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@_sofireharris_

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Psychic & Channel. Helping woman slow down and build a life they love. Mama of✌️working 6 hours a week with multi 6 figures per year doing what I love

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Women with father wounds find it hard to hold onto money

Her income is inconsistent. And so is her bank account.

Her nervous system learned early that things that feel good get taken away. That people leave. That the moment she relaxes, it disappears.

So her body recreates the familiar.
The $10k month followed by $2k. The client who ghosts. The launch that works once, then never again. The money that arrives and evaporates before she can exhale.

This is an abandonment wound running your business.

Your nervous system would rather feel the pain of failure than the pain of abandonment again. So it keeps running the same results - no matter what strategy you change.

It usually traces back to one of two places:

A father who was absent or critical - teaching her that money and safety cannot be trusted to stay.

A mother who loved conditionally - teaching her that being too successful, too visible, too much, means losing belonging.

So she self-sabotages before it can be taken. Creates chaos the moment ease arrives. Undercharges. Over-delivers. Wonders why she resents her clients.

The wound was the solution - once. It kept you safe. It kept you loved.

But without self-worth, money doesn’t fix anything. It amplifies everything.

The fear. The shame. The belief it’s all going to disappear.

Which is why you can hit your biggest month ever and still feel like the floor is falling out. The money arrived. The wound was just louder now.

Strategy alone will never be enough.

The goal isn’t just to make money. It’s to feel safe enough to receive it, hold it, manage it, and celebrate it without bracing for it to be taken.

When you regulate your relationship with wealth - you stop making fluctuation mean failure. You strip the story away. You trust yourself to hold it. You trust that you are the value.

And from that place, you build a business that doesn’t just make money.
It holds it.

This is the work. Healing the internal relationship that money has been amplifying all along.

Your business cannot out-earn your nervous system. But you can heal what’s underneath.

Comment “WEALTH” and I’ll send you the link to my upcoming free masterclass. 🖤 by @_sofireharris_

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6 months ago

I could have sat back. I could have listened to the voices that said no not now, youre not ready yet. I could have avoided the soul whispers nudging me towards my edges, out of my stretchy AF comfort zone.

The voices that said “Im ok where I am” “I dont want to work hard, and that looks hard to me”

I could have continued what “worked” until it didnt

There was a force far greater than me saying “no, you need to make this 12 months, expand the people and do it NOW”

It was so loud I honestly felt like something came over me for the day

I channelled an entire programme 12 months before this. Devine timing. Masked in fear.

I kept getting the nudges until a whisper during a meditation said loud and clear “NOW”

SO I proceeded with action. With no ducks lined in a row. No actual offer in front of me.

The result? Sold out within the day.

The identity shift? COURAGE

BOLD ACTION. A listening to my soul rather than the fear I was so used to believing.

Next? The real identity shift - BECOMING THE LEADER

No longer the scared little girl feeling “safe” playing it small

Want to know the formula?

The 280k launch method is a free 60min masterclass to take you through the energetics & identity shift you need to make in order to sell out your offer too. No matter how big or small! The formula is the same

Comment “method” and you’ll have first access! X by @_sofireharris_

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a year ago

There’s a reason your bank account isn’t reflecting how much you’re working - there’s subconscious blocks that you aren’t aware of (yes I understand you think you may know - trust me you don’t LOL). And you also have a capacity in how much you feel safe to receive, anything over that - you’ll spend straight away, or have unexpected bills pop up to take it away.
We work on your blocks AND how to expand your capacity to receive
We will be working with rewiring your subconscious programming and conditioning from childhood. And we will be working with your low tolerance which is keeping you in negatives or inconsistent income

What you’ll get
✨3x in-depth workshops teaching on the energetics around money, healing your relationship with money, identifying and healing your core wounds & subconscious blocks around money, working with somatics to expand your capacity to receive (value $2000)
✨1x breathwork journey to release energetic & subconscious patterns at a deep somatic level (value $700)
✨An entire tool kit to keep, (workbook, meditations, activations & guided practices) to continue rewiring your subconscious mind and expanding your capacity to receive and hold more - not JUST in money, because remember money is a reflection of you (value $1500)

Price increases to $888 this week. Link in bio to book your spot xx by @_sofireharris_

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a year ago

Wonder why you call in more money but then experience lots of emotions or death and rebirths? It’s all part of the parcel. Money cannot outgrow your identity. Quick little riff while I had the thought 🧬 by @_sofireharris_

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2 days ago

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4 days ago

We have a certain level of money required to live and survive. But most of us actually think we need more than what we have, and no matter what we have - we still don’t feel safe with money, we continue to block it, repel it, have unexpected bills come up, or no matter how much you have (you could very well have a million dollars - this was me!! And still don’t feel safe)

when the little girl never had a good role model of safety, love, being seen and heard FULLY and had her needs met - she usually still seeks this outside of her.

