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There can only be competition if you ENERGETICALLY INVEST in cocreating it 🤦🏼‍♀️ it’s a decision

A lot of women are obsessed with who he follows, who he was with, that ex who’s still sniffing around etc etc.

Every time you notice who he likes, the sideways glances, who he follows etc, you’re literally manifesting and creating competition and making him the prize 🤢

High self concept means at worst you don’t even NOTICE and he’d be mortally embarrassed to do that anywhere near your relationship because he’s shit scared to lose you and would NEVER entertain leaky energy like that 😩

First, I’ll ask you: was it like this at the start when he was pursuing you? If the answer was yes, you were already competing then GIRL you need my self concept HELP to attract and choose better quality men.

Secondly, if he only has eyes for you and now it’s changed STOP INVESTING energetically in the competition and start energetically investing in yourself.

You don’t need HIM to change first for you to start being the prize.

Want to learn how?

join, My WHAT THIRD PARTY?! Self-Concept Hotline which delivers daily audio trainings to help you take your attention off any obstacles and put YOU back on the pedestal.

DM “3P” to join. 💗

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Self concept. Law of assumption. Neville Goddard. Circumstances don’t matter. Specific person. Manifest your ex. SP manifestation. Living in the end. Persistence. Detachment. Manifest committed love.

#lawofassumption #selfconcept #manifestspecificperson #manifestsp #nevillegoddard by @alignwithbianca

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2 days ago

This is how I knew ⬇️

Exactly 2 months ago, I stepped away from my 2.5 year relationship with my boyfriend because we were stuck in the most dramatic anxious/avoidant cycles. Every SINGLE moment of conflict he would leave for what he called “space” but it was typical avoidant behaviour of kinda ghosting until he was over it emotionally, then coming back and not wanting to talk about it 😫😫😫. That said, he is THE MOST reliable and dependable man on the planet, except for this.

And after 2.5 years together I could no longer lie to myself and say this was enough emotional and practical stability for me (and my children 😫).

It was NOT enough. I was done being energetically depleted by how dysregulated and hurt I felt every 5-7 business days 😆

That’s how I knew I was done.

1️⃣ so, are you done with this cycle, my love?

Not “I hope he learns his lesson” done. Not “silent treatment” done. Not “it feels so good when he eventually comes back” done

I’m talking the dawning realisation that suddenly a man disappearing on you and not picking up your calls isn’t mysterious, stoic and triggering your desperation to learn all his childhood traumas - I’m talking it gives you massive ICK. Like, my darling, you realise you deserve so much better than this, because you my highly-sensitive love can actually RESOLVE conflict, and so suddenly you feel this shift of “this is not enough” and you feel it IN YOUR BONES.

So there’s that.

2. I had been investing HEAVILY into my self-concept and life outside of the relationship.

The aligned action I teach you in 1:1 and my programmes and courses. The energetic work. I wasn’t trying to manifest him to change I was manifesting a version of myself that called forth a different version of him.

He ghosted me and instead of 111 missed calls I took myself and my kids for a barefoot beach walk at sunset.
I was committed SOLELY to myself and my children. They feel the energetic shift.

After a couple of weeks we spoke and agreed to do something differently. We decided to stop blaming and take PERSONAL responsibility for co-creating the relationship we both want to stay in. Wit by @alignwithbianca

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First class treatment only ⬇️

“Circumstances don’t matter” does NOT mean abandoning yourself in the 3D.

Your highest self-concept isn’t thinking:

“But if I set a boundary, what if he leaves?”

She’s thinking:

“Why would I abandon MYSELF, my needs, my standards just for access to man?”

You can believe in the ideal version of him AND deny access to the version that doesn’t meet your standards for how you want to be treated.

The desire to set that boundary is your upgraded self-concept MANIFESTING the 3D.

Are you struggling with this? Then join “WHAT THIRD PARTY?! My self concept upgrade hotline where we
Stop making his behaviour, the competition or the circumstances more powerful than YOU.

DM “3P” for the invite.

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Self concept. Law of assumption. Neville Goddard. Circumstances don’t matter. Specific person. Manifest your ex. SP manifestation. Living in the end. Persistence. Detachment. Manifest committed love.

#lawofassumption #selfconcept #manifestspecificperson #manifestsp by @alignwithbianca

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3 days ago

Darling, you’re not auditioning. You’re deciding whether HE qualifies.

That’s the self-concept shift.

Want to stop making him, his behaviour or a 3rd party more important than YOU?

DM 3P to join my WHAT THIRD PARTY?! Hotline for daily self concept upgrades and manifestation trainings, specifically designed for third party dynamics 💜

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Self concept. Law of assumption. Neville Goddard. Circumstances don’t matter. Specific person. Manifest your ex. SP manifestation. Living in the end. Persistence. Detachment. Manifest committed love.

#lawofassumption #selfconcept #manifestspecificperson #manifestsp #nevillegoddard by @alignwithbianca

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Doomscrolling was never going to manifest the life I wanted 😂 But my SET + FORGET manifestation method did.

I stopped obsessing over the 3D, put my attention back on ME, and let my manifestation method do its job.

Want the exact method?

join my FREE SET + FORGET Masterclass
🗓 16 October | 11AM AEST
DM “SET” and I’ll send you the details 💗 by @alignwithbianca

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12 days ago

The weakest thing you can do when you get the feeling there’s competition is to

study it.

Find out everything about her. Compare yourself. Trying to figure out what it is he likes. Trying to work out what she has that you don’t.

STOPPPPPP. Please let me help you stop! I know you know you are better than this!

You’re literally training your awareness and your actual reality to see other women as the prize and YOU as their competition. You are literally creating a reality where competition exists.

Absolutely not 😆

Remove your attention. Stop collecting evidence of her relevance. Return to your ideal self-concept where there IS no competition.

Better: do all of the above and have BOUNDARIES in the 3D. You don’t deserve crumbs you deserve the whole cake 🎂

☎️ If you’re struggling to make another women /3rd party irrelevant, WHAT THIRD PARTY? is my daily self concept upgrade Hotline for manifesting around this exact, hyperspecific issue 🔥

DM “HOTLINE” for your private invite.

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Self concept. Law of assumption. Neville Goddard. Circumstances don’t matter. Specific person. Manifest your ex. SP manifestation. Living in the end. Persistence. Detachment. Manifest committed love. Third party manifestation.

#lawofassumption #selfconcept #manifestspecificperson #manifestsp nevillegoddard by @alignwithbianca

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6 days ago

You say you’re manifesting the relationship of your dreams but all day you’re gathering evidence against it. 👀

Checking who he follows.
Watching other women.
Analysing his behaviour.
Reading into his silence.
Replaying what he said.
Keeping a mental list of everything “blocking” you.

You’re giving the circumstances more attention than the reality you actually WANT.

Stop collecting evidence for why it’s going to fail and start taking aligned action from the self concept that elevates this relationship to your ACTUAL STANDARDS.

☎️ This is exactly what we work on inside WHAT THIRD PARTY?, my daily self-concept Hotline.

DM HOTLINE for the invite 💗

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Self concept. Law of assumption. Neville Goddard. Circumstances don’t matter. Specific person. Manifest your ex. SP manifestation. Living in the end. Persistence. Detachment. Manifest committed love.

#lawofassumption #selfconcept #manifestspecificperson #manifestsp #nevillegoddard by @alignwithbianca

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6 days ago

The ugly truth about why you’re NOT the prize ⬇️

1. You’re waiting for HIM to choose you instead of deciding whether he qualifies for you.

2. You’re watching other women Iike they are competition instead of knowing there’s only one inimitable, precious YOU.

3. The less effort he gives you, the MORE attention you give him 🤦🏼‍♀️

4. You’re obsessed with how amazing and attractive HE is instead of paying attention to what he actually does for you. (His effort = his true investment in you).

5. You’ve postponed your peace and happiness until he texts, commits or comes back.

You didn’t lose value.
You just gave him too much.

I tell you exactly how to engineer the mindset and self concept of being loved and adored x10, in my “WHAT THIRD PARTY?!” My NEW self-concept upgrade hotline. DM me for the invite.

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Self concept. Law of assumption. Neville Goddard. Circumstances don’t matter. Specific person. Manifest your ex. SP manifestation. Living in the end. Persistence. Detachment. Manifest committed love.

#lawofassumption #selfconcept #manifestspecificperson #manifestsp #nevillegoddard by @alignwithbianca

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8 days ago

Your current circumstances are data about your past assumptions, not facts about your future.

Stop asking the 3D for permission to believe in what’s next.

Want to learn how to simplify and de-stress your SP Manifestation? 🔥 DM me “SET”

✨ FREE SET + FORGET SP Method Masterclass
🗓 16 October
⏰ 11:00 AM AEST
🔥 Free hot seat coaching + Q&A
🎥 Live + replay available

DM “SET” to reserve your FREE spot 💗

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Self concept. Law of assumption. Neville Goddard. Circumstances don’t matter. Specific person. Manifest your ex. SP manifestation. Living in the end. Persistence. Detachment. Manifest committed love.

#lawofassumption #selfconcept #specificperson #manifestation #nevillegoddard by @alignwithbianca

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It’s not your techniques. It’s your self concept.

You can affirm “he chooses me” 10k times, but if you’re still occupying the identity of the woman waiting, watching and wondering when it’s coming… that’s what you’re manifesting.

Change who you’re BEING. 💅🏼

Learn how inside my SET + FORGET SP Method Masterclass ✨

✨ FREE SET + FORGET SP Method Masterclass
🗓 16 October
⏰ 11:00 AM AEST
🔥 Free hot seat coaching + Q&A
🎥 Live + replay available

DM “SET” to reserve your FREE spot 💗

And what if there’s a 3rd party in the picture? 👀

Join WHAT 3RD PARTY? 💅🏼 my self concept upgrade hotline for 3rd party situations.

Daily audios to get your attention OFF them and back onto YOU.

DM “HOTLINE” for the invite 💗

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Self concept manifestation. Specific person. Law of assumption. Neville Goddard. Affirmations. SP manifestation. Manifest your ex. Being chosen. Detachment. Living in the end. Manifest committed love.

#lawofassumption #selfconcept #specificperson #manifestation nevillegoddard by @alignwithbianca

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A 3rd party only has power when you keep assigning them a role in your reality.

Stop manifesting against them.
Start occupying the state where you’re already chosen.

Want help actually achieving and implementing this?

✨ FREE SET + FORGET SP Method Masterclass
🗓 16 October
⏰ 11:00 AM AEST
🔥 Free hot seat coaching + Q&A
🎥 Live + replay available

DM “SET” to reserve your FREE spot 💗

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Self concept. Law of assumption. Neville Goddard. Third party manifestation. Manifest specific person. Manifest your ex. SP manifestation. Chosen woman. Dream girl state. Detachment. Living in the end. SATS. Manifest committed love.

#lawofassumption #selfconcept #specificperson #manifestation #nevillegoddard by @alignwithbianca

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11 days ago

Attention doesn’t = genuine interest.

His actual EFFORT is what means his interested.

I’m not a superficial SP manifestation coach, I want the girls in my work to get top tier treatment: not just a random text back 😩

We don’t go to all the effort to manifest someone special into our orbit just to accept the bare minimum around here. 🤝

The first thing you learn with me is getting the SP isn’t actually the goal. In fact I hate desperation and I won’t let you do that.

Getting the version of the relationship you actually want is.

More effort. More thoughtful, loving energy. More intention. More investment. More love-soaked dates. More consistency. More commitment.

In my 90-day 1:1 coaching, we’re not working on how to get you another low effort dopamine hit “GM”text 😩

We’re working on the self-concept and assumptions that make you the dream woman for the quality of man you actually want.

Because attention is easy for them. It costs nothing.
His actual effort needs to be your bare-minimum standard.

Save this post so you remember.

And if this resonates, DM me to apply for a FREE 30 self concept manifestation reading call to find out how to stop accepting less than you deserve, and see if you’re a fit to work with me.

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Intentional dating. High standards. Masculine effort. Self concept. Manifest committed love. Specific person manifestation. Law of assumption. Neville Goddard. Relationship standards. Princess treatment. Sprinkle sprinkle.

#lawofassumption #selfconcept #specificperson #manifestlove by @alignwithbianca

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