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Candyss Love

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📍Houston | Psychosomatic Emotional Healing Coach
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Some people have been so wounded, so hurt & so traumatized that they’ve created an identity in their wounds.

They’ve found validation in telling the same painful story of their past but they don’t recognize everytine they tell that same story of pain without the intention to heal the wound they re-traumatize themselves.
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If you really want to heal, you will have to release yourself from the prison of your past. You’ll have to stop telling the same stories from your victim perspective. These stories are draining your life force & disempowering you. Not sure why you’re exhausted everyday & it’s simply because Everytime you tell a wounded story in passing you die a little. At some point you must reclaim your power & you must decide how long do you plan to tell this story? Why do you need to tell this story & be honest about what you are actually getting from telling it?
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Especially GOSSIP with & about how spouses, friends, family co-workers mistreated you, stepped on your toes, hurt or wronged you. These common ways of communicating are also the same common ways we train our bodies & spirits to stay in chaos, emotional dysfunction & woundedness.
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Don’t become so addicted to speaking & thinking about your painful history that you rob yourself of the peace you deserve. If you want to heal, fight for it. Fight for the life, peace & joy you deserve by taking accountability & no longer speaking on anything in improper ways that keep you in low vibrational frequencies.
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- Candyss 💕

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It’s ok to acknowledge you want to forgive at some point but you aren’t ready yet? OR you aren’t ready to forgive or let go of what that person did that hurt you.
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Liars don’t heal. If you don’t acknowledge the truth of what you feel the wounds will continue to bleed & the behavioral byproduct of those wounds will continue to worsen.
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Parental emotional bypassing causes sooo many people not to heal. Their inner child desperately wants to maintain even surface level relationships with their parents to they will make excuses for their parents shortcoming, lack of parenting, neglect & abuse. They will accept never receiving an apology & even as adults they will accept being treated horribly just to receive crumbs from their parents & call it love.
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BEFORE you can shift towards healthy perspectives, emotions & relationships with your parents, you must first acknowledge the TRUTH of how you were affected by their behaviors & parenting skills. I’ve had some clients be so programmed to never disrespect their parents that they couldn’t even say their mom was mean because she was afraid GOD would get mad for not “honoring thy mother & father”
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Telling people they will Go to hell or God will get mad if they don’t forgive is baby consciousness & damn sure not how you allow someone to heal towards forgiveness.
An unforgiving heart needs love, nurturing & VALIDATION & time!
Not spirtual bypassing, righteous condemnation & religious fear.

- Candyss 💕

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Full Episode at the 🔗 n bio.

#forgiveness #family #toxicrelationships by @candyss.love

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Full episode on YouTube :BuddahsCandy
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The tragedy is forcing someone to change that either don’t have the capacity or is simply unwilling. Not everyone will walk the journey of self mastery & spiritual enlightenment & there’s no righteous judgment there. I feel people should evolve when it’s been put on their heart by God to do so, no when we as a society say AND that still doesn’t mean you are required to do things, give of yourself & say yes when your body is begging you to say no. Taking accountability for what we’ve allowed means to acknowledge the part we play in our own suffering. & for many women this will be a lesson is boundaries, codependency & healing a deep love wound. That’s the real work here, is dissecting why your allowed yourself to be ok with something you’re fundamentally NOT ok with 💕🙏🏾🫶🏾 #candysslove
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Book a 1 on 1 counseling session with me: links above
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Join our 2027 emotional healing & meditation retreat on 53acres of farmland with horses, long horns, goats, our private lake & hiking trails. : links above
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Music by @brick_citi_buddha by @candyss.love

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Full Episode on YouTube “@ BuddhasCandy”
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When your man empowers you in healthy ways by supporting you, learning you & guiding you in ways you may not have the capacity to because life has knocked you off balance, you gotta good man Savanna. real man/woman will love you so well they lead you back to yourself when life knocks you off balance. They dont require you to betray yourself they require you to love yourself, take care & nurture yourself to be your best self possible. 🫶🏾💕☺️🙏🏾
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Book a 1 on 1 counseling session with me: links above
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Join our 2027 emotional healing & meditation retreat on 53acres of farmland with horses, long horns, goats, our private lake & hiking trails. : links above
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Order my book 📖 “Remember who the fuck you are” Links above
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Music by @brick_citi_buddha by @candyss.love

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For most people forgiveness will require a sacred spiritual intervention. A sacred miracle where God sits in front of you & convinces you that your life will be so much more beautiful if you completely release the wound that’s kept you energetically & emotionally STUCK in the past & TETHERED to the person who’s hurt you. Many people are so connected to the person that’s hurt them that they now share karmic DNA & spiritual wound lesson that will follow them both throughout lifetimes until one of them does the work.
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There are some unforgivable actions trust me i know but your feelings don’t change the fact that the longer you hold on to something that doesn’t serve you including embodies, resentment & thoughts the more you biologically age & die inside. Because you’re holding a foreign object in your heart that God didn’t place there. Yes you can learn to live with it, but you’ll also be required to learn to live with the misery attached to your resentment, grudges & hatred.
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Take your time in your healing process but don’t build a home in a wound that slowly killing you. Your pain & anger shouldn’t have permission to rob you of your peace & identity ☺️🫶🏾💕🫂🙏🏾
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Book a 1 on 1 counseling session with me: links above
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Join our 2027 emotional healing & meditation retreat on 53acres of farmland with horses, long horns, goats, our private lake & hiking trails. : links above
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Order my book 📖 “Remember who the fuck you are” Links above
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Music by @brick_citi_buddha #candysslove by @candyss.love

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Full Podcast Episode on YouTube : BuddhasCandy 🔗in bio
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If you are a man with a woman who likes sex daily please bypass this video. But for the women who hate it but do it simply to please your man it may be time to reassess boundaries in a healthy way. No one should have to betray themselves to prove they love someone.
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Book a 1 on 1 counseling session with me: links above
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Join our 2027 emotional healing & meditation retreat on 53acres of farmland with horses, long horns, goats, our private lake & hiking trails. : links above
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Order my book 📖 “Remember who the fuck you are” Links above
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Music by @brick_citi_buddha #candysslove #sexualabuse #marriagebetrayal by @candyss.love

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No amount of giving, helping & doing for others will render you the love you crave. Until that love you give so freely to others is turned within you’ll always feel as if others don’t reciprocate your love. Why would they love you when you don’t even love you. Sometimes God limits you from receiving the love you want because God knows you’ll be dependent on it & will never even try to love yourself. To heal, you must stop wasting for outside sources to give you what God has already placed within you. Go home love, to YOURSELF 🙏🏾💕🫶🏾☺️
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Book a 1 on 1 counseling session with me: links above
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Join our 2027 emotional healing & meditation retreat on 53acres of farmland with horses, long horns, goats, our private lake & hiking trails. : links above
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Order my book 📖 “Remember who the fuck you are” Links above #candysslove by @candyss.love

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How is it love if you’re giving from a depleted heart. At some point giving to other becomes self betrayal because you’re giving out the very energy that you need to be whole. You aren’t simply exhausted you are abandoning yourself. 🫶🏾🙏🏾
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Full video on YouTube -BuddahCandy #candysslove by @candyss.love

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When a man doenst have sexual mastery he will betray his entire family to get his sexual desires met. A man who is a leader is also in control of his desires & cravings to ensure nothing has more power over him than God. This doesn’t mean men can’t have sex or often it means if you can’t fast from anything for 6months to a year then you are an addict. If you can’t fast for 2weeks to a month you’re a slave to your own desires & God is not at the center of your being, pleasure is. Accountability is NOT an attack it’s an invitation to become better 🫶🏾☺️🙏🏾💕
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Book a 1 on 1 counseling session with me: links above
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Join our 2027 emotional healing & meditation retreat on 53acres of farmland with horses, long horns, goats, our private lake & hiking trails. : links above
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Order my book 📖 “Remember who the fuck you are” Links above #candysslove by @candyss.love

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Full video available on YouTube: Link 🔗 in bio
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What do yall think?
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Book a 1 on 1 counseling session with me: links above
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Music by @brick_citi_buddha #candysslove by @candyss.love

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Social media is the new population control & it’s going to rob many women of the love they desire & deserve simply because they have other scorned women giving them bitter advice about men. No we aren’t men’s moms or therapists but to assume men are mind readers makes us not just delusional it exposes that we don’t operate in reality when it comes to love. The reality is, men won’t always get it right if they have to GUESS what we need. It’ll take you less than 5minutes to explain your needs & he’ll have that template to build from forever. Please don’t be a woman that allows logic & basic fundamentals relationship skills be the reason you avoid accountability for teaching a man how to love you the way your spirit, body & soul require! Only you & God have that info & it’s ok communicate your expectations so your silence doesn’t lead to unnecessary resentment. 💕☺️🫶🏾🙏🏾
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Book a 1 on 1 counseling session with me: links above
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Join our 2027 emotional healing & meditation retreat on 53acres of farmland with horses, long horns, goats, our private lake & hiking trails. : links above
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Order my book 📖 “Remember who the fuck you are” Links above #candysslove by @candyss.love

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Full podcast episode LIVE on YouTube: Link in bio
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If you already know what you need & like why make your man guess & then get upset when he doesn’t please you properly? Often women want our men to be mind readers & to just get it right. We think they should know us well enough to know what we need & that’s not realistic. It’s the fantasy we were given as young girls to hold our men to expectations they’ll never meet. While many times our men do understand our needs before we ever mention them, many of them don’t understand our sexual needs because WE don’t understand our sexual needs. We can’t hold a man accountable to know wisdom that only lives inside of us especially because as we evolve as women so do our bodies which makes our needs shift & change often. As women when we study & know ourselves well enough we can articulate the use needs & have a better chance at getting our needs met by the men that love us 💕☺️🫶🏾
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Book a 1 on 1 counseling session with me: links above
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Join our 2027 emotional healing & meditation retreat on 53acres of farmland with horses, long horns, goats, our private lake & hiking trails. : links above
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Order my book 📖 “Remember who the fuck you are” Links above
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Music by @brick_citi_buddha #candysslove by @candyss.love

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