Yes, I’m so ready for Autumn 🍂
And so is @trafalgartaverngreenwich 😍
Make sure and book a table for gorgeous food and stunning views and you may be lucky enough to be there when the fire gets going! 😍🥂

🍂 🍁 ☕️ 🕯️ 🍁 👢 🧣 🍂 taken in Trafalgar Tavern by @4yaparty

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In between the back to back weddings this summer we also styled a beautiful pink baby shower! 💗

Now this baby shower was extra special because it was the baby shower of one of my previous wedding couples!! 😍
They had completely forgotten about the 10% discount that all previous wedding clients get on future events for life!
So it was really lovely to know that they chose me again because they loved my work and not just because of the discount!

Oh yea, if you didn’t know, all wedding clients get 10% discount on all future events for life! 🤯
My way of trying to stay in your life foreverrrrrr!☺️ (That wasn’t supposed to sound so creepy 😂)
Looking forward to a birthday party coming up with a previous wedding client too 🤩

P.S This shower was completely zero waste, 💚 not even any food waste because every one took the left over food and cake home! 🥰
Get in touch if you have an event coming up that you want to look gorgeous while being conscious of our planet! 🌍

P.P.S This gorgeous private dining space is at @hiltonlondoncroydon - it was lovely having my mum help me with this one as she worked there for years before she retired and seeing her connect with old colleagues was so sweet 🥹 taken in Hilton London Croydon by @4yaparty

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It’s a sad time when I feel the need to remind people. 😫
I am human and I have feelings.
I am Black, I Am Queer, I am Disabled.
I run a business as a professional, not a hobby.
I deserve respect and deserve to be trusted to do what I’ve done for 8 years with an impeccable track record.
If any of those things rub you up the wrong way, or you don’t agree with any of those statements, that’s PERFECTLY FINE! 🫶🏾
Just hit the unfollow button and carry on with your sad little existence! 😘
Thank you and Happy Sunday! 💋
💜 taken in London Kent by @4yaparty

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a month ago

🤍All White Everything!🤍
Our Chelsie Collection was out in full force for this summer wedding at Bromley Court Hotel last month!
Paired with silver made this an ultra elegant wedding to style and I loved it 🥰
If you’re looking for wedding decor that’s beautiful and good to the planet then don’t hesitate to contact me for a wedding brochure.
Even better, come along to our open day and see it for yourself!
🤍🩶🤍🩶🤍 taken in Bromley Court Hotel by @4yaparty

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TO MY TEAM!!
I am honestly so lucky! My team is all family!
Whether it’s my mum, sister, son, husband or cousin, there’s always a family member there ready to help at 4YaParty and this summer has been WILD! 🤪
Our busiest summer ever! 🤯
But it’s not just styling weddings…
Our cousin helps with the heavy lifting in the week, my mum helps take the little man to basketball when I have a Sunday wedding, my husband helps wash napkins while I’m having consultations or at networking events.
There’s so much that goes on behind the scenes that keeps 4YaParty going and I couldn’t do it without them!
I owe all of them so much love for their support this summer but don’t worry, I’m going to nice them at Christmas 😉
Love you guys!
💜💜💜 taken in London, United Kingdom by @4yaparty

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