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@charming.theys

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Connecting Cuties for all genders with various editions hosted by momo+ 🧚🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈
💓13.-15.11. LOVE is QUEER 💓
🔥19.-22.11. TOO GAY TO HANDLE 🔥
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LOVE iS QUEER is here! 🌈 From 13. to 15. November 20 queers who are interested in dating other SLINTA* meet at Arruda near Berlin for a weekend of connection, inner teen healing, exploration and lotsa fuuuun! momo & Nins will facilitate several cute offerings like playful playfights+, massage exchange, dänce lessons, aerobic karaoke, prom night and ofc lotsa dating specific time slots <3 There will also be dedicated space for 1:1 connections, rest, nature walks, craaafting, cuddling, co-cooking ~~~ you won't get bored! We will have two calls before the weekend where we will play "love is blind" without cameras to already prepare the matchmaking for the weekend and give you some intros on some topics already :) @arruda.collective doors open on Friday 13.11. at 1pm and our opening circle starts at 4:30 pm - please try to be there on time. We have many exciting things planned for you!! The weekend is welcoming all Sapphic, Lesbian, Inter, Non-Binary, Trans and Agender peeps - no matter how you present!! Usually the age average is around 30+, it is sober-ish and camera free*! Find all details and the sign up form in our links in b!0 - we can't wait for this first edition of LOVE iS QUEER ❤️ miau miau momo & Nins *We have a photo and video policy attatched taken in Cöthen, Brandenburg, Germany by @charming.theys
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2 months ago
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a genderqueerer Princess Charming privately organized yet facilitated sleepover weekend becoming reality after two years 🥹🧚🌈 letting this beautifully captured footage speak for itself 🫠🍬 aaaand … we will be doing it again! 10-12 October at @arruda_collective ~ application l!nk will be posted soon! 🦋 Thank you @savel.nokupalugar so muchiii for capturing and editing this weekend experience respecting everyones wishes regarding appearing on social media!! i am so impressed! and grateful! also for those green sticker peoplz being willing to be shown here 💚💜💛 and just as grateful for all the others who joined (we were 21 in total!) and made this experience an extraordinary one while listening to what feels good and safe for you! 🫶🏻 yess fellow event organizers this is possible but you need talented fellows like @savel.nokupalugar 🧡 miau miau what are you sensing watching this? ✨ do you want to join nexxt time from 10-12.10.? 🍭 lilili your connection faerie momo 🧚 #dreamsss #comingtrue taken in Arruda by @charming.theys
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Demand was high - so you get another chance for a FLINTA* Monogam-ish dating night! We welcome all women, lesbians, inter, non-binary, trans, agender and all sapphic babes no matter how you present [yess trans-mascs and amab peeps are invited!] who wanna date each other monogamishly! 🌈 Why or what is monogamish? There are many different ways to define (serial) monogamy - e.g. is cuddling with friends or going to sensual positive events still okay or not - so I prefer to call it monogamish. Also it invites peeps who say they are open for any relationship-style but if truly honest would prefer monogamy if they would feel that is actually still an option in Berlin (it is!!) :) ❤️ momo will open the evening with a short introduction and then invite you to place yourself along imaginary spectrum lines regarding your preferences to find the peeps with similar interests & view points. After around one hour you are invited to free flow, to continue connecting to those who caught your attention or to simply enjoy another drink at the bar. Let's have a cozy and cute evening together! 🍹Open from 7pm, we start at 7.20 latest. 💸 How much is it? Please donate between 5 - 10 - 15 Euros based on your current financial situation - sliding scales require collective responsibility balancing each others realities out. If you have a regular income and/or savings, you might be able to donate more so I can continue doing these events. If that is currently not possible for you please write me - I will never return anyone for lack of funds! :) Accessibility? There is a ramp to enter, the entrance door is about 85cm wide. There is no wheelchair accessible toilet. We can send photos of the toilet upon request. We expect this event to be rather sound intense with a maximum of 25 participants in one room. You can take a break in the first room or outside at any time. Smoking is not allowed inside of Curly Bar. 🇬🇧 Language momo speaks English and German but will host the event in English - but you can choose with each person you get matched with which language you prefer to speak. by @charming.theys
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3 days ago
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TGTH has 6 spots left & LOVE iS QUEER 7 ~ thats one difference beyond the date 😁 what else i will write from my perspective and my intention for the events, outcomes are always a surprise though and depend a looot on the willingness of peeps wanting to connect & stay in contact! i’ve hosted several editions by now and each group was so different overall and also the individual ‘outcome’ depended on so many factors. go for what YOU desire! rejection is okayy!!! 💚🧡✊🏻 that being said the framework and the facilitators are quite different: TOO GAY TO HANDLE is co-hosted by Fenja Elio, one of the core organizers of @juicy_lab.love who brings the funkiest wildest most creative trashy PLAYrooms i’ve been part of - together with Jules 🔥 - and honestly that makes such a difference already to other Charming Theys sleepovers but also to other s+ gatherings where intentions in the playrooms feel less PLAY~FULL! there were lots of “ooohh” “ahhw” “wow!” last time 😁 and i’m rarely impressed but i was with Fenja and Jules creativity, and so might you! There veeeery likely will be sggs in the playrooms and during datetimess +, n@kedness is welcome, there will also be a sauna, at least one k!nkiii+ workshop and 3 nights instead of 2! LOVE iS QUEER feels like the softer version with more focus on (verbal) dating, still inviting to meet through the body in playful ways, there most likely will be some kiss!ng, more rules around n@kedness & seggs, there will also be a B00M B00M room and an unfacilitated open playroom on Saturday night though but most action will happen at the dance prom party hosted by @flintastica_hh . both nins and me are on the demiseggsual spectrum and if you would join both weekends you would FEEL very clearly the difference even if the descriptions in some way are similarish. I love both weekends and what they offer in terms of growth, connection, healing, FUN and i truly hope you find your inner voice and clarity what would be more fitting to you right now <3 Don’t hesitate to ask more questions! i can not be very explicit on here so yahh trying to get the message accross subtly <3 miiau miau momo by @charming.theys
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a month ago
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The non-monogamous edition is baaack! We welcome all women, lesbians, inter, non-binary, trans, agender and all sapphic babes no matter how you present for a non-monogamous Queer Dating Night at Curly Bar 🐬 ❤️ momo will open the evening with a short introduction and then invite you to place yourself along imaginary spectrum lines regarding your preferences to find the peeps with similar interests & view points, for example: Where on the spectrum of poly or open relationship do you see yourself? After around one hour you are invited to free flow, to continue connecting to those who caught your attention or to simply enjoy another drink at the bar. Let's have a cozy and cute evening together! 🍹 Open from 7pm, we start at 7.30 latest. 💸 How much is it? Momo asks for 5 to 15 Euro per person for the facilitation and the orga. Please write them if that is currently not possible. We are doing it through this donation system to keep extra fees as low as possible :) Accessibility There is a ramp to enter, the entrance door is about 85cm wide. There is no wheelchair accessible toilet. We can send photos of the toilet upon request. We expect this event to be rather sound intense with a maximum of 20 participants in one room. You can take a break in the first room or outside at any time. Smoking is not allowed inside of Curly Bar. 🇬🇧 Language momo speaks English and German and will host the event in English - but you can speak in any language with the other participants ofc :) 👤About the facilitator momo‘s (momo/they) biggest passion is to connect Quirky Quings ~ so basically anyone who doesn’t fit the norm. They initiated @connecting_passions 4 years ago to create queer-centered events together with other facilitators. momo is agender, highly sensitive, white & queer. They work actively on dismantling internalized -isms and -phobias, any form of discrimination is not welcome in their spaces! If you have any requests regarding accessibility, other questions or need a clearer description please write to hi@charmingtheys.de We would love to hear from you! momo & the Curly Bar Team by @charming.theys
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3 days ago
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Unser neues Bildungsprogramm 2027 ist da 🥳🥳🥳 Ihr findet das vollständige Programm zum Download und als Printversion zum Bestellen und Auslegen in euren Institutionen, Beratungsstellen, Hausprojekten, WGs und liebsten Communityspaces, auf unserer Website lilabunt.de/programm Tausend Dank an unsere AG Bildungsplanung und vor allem an Ricci, unsere hauptamtliche Bildungsplanerin, für dieses fantastische Programm 💜 Danke auch an all die Referierenden, die ihre Ideen bei uns einreichen und umsetzen. Auf den nächsten Slides findet ihr kleine Teaser zu den geplanten Seminaren und Bildungsurlauben. Wir werden diese nach und nach ausführlich auf unserer Website und hier vorstellen und zur Anmeldung freigeben. Viel Spaß beim stöbern 💜🌈 taken in Lila_bunt - Feministische Bildung, Praxis & Utopie by @charming.theys
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9 days ago
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after last year’s charming days: queerplatonic edition, we’ve been getting requests to host another charming days weekend. soooo now, we want to hear from you to see if and how we should make this happen in 2027! Let us know by filling out the survey until october 12th, 2026 – we are so curious to hear from you!! miau miau Anni & momo Link to survey: https://forms.gle/2NyqUT748YSqUM3U8 PS: if you know of any fundings for these kinds of projects or want to financially support making this happen it is oh so welcome! Colorful circles on a pink background. Text says: "charming days 2.0 survey interested in a long weekend focusing on queerplatonic relationships with a potential focus on aspec+ topics? let us know what else you're looking foe in our survey (link in bio or below)!" Below that, a QR code and two logos, one from charming theys and one from ace_arovolution by @charming.theys
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23 days ago
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TOO GAY TO HANDLE caps are readiii to be ordered and picked up in Berlin, NK 🤭🐬🩷 what started as a vision for my top surg€ry crowdfunding is now becoming realer, even if my surg€ry process will still need some time you can get your caps for cost of production <3 all the details are in the link in bi0 but in short: each cap is 20€, pick up in Berlin and at certain events only, the available colors are visible in the slides, the stitches can be most colors ~ i chose my fav ones as examples 🩷🧡💚 OR you can also go to Computer Stickladen in Leinestrasse 56 during their opening hours with your fav cap and get it stiched on for 8€s within ~30 mins, just show them a photo of the TGTH cap for reference and choose the stitching color :) Great way to upcycle boring caps too!! this is honestly so exciting as i envisioned this for months already but was stuck on logistics and choosing a supplier that fits my values ~ and i‘m so grateful it looks like we found our perfect match 🌹 aaand i‘m so grateful for Nins for supporting me in this journey (of weeks of decision paralysis haha) and also for picking up the first caps caps caps with me and for this spontaneous photoshoot!!! eiii it was so fun! 💓 @flintastica_hh i also want to point out that TOO GAY TO HANDLE is Fenja & my baby as we started this together and we will do a second edition from 19.-22.11. at Arruda near Berlin 🧡 but shes happy that i‘m sideprojecting on this and also with the vision for my top surg€ry 💚 happy to receive photos of your TOO GAY TO HANDLE caps in the wild, tag charming.theys if you want a repost hehe QUQU dopamin fashion brand is slowly starting 🤭🐬🫧 lalala lets gooo 🦋 momo ququ taken in Leinestraße, Neukölln by @charming.theys
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a month ago
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✨ we are back from summer break with more cozy & cute editions of FLINTA* hamam nights of collective rest & care 💕 mark your calendars & join us on 15.09., 20.10. & 10.11. ✨ because we deserve to rest. to slow down. to exhale. to gather, to soften, to care & be cared for. to let go, wash it off, sweat it out & simply be 🫧 come alone, with friends, or lovers — all FLINTA*s are welcome, no matter how you present 💜 we slowly arrive from 5 pm, gather around 6 pm with tea & shared snacks. momo & sıla will hold the space with an opening circle, intro into the hamam & gentle facilitation, where you can get