Which, money is going to represent that safety. In energetics, money is a masculine energy, its provider money. Then we get to play with MAGIC MONEY, but so many woman don’t because of the internal masculine and feminine dynamics (which is probably affecting her relationship and business too)

this is the work I’m so deeply passionate about and have spent years studying and working on in my own personal life which has taken me from no money , to over multi, multi 6 figures (cash) working 6 hours max a week as a mama of two. I grew up extremely poor and was bullied for it at school.

I’m not lucky- I’ve just learnt to work with these energetics. And if you’d not only like to change your bank account, but your relationships with business, your partner and yourself. Comment “FEM” and I’ll send you the link to my upcoming masterclasss 🔗🧬 by @_sofireharris_

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8 days ago

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9 days ago

Think money would be happy to be in a relationship with you? 🫠😅 by @_sofireharris_

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11 days ago

Building self trust and intuition isn’t about making the right choices all the time - it’s about making “wrong” or un aligned choices so you learn through that process HOW to trust yourself and your intuition

The greatest lessons and mastery aren’t through the successes - but through the losses and challenges embodied along the way

The greatest gift we can give ourselves it the permission to not be perfect, to mess up, to fall and rise again and again

Masters didn’t become masters by meditating on a mountain their whole lives. They became masters by overcoming their own darkness, obstacles, and inner shadows

The greatest teacher is the wrong turns, the rocky terrains and the mess that looked like it was never going to be cleaned up by @_sofireharris_

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12 days ago

We as woman have been born into a western world where we are taught to compare, be jealous, be a barbie, stay quiet, don’t express yourself too much, don’t be too loud, make your way to the top and work as hard as you can

We have become so addicted to likes, validation and fast quick success that we loose ourselves in the process.

I work with many already successful woman who have multi 500k plus companies and the one thing stays the same - a busy schedule, a loud inner critic and relationship on the brink of rupture

They have lost their spark, they don’t feel sexy and they don’t know how to stop

Not one is always the same though, maybe a father wound, maybe a mother wound. Maybe a girl who didn’t know how to feel

Underneath all of that is a woman waiting to come home, to awaken her spiritual gifts, to feel in her truth, to deepen relationships and to feel alive in life

But the first thing that happens is facing what we have learnt to hide. The patterns, the addictions, the inner critic, the shadows, the hurt, and the stagnat energy in the body

Unraveling, un masking, discovering - and coming home to who you were before anyone told you who to be

This is the greatest gift I get to experience in woman. Not the income goals, more money in their bank account than they have ever had, bigger and easier sales. No… it’s the woman who opens her heart, who finds true self love and deepens relationships around her. Who finds peace with who she is and in life

But we have to be willing to move through the threshold- and that’s the greatest gift I love to guide 🧬🪄

if 1:1 deep work with me in an intimate space is something you’d like to explore, send me a message x by @_sofireharris_

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15 days ago

Some reflections for full moon 🌕

- what am I avoiding? (Eg bank accounts, paying someone, messaging someone, sorting something, finishing something, emailing somethign back etc)

- where am I not taking myself or business seriously?

- what is business success / money like on my priority list? Am I really priortising it?
What excuses have I got?
What’s in the way of that?
What am I currently waiting on / for

- who have I not forgiven?

-where have I not forgiven myself?

-what am I stil holding on to?

-who am I still holding on to?

-what am I ready to prioritise and take action on within the next two weeks? Or even better, this week

- where am I letting fear stop me?
Where did this fear come from? Who said? What said? How does it serve me? Is it true? by @_sofireharris_

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19 days ago

We are in such a rush to arrive at our destination we don’t realise we have already arrived at one

One that is the stop to the next, and the next, and the next.

So for right now, remember this is a stop that one day, your little child imagined. Maybe it was that she could have a cookie at whatever time she wanted (because yes you can do that) maybe it’s that she has no rules, maybe it’s a teenage version that through heartbreak wished she had someone who loved her, and maybe you have that now

Maybe you wanted your own business, and you do in fact have one

Maybe it was an income goal that a version of you wished for and now you have that

But we focus so much on the next destination that this one becomes not enough

What you have now is more than many versions of you have always wanted

What if you were already at the destination

Will you enjoy it before its already gone?

Will you step into the magic of this moment and realise how good it feels? by @_sofireharris_

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25 days ago