3 days agoWe just hit 33 years been together for 37. Each of us I wanted to divorce on many occasions, but after every major blowup, something changed in both of us. We’ve done some amazing sacrificial things for the Lord that I’ve not only had Financial cost, but have strained our marriage. I can say unequivocally that I love her now more than I ever have. The biggest change recently has been embracing, loving her as Christ love the church and gave his life for her. What should be add in that verse is that you do that without resentment or keeping score. The other thing I learned I’m her husband, not her father. There have been things that I have wish she would change and in the past, I will try to bring them up which lead to confrontation. Through the Holy Spirit got revealed to me. I’m not her father. I’m her husband and that if there’s something that needs to be changed, ask her father to touch her heart. It’s been amazing to see some of the long-standing things I considered an issue that I gave to the father and he spoke to her and she made these changes without me saying a word. I’ll leave on this note for husbands. Husbands pray for your wives and if there’s something that you think you wish she would change ask her father to change her or if you need to change, change you and then leave it in his hands.
7 days agoMy husband just told me he wants a divorce. On Halloween it will be 3 years since he left me and moved 4 hours away. I have been standing and praying for a miracle and for his salvation and then today he brought our son home from his holiday at his place and told me he wants a divorce. I am not doing well. I need a miracle. I cant be the 1st person in 6 generations of family and 5 generations of prayer warriors to have a marriage end in divorce
