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Ali Simpson | Prophet & Christian Coach

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✝︎ Helping Christian couples restore marriage
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Some of the most anointed marriages will walk through some of the hardest seasons.

The enemy doesn’t need to destroy your marriage overnight. He just needs to create enough distance that you stop fighting for what God joined together.

The communication gets harder. The intimacy fades. Trust gets broken. Wounds go unhealed. Resentment starts building. And eventually, two people who once felt inseparable can begin to feel like strangers.

But a hard season does NOT have to become the end of your story.

We know what it looks like when a marriage feels beyond repair. We know betrayal. Addiction. Broken trust. Separation. Divorce.

But we also know what happens when two people surrender to Jesus and allow Him to heal, deliver, restore, and rebuild what was broken.

Your marriage can become a testimony. ❤️‍🔥

And this is exactly why what @matthewkingdomcoach and I have been preparing behind the scenes means so much to us.

It’s almost ready. And we are SO excited. 😭❤️‍🔥

We cannot wait to finally share what God has been building through our story to help other husbands and wives fight for their covenant, heal what’s been broken, and build a marriage with Jesus at the center.

If you want to be one of the first to know what we’re releasing, comment “MARRIAGE” below and I’ll send you the details.

And I want to hear from you: What is ONE thing God has taught you through your marriage? Tell me in the comments. 👇❤️‍🔥 by @alikingdomcoach

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We didn’t just separate.

We fully divorced in 2015.

Our marriage had been devastated by drugs, alcohol, sex outside our covenant, infidelity, abuse, unresolved trauma, and years of living outside of God’s will.

From the outside, our story looked finished.

And honestly, we believed it was too.

But God. ❤️‍🔥

What looked dead wasn’t beyond His reach. We didn’t just need marriage counseling—we needed repentance, forgiveness, deep healing, and deliverance.

God transformed us individually, and in 2018, we remarried.

This time, we didn’t rebuild our life on our feelings, the world, or our own understanding.

We rebuilt our marriage on Jesus and the truth of the Word of God.

Our restoration wasn’t quick. It wasn’t easy. And it wasn’t always pretty.

But it became a testimony only God could write.

There is so much we have kept private for years…but that is about to change.

More of our story is coming soon.

If you’re believing God for healing or restoration in your marriage, comment “GOD ISN’T FINISHED” below. 🤍 by @alikingdomcoach

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7 SIGNS YOUR MARRIAGE HAS A KINGDOM ASSIGNMENT ON IT… ❤️‍🔥

And this might be exactly why the enemy has fought it so hard.

1. You’ve faced battles that should have ended your marriage.

2. Your biggest attacks have come against your unity and intimacy.

3. Both of you have had to heal deep wounds to stay connected.

4. The enemy keeps trying to turn you against each other instead of reminding you that you’re on the SAME team.

5. Your marriage has required an unusual level of forgiveness, surrender, repentance, and grace.

6. God keeps calling you back to covenant—even in the seasons when walking away felt easier.

7. Your story is becoming the very thing God will use to help other marriages.

Sometimes the intensity of the warfare makes you question whether you married the wrong person…

But what if the warfare isn’t proof your marriage is doomed?

What if there’s something on the OTHER SIDE of your obedience that the enemy never wanted the two of you to reach together?

Your marriage isn’t just about being happy.

It’s about covenant.
Legacy.
Purpose.
Generational impact.
And what God can do through two people who are fully surrendered to Him.

Matt and I know what it feels like to believe a marriage is completely over.

Ours WAS.

We divorced.

And God still wasn’t finished with our story.

Now, the very place that once carried some of our greatest pain is becoming part of our Kingdom assignment. ❤️‍🔥

And what we’ve been building behind the scenes is almost ready…

We have SO MUCH we’re about to share with you—our story, the hard parts, the healing, deliverance, betrayal, forgiveness, intimacy, spiritual warfare, restoration… all of it.

We’re going there.

And trust me—you’re not going to want to miss what’s coming. 👀🔥

If you’re believing God for your marriage, comment MARRIAGE below. ❤️‍🔥

And send this to a husband or wife who needs to remember:

God may not be finished with your story yet. by @alikingdomcoach

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7 SIGNS YOUR MARRIAGE HAS A KINGDOM ASSIGNMENT THE ENEMY WANTS TO DESTROY. ❤️‍🔥

Some marriages face battles so intense, you almost forget why God brought you together.

But the battle doesn't have to be the end of your story.

Here are 7 signs your marriage has a purpose worth protecting. 👇

1. You've survived seasons that nearly tore you apart. Yet there's still a desire to rebuild.

2. You keep fighting each other instead of fighting for each other. Division has become more familiar than unity.

3. The same painful patterns keep repeating. Arguments, distance, resentment, and broken trust never seem to fully heal.

4. Your marriage has exposed deep wounds. Rejection, abandonment, betrayal, fear, and unforgiveness are affecting how you love each other.

5. Your intimacy has been under attack. Emotional, physical, and spiritual distance has slowly replaced connection.

6. God is calling BOTH of you into deeper surrender. Real restoration requires humility, repentance, forgiveness, and a willingness to change.

7. Despite everything, you BOTH want your marriage to work. You're tired of surviving and ready to start rebuilding.

❤️‍🔥 WE KNOW WHAT THAT FEELS LIKE.

My husband and I walked through infidelity, divorce in 2015, and remarriage in 2018.

Today, we help Christian couples rebuild through biblical inner healing, prayer, deliverance when appropriate, practical marriage coaching, and ongoing support.

This is different from traditional marriage counseling. We address not only what's happening between you, but the deeper emotional and spiritual wounds underneath.

❤️ If you and your spouse are both wanting to rebuild your marriage, we'd love to hear your story.

Comment MARRIAGE below or send me a message and tell us:

What's been the biggest struggle in your marriage lately—broken trust, lack of intimacy, or feeling emotionally disconnected?

My husband and I would love to hear your story, pray with you, and explore whether a complimentary Marriage Alignment Call could be the right next step.

You don't have to rebuild your marriage alone. ❤️

— Ali & Matt | Kingdom Alignment by @alikingdomcoach

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The enemy doesn't have to destroy your marriage if he can keep you fighting each other. 🔥

And that's exactly why so many Christian couples are exhausted.

You're praying. You're going to counseling. You're reading the marriage books. You're trying to communicate better.

But somehow, you keep ending up in the SAME arguments, the SAME cycles, and the SAME pain.

What if you've been addressing the symptoms while ignoring the spiritual roots?

Unhealed trauma. Rejection. Abandonment. Bitterness. Unforgiveness. Generational patterns. Spiritual strongholds.

The enemy would love nothing more than to keep you fighting your spouse instead of recognizing the spiritual battles that may be affecting your marriage.

Ephesians 6:12 reminds us that we do not wrestle against flesh and blood.

Your spouse is NOT your enemy.

And here's something I wish more Christian couples understood:

DELIVERANCE ISN'T JUST ABOUT CASTING OUT DEMONS. IT'S ABOUT WALKING IN THE FREEDOM JESUS ALREADY PAID FOR.

Sometimes there are wounds in our souls that have never been healed. Places where we've partnered with lies, fear, rejection, unforgiveness, or bitterness.

And we believe the enemy can use those unhealed places to keep people trapped in destructive cycles.

That's why biblical inner healing and deliverance are such important parts of our ministry.

Deliverance isn't always a one-time event. Often, it's a process of allowing the Holy Spirit to reveal and heal deeper layers, renouncing lies, repenting where necessary, forgiving offenses, and learning to walk in the freedom Christ has given us.

And when individuals begin walking in freedom, it can transform the way they show up in their marriage.

My husband and I know what it's like to have a marriage that looked completely beyond repair.

We divorced in 2015. God restored our relationship, and we remarried in 2018.

Today, through our Kingdom Marriage Mastermind and private marriage coaching, we help Christian couples pursue that same kind of healing and restoration.

We don't just teach communication strategies.

We address the HEART.

Continued in the comments... by @alikingdomcoach

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The enemy is strategic.

He doesn't attack random marriages.
He attacks the ones God has marked.

And if you are a faith-filled wife who has been carrying your covenant through your husband's lukewarm season — through the betrayal, through the silence, through the seasons where you wondered if God even heard you —

I need you to hear this:

The intensity of the attack on your marriage is not evidence that God got it wrong.
It's evidence of what He placed on it.

The enemy is counting on you giving up before the breakthrough.

He knows what's on the other side of your marriage being restored.

The testimony that sets other couples free.

The generational pattern of covenant your children are watching you model.

The Kingdom assignment your marriage was always supposed to carry.

He cannot afford to let you get there.
So he comes after your intimacy.

Your trust.
Your husband's heart.

Your belief that restoration is still possible.
Don't give him what he came for.
Matt and I were divorced in 2015.
There was betrayal on both sides.
Everyone around us said it was over.
God wasn't finished.

He restored what we handed Him in pieces.
He rebuilt what we thought was gone forever.
And what He built on the other side of the hardest season of our lives is better than anything we had before.

That is not a highlight reel.
That is our testimony.

And it is the foundation of everything we do in the Kingdom Marriage Mastermind.

For the faith-filled wife who is still standing.
For the husband who is finally ready to show up.
For the couple who knows their marriage is about more than just surviving.

Inner healing. Deliverance. Covenant rebuilt on something that actually holds.
Both of you. Together. Willing.

Comment MARRIAGE below if you're believing for restoration and you're ready to fight for it with the right support. 🕊️

Don't give up before the breakthrough. by @alikingdomcoach

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I know what it's like to look at your husband and see the man God created him to be, even when his actions aren't reflecting it. ❤️‍🔥

I know what it's like to love someone deeply while being deeply wounded by them.

To pray for a man you barely recognize anymore.

To wonder if the man you fell in love with is still somewhere underneath the pain, pride, brokenness, and destructive patterns.

Because I've been that woman.

Our marriage survived infidelity, betrayal, and ultimately a divorce in 2015.

But God wasn't finished writing our story.

We remarried in 2018, and the man I'm sitting beside today is not the same man I divorced.

But I'm not the same woman either.

God didn't just restore our marriage. He began healing the broken places in BOTH of us.

There was repentance. There was forgiveness. There was deliverance. There was surrender. And there was a whole lot of dying to ourselves.

We had to stop trying to change each other and allow God to change us.

And woman of God, I want you to hear me…

The man your husband is today does not have to be the man he remains.

God can soften a hardened heart.
He can break destructive cycles.
He can restore integrity where trust was shattered.
He can raise up a husband who leads with humility, loves sacrificially, and puts Christ at the center of his home.

But restoration takes more than one person praying. It takes willing hearts, genuine repentance, and changed behavior.

And whether your husband is ready or not, God can begin a beautiful work of healing in YOU.

Today, Matt and I get to walk alongside couples who are facing some of the very battles that once destroyed us.

We didn't get our old marriage back. God built something new between the same two people.

And if you're in a season where you're believing for restoration, rebuilding after betrayal, or longing for a Christ-centered marriage, we'd love to walk alongside you.

❤️ Comment MARRIAGE and we'll send you information about our Kingdom Alignment Marriage Restoration Mentorship.

Because what looks like the end of your story may not be the end of what God can do. 🕊 by @alikingdomcoach

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You chose him. He chose you.
And then the enemy came in like a flood and tried to destroy what God joined together.

You've been the one praying for both of you. Believing for both of you. Standing when he couldn't. And you're tired. Not of him. Of carrying it alone.

You've been smiling on Sunday morning and crying on Sunday night. And nobody around you knows how bad it actually is.

You've prayed and you've prayed and you've prayed. And you're starting to wonder if God is actually listening. Or if restoration is for everyone else but you.

But I declare over you today — the Lord is raising up a standard against the enemy over your marriage.
What hell tried to destroy, God is able to restore.

There was no way. Until God made one.
Grace upon grace.
Hallelujah.

We didn't deserve it. We had both made mistakes. We had both caused pain. By every natural measure our marriage was over.

But God.
He restored what we thought was gone forever. He rebuilt what we had broken. He made something out of what we handed Him in pieces.

And what He built on the other side of the hardest season of our lives is better than anything we had before.

You've wondered if what happened — what you did, what he did, what you both did — disqualifies you from what God can restore.
It doesn't.

We are living proof.
You don't have someone in your corner who actually gets it. Who has been in the wreckage of a marriage that everyone said was over — and watched God rebuild it anyway.
Until now.

Matt and I have opened up a group coaching experience for Christian couples who are ready to stop surviving their marriage and start experiencing what God actually designed it to be.

Healing. Rebuilding. Becoming better than you ever were before — together.

Not because you deserve it.
Because He is that good.

And what He did for us — He can do for you too.

Comment MARRIAGE below if you're believing for restoration and want support. 🕊️

We see you. We were you. And we know the way through. by @alikingdomcoach

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You're not weak for still being in it.
You're anointed for it.

The wife who carries oil doesn't quit when it gets hard.

She prays harder.
She stands firmer.
She intercedes longer.

Not because she has no other option.
Because she knows what her marriage is assigned to carry.

She knows what the enemy is trying to abort.

She knows that the covenant she made before God is not something she walks away from just because it got difficult.

That's not codependency.
That's not weakness.
That's a woman who understands spiritual warfare.

And she is going to war.
Not with her husband.
For him.
For the marriage.
For the assignment.

For the testimony that is going to set other couples free on the other side of this.

If that's you — I see you.

You are not alone in this battle.

And heaven is backing every single step you take toward restoration.

Comment MARRIAGE below if you're believing for restoration and want support. 🕊️ by @alikingdomcoach

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A sexless season doesn't mean your marriage is over.
I've sat with a lot of couples in this exact place, and here's what I keep seeing.
God is exposing what's underneath. The hurt, the resentment, the distance you've both been stepping around.

1.He's pulling you back to Him. Your spouse was never meant to be your source.

2. He's rebuilding the emotional connection first, because that's what makes the physical last.

3. This isn't punishment. It's an invitation.
But I'll be straight with you: you can't white-knuckle your way out of this one. Prayer matters, and so does having someone walk you through it.

If your marriage is in this season right now, comment MARRIAGE and I'll send you the next step. Don't wait until it gets worse. by @alikingdomcoach

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PRESCOTT, ARIZONA — October 13th. 🔥

I’m so excited to partner with @stonestreetsarah and @identifreed for a Special Deliverance Night centered on Jesus, healing, freedom, and the presence of the Holy Spirit.

Deliverance is not scary or strange. It's FREEDOM.

It’s about bringing the places of bondage, wounds, lies, unforgiveness, and spiritual oppression into the light and allowing Jesus to bring freedom.

There are things we can spend years trying to manage that God wants to heal at the root.

This night, we’re making room for the Holy Spirit to move.

🔥 Deliverance & breaking strongholds
🙏 Prayer and prophetic ministry
🤍 Inner healing
⛓️ Breaking agreement with generational cycles and lies
🕊️ Encountering the presence of Jesus
✨ Stepping into greater freedom and identity in Christ

Come with an open heart. Come expectant. Come ready to encounter Jesus.

October 13th | 6:00 PM
📍 IdentiFreed — Garment of Praise
102 N Montezuma St
Prescott, AZ

“Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.” — 2 Corinthians 3:17

Tag someone in Prescott who needs to know about this. 👇🔥 by @alikingdomcoach

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Your spouse may not be where you are spiritually right now.

Maybe you’re the one praying.
You’re the one seeking God.
You’re the one hungry for more.
You’re the one trying to bring Jesus into your marriage.

And your spouse just… isn’t there.

That can feel incredibly lonely.

But their spiritual season is not automatically grounds to give up on your covenant.

Marriage is not two people running separate races under the same roof. God says the two become ONE flesh. (Genesis 2:24)

And if the Holy Spirit is working in YOU, don’t underestimate what He can be doing in your spouse—even when you can’t see the fruit yet.

Paul even speaks directly to marriages where one spouse believes and the other does not:

“The unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband…” — 1 Corinthians 7:14

And just a few verses later:

“How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?” — 1 Corinthians 7:16

You do not have to drag your spouse into a relationship with God.

You don’t have to preach at them every day.

And you certainly cannot be their Holy Spirit.

But you CAN pray.
You CAN live differently.
You CAN love faithfully.
You CAN keep growing.
You CAN create an atmosphere in your home where the presence of God is welcome.

Sometimes faith in marriage looks like having the patience to let God work on your spouse on His timeline instead of yours.

We have watched God transform hearts, restore marriages, and move in situations that looked impossible.

Don’t mistake “God hasn’t done it yet” for “God isn’t doing anything.”

Your spouse has a Savior.

And it’s not you.

If your marriage is struggling because you feel spiritually disconnected from your spouse, comment MARRIAGE or send us a DM. Matt and I would love to talk with you about what biblical marriage restoration and support could look like in this season. by @alikingdomcoach

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