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Matt McCabe

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Day 1…

OR

One day…

Stop pushing it off.

Making excuses.

“It’s already Thursday so why not wait till Monday”

“Next week will be better”

“Once the holidays are done”

I was notorious for those sayings.

That guy on the left, he drank every night. Smoked a pack of cigarettes a day. Ate like absolute shit, was depressed, hated life and blamed everyone and everything around him except himself for his struggles and situations.

Took me a long time to realize that it’s a terrible way to live life.

Now let’s talk about that guy on the right..

He’s happy, he’s confident, he’s growing and learning, he accepts responsibility, he’s working his way towards becoming successful, he enjoys life and solely understands that he controls everything. No one else.

You see, We all have the same opportunities to make changes in our lives, for some that might be small changes. For others it might be larger changes. Regardless of how big they are, the only way those changes occur is if you decide that it’s time.

The end of the year may be fast approaching but that doesn’t mean we have to wait till 2024 to start making changes. All it takes is a decision to take action.

And what better time than now to make that happen! taken in Ballwin, Missouri by @_mattmccabe_

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3 years ago

There is a purpose behind every single thing that you do.

Although the purpose is not solely just about that “thing” you do.

It’s that feeling that happens to others when you do the “thing” you do.

How you’re remembered and how you made them feel. What they say about you when you’re not in the same room. The energy that you provide, The experience that you give.

Here’s the catch…

Finding your purpose doesn’t just come along, it takes years of effort, commitment and dedication but once you’ve molded your unique skills and gifts, the possibilities are endless.

One of the greatest gifts you can give to someone, hell, even the world is to simply own your purpose, own your passion, and continue inspiring others to bravely own theirs.

📸: @davidmullis taken in 1st Phorm HQ by @_mattmccabe_

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2 years ago

Before leaving work tonight, I sat, thought, reflected and did one last journal entry for the year…

Journal Entry 12/31/2024;

We are walking into 2025 with the mindset of dominance.

Why?

I feel like could have done more this year. I feel like I could have done better. While a lot was accomplished and even more to be grateful for…

I feel like I could have done more this year. I feel like I could have done better.

I could have been a better husband.

I could have been a better father.

I could have been a better brother.

I could have been a better friend.

I could have been a better coworker.

I could have been a better teammate.

I could have been a better leader.

I could have been an overall better human being.

I could have done more.

I could have done better.

It’s easy to sit back and dissect everything you’ve felt “went wrong” after it’s all said and done Matt, but it now allows you to put that on the forefront of your mind as you head into the next 365.

Allowing you to strive for your absolute personal excellence. Allowing you to absolutely dominate.

So what do ya say? Let’s not go with another year of “coulda’s, shoulda’s and woulda’s.” How about we do this instead, Let’s sit here on 12/31/25 and simply just write,

Dominated.

I believe in you, Matt.

You know what you need to do…

Now go do it.

#workhard #hardwork #iam1stphorm #accountability #leadershipdevelopment #leadership #dreams #goals #dreambig #nevergiveup #keepgoing #dontquit #wedothework #letsdothis taken in Ballwin, Missouri by @_mattmccabe_

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2 years ago

Fall Fest 2026. 🍂🎃🍂.

Everything I never knew I needed, standing right here.

Some days I look at them and can’t believe they’re mine. Their laughter, their love, the absolute chaos, their little hands in mine, all of it. Simply put, this is everything that I prayed for. I’m a lucky man and blessed beyond words.

Let’s keep making memories 🧡 by @_mattmccabe_

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a day ago

There are 90 days left in 2026 and by the time you read this, today is half way over..Crazy right?!

But it’s really not THAT crazy. Life moves whether we like it or not.

So let me ask you,

How have the past 275 days been for you?

Have you accomplished the goals you set out for yourself? Did you keep the promises you made?
Are you continuing to show up day in and day out?

Or

Have the past 275 days been full of excuses?

Full of “l’Il start tomorrow’s” and countless “I just don’t have time for that” conversations.

We start to believe the stories we tell ourselves and when we do it well enough, it becomes who we are. We will sit there and try to justify. Justify that it’s ok to miss that workout because you’d rather relax. Justify that because of those couple “bad” meals you had, you’re already behind so why get back to eating healthy again. Justify “well the years almost over so why start now”.

It’s a non stop cycle when we allow it to be. When in reality all the conversations and justifications are only hurting us and the life we are trying to build.

But it’s not just that..

You deserve better.

So why not take these next 90 days and start to take everything much more seriously than you have been. Start focusing on your decisions, your daily habits , your daily routines, the conversations you’re having with yourself and those around you.

Just commit fully for one day..

Then two..

Then one week..

Then one month..

Before you know it those 90 days will be gone and you’ll be light years ahead of where you were.

There’s no better time than right now.. by @_mattmccabe_

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9 days ago

My beautiful girls,

At the end of your life, your purpose will be defined not by how you struggled, what circumstances you were in, or what you were supposed to do, but how you responded in the face of adversity, who you were to the people in your life, and what you did each day that slowly, in its own unique way, changed the course of humanity.

I love you. taken in 1st Phorm HQ by @_mattmccabe_

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20 days ago

Your home should be a personal sanctuary. It’s a place where you can be yourself, create a space to relax and feel at peace. A true home will tell a special story. Each corner has its importance and Our House will be a place to fill those corners with special pieces old and new!

Little about me- I’m Kate McCabe, I’m a mom to two beautiful daughter’s Madilyn & Charlotte and married to my amazing husband Matt. We moved from Boston to St.Louis in 2022. It’s been such an amazing experience but when we moved I wanted so deeply to create a home here- one that felt inviting, warm and chic. To create those feelings of warmth I knew I needed to start looking at more affordable ways to accomplish this dream.

I was nervous to launch this project Our House because l’m self taught but my passion for creating & resourcing curated old and new pieces to create magical spaces took over and here we are!! I’d love the opportunity to help you make your home feel like a personal sanctuary like I’ve to mine!

Our House will be a place I will post weekly home decor & classic clothing brands I resource. I will also be offering bundles for your home with themed decor packages or room specific packages. Clothing will be higher end items that will be affordable & only top quality! All pieces are chosen with intention and love, so let’s start decorating together both home & some closet staples!

Thank you again for coming along on this journey. I am so excited to introduce Our House & all it has to offer!! Kate 🤍 #ourhouse #homedecor #homeinspiration #chic #fallvibes by @_mattmccabe_

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a month ago

You’ve been waiting for the “perfect moment” but the truth is, the closest thing to the “perfect moment” is today.

It’s a new month. A new chapter in your book. 30 unwritten days.

This month...

Let’s stop making excuses…

I’ve been there.

Let’s stop waiting for that “Monday” to come around…

I’ve done that.

Let’s stop telling yourself the same story…

I’ve said them.

It’s time to start working on your goals.

If you knew that dedication, consistency, and a relentless pursuit were the keys to success, would you still set the same goals? If so, how would you approach them? Keeping the bar low or raising the stakes and aiming higher?

Always remember, your focus determines your reality.

So, ask yourself:

**What do you want to achieve this month?

**What’s the ONE thing that will make the biggest difference in your life?

Set your goals high. Don’t be afraid to fail. Keep pushing forward and DO NOT give up!

This is YOU vs YOU. So let’s make this month your best yet!

What’s ONE goal you set for September? taken in Ballwin, Missouri by @_mattmccabe_

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a month ago

Your character is either the door that will open everything up in your life or the key that will keep your dreams locked away. taken in 1st Phorm HQ by @_mattmccabe_

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a month ago

No one can make you show up every day.

No one can make you track the food.

No one can make you drink the water or go to the gym.

It’s never going to go perfectly as planned. EVER.

Your goals

You’re gonna fail. In fact, you’re gonna fail a lot. And not in a bad way.

The dreams you have aren’t just going to be yours overnight.

You gotta work for it.

You gotta work for it all.

You gotta fall down. Get back up. Fall down again. Get back up. Fall down again and pick your ass back up.

You control your destiny.

You control your future.

You control the outcome.

It’s YOU vs YOU.

Everyday.

Are you willing to make the sacrifices or are you willing to stay the same?

It’s up to you... by @_mattmccabe_

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2 months ago

There’s a version of me that gets quiet, distracted, and a little lost when I’m not putting myself first. I don’t always catch it while it’s happening, but I know the signs and a few months back, it started. So I stopped opening the apps for a bit.

Social media can be a powerful tool, when done correctly but a lot of what’s on here isn’t built to help you. It’s built to hold your attention, and the easiest way to do that is to make you feel something. For me, that something is inadequacy.

You scroll past someone’s highlight reel and quietly measure your Tuesday against their best day. The house, the car, the body, the trip, the promotion. Every bit of it and while you’re scrolling, some part of your brain starts to keep score, certainly not on purpose but it happens, until one day you realize you’ve been playing a game you never agreed to enter.

That’s exactly what happened to me. I got lost in the comparison. I stopped feeling like I was going anywhere, even in seasons where I actually was. Feeling like a failure, a fraud and just so far behind in life. The things I used to love doing started to feel so heavy and everything turned into a content competition instead of something worth doing for its own sake.

I took the time to figure out why I was even on it and in that time, I fell back in love with writing, fitness, and learning how to lead better, both at work and at home. May be minor to you but it’s not to me. When I’m not writing, moving my body or leading the right way, I’m not truly me. I’m a watered-down version, going through the motions and that’s not good. This was about remembering who I am when the noise is turned down.

I’m back now and this time, I’m doing it differently. I don’t need social media to validate who I am or what I’m doing with my life. If I’m going to use it, it’s going to serve a purpose I choose. Whether it’s a lesson learned the hard way, a laugh or simply a little guidance for whoever needs it.

Value, not noise.

One last thing, social media isn’t an open invitation for anyone and everyone to have a seat at your table. It’s yours. You decide who it’s for and what it’s for so build it on your terms.

Be you. For you. by @_mattmccabe_

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2 months ago

Kaitlin,

8.6.21.

For 5 years of marriage and 11 years total..

You’ve always been there.

Through the ups and downs, the sleepless nights, the joy, the pain, those late night fights and extremely hard conversations...

You’ve always been there.

The challenges of life and those “what if”, “how are we going to” and “is this truly worth it” moments...

You’ve always been there.

You’re my best friend and biggest fan. Always supporting me no matter what, believing in me more than I believe in myself and loving me for who I am and the dreams I strive to achieve.

You’re the most amazing mother to our two beautiful little girls and I count my blessings every single day that you walked into my life.

It certainly has not been easy but I know for a fact that I would not be where I am or who I am today if it wasn’t for you.

My love for you grows stronger every single day and I promise you that I will always be there for you.

Day in and day out.

After all, what’s a king without his queen?

Happy anniversary, let’s keep the train rolling, what do ya say?!

#anniversary #mywife #iam1stphorm #bestfriends #dreamchasers by @_mattmccabe_

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