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Yani | Becoming Her ♡

@callheryani

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Founder @sherebuildshq
Turning my mess into your map. 🗺️
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Ctrl + Shift + C doesn’t work in real life. I checked. 😩

I used to play The Sims to escape my real life. 🎮

In the game, I could fill every need, turn every plumbob green, go broke & be rich again in less than 60 seconds. In real life? My need bars were empty, & I still showed up & posed for the pictures. ✌🏾

Then I got tired of being tired. I told myself the truth. I kept going through the lonely, quiet season, not knowing the small stuff was counting.

Now my plumbob is green. Not every single day, but more often than not. 💚 Still no cheat code (I wish!). Just grace, obedience & telling myself yes.

I stopped escaping into a life I could control & started building one I don’t want to escape from. Still building, but proud of who I’m becoming.

What color is your plumbob right now, Builder? 👇🏾
🔴🟠🟡🟢 taken in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania by @callheryani

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7 days ago

If anything, I’m learning that PPD will try to take a seat at your table if you allow it. If you’re in the thick of it right now, you’re allowed to fight back. You don’t have to pull out the chair. You don’t have to hand your mind to something that doesn’t have permission to stay. Your little one needs you to choose your joy & choose your peace. In order to take care of them, you have to take care of you too sis. Postpartum depression? Over my dead body. 🙂‍↔️🖤 by @callheryani

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3 months ago

If you’ve been sitting on that, “what if I just moved?” thought, this is your sign. 🪧 Now don’t get me wrong, the thought of moving THIS far from everything I know & love was scary… I’m a new mom to an almost 3 month old & a new wife.

Then I prayed & God said, ‘I would never plant you anywhere you will not flourish.’ So with that said, I’m excited to see what His purpose for me is here. 🪴

New city. New season. Same God who’s been faithful through every big change in my life.

This is what a few of my days have looked like since we landed. If you’re new here, hit follow. I’ll be sharing a lot more here. 🤍 taken in Mercer Island, Washington by @callheryani

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3 months ago

Here’s what sharing my rebuild story with you all is teaching me in real time:

1) Shame is louder in silence than it is when you say it out loud.

2) “Having it all together,” is not a requirement for helping someone. I thought I had to be finished building before I could be useful. Turns out, I don’t.

3) My testimony isn’t tea, it’s a tool. I wasn’t protecting my peace by hiding it, I was protecting my image. Those aren’t the same thing.

I’m learning to trust God with the parts I wanted to control.

Builders, I wanna know—what have you been calling ‘tea’ that’s actually your testimony? You don’t have to go into great detail, just tell me something REAL. 🫖 by @callheryani

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a month ago

I’m Yani. I’m a newlywed , a first time mom, & the founder of SHE Rebuilds. I’m not an expert on ANY of this stuff. I’m just turning my mess into your map. 🗺️

Two years ago I was avoiding my credit score altogether. Now I’m up over 100 points & want to teach you how to do the same with no perfect budget, no fancy strategy, just consistency & baby steps that count.

If you’re a woman rebuilding your credit, your faith, or your peace… this is your sign to stop hiding. We all make mistakes, but it’s time we start facing them.

📌 Follow @sherebuildshq for real credit rebuilding tips, faith + finance content, & weekly encouragement for women doing the work.

#faithandfinances #creditrebuild #debtfreejourney #sherebuilds by @callheryani

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a month ago

This is the uniform of a Builder (my version): a good handbag, a soft sweatshirt & faith that says “keep showing up,” even when I’m scared.

SHE: Standing. Healing. Elevating.

SHE is clothed with strength & dignity. That’s the whole outfit. No perfect plan, just showing up & stepping into who God has called me to be.

SHE is you too.

Now I want to know, what’s YOUR building uniform? Coffee in hand? AirPods in? Bible open on the bed? Drop it below, I want to know how you show up.

Follow @sherebuildshq for more, the SHE Rebuilds shop is coming soon 🫒 by @callheryani

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a month ago

My little masseuse with 4 months experience. 🥹🤍 by @callheryani

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You’re not stuck because you don’t know better. You’re stuck between knowing & believing.

You’ve called it “waiting on God,” but God’s been waiting on you to move.

SHE Rebuilds is a judgement free community for women ready to stop spiritualizing staying stuck & start rebuilding their faith, finances, and self love. No sugar coating, no fluff. Just the truth & the tools to act on it.

You don’t need more information. You need permission to want what you already want.

Welcome home, Builder. ⚒️ by @callheryani

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I’m learning that sometimes provision isn’t always convenient. Sometimes it looks like a mix-up that ends up working out in your favor.

My grocery order never showed up this morning. I got a refund, was told to resubmit… and then the original order showed up anyway. Double what I needed.

It was a Philippians 4:19 kinda day. God really has a funny way of showing up. 🤍

Tell me your “wait… that actually worked out for me” moment. Drop it below. 👇🏾 taken in Seattle, Washington by @callheryani

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2 months ago

She needs a lot of love, but she’s got good bones. Follow along as he rebuilds her to the beauty she used to be. 🪲✨

#vwbeetle #carrestoration #husbandgoals #millenialmarriage #teenagedream taken in Seattle, Washington by @callheryani

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2 months ago

I owe myself an apology.

I was terrified I’d lose myself. Terrified I wasn’t built for this. Terrified I’d be the mom who couldn’t figure it out.

Am I tired? Yes. Still figuring it out? Every single day. But I’m doing it & I’m doing it well. I can say that with my whole chest.

So this is my apology to myself. I almost let fear talk me out of what I was made for. I was never not enough for this, I just hadn’t met the REAL me yet.

If you’re currently standing where I used to stand, scared you won’t be enough. Hear me clearly when I say this: you will RISE to it. That’s what we do. 🤍 by @callheryani

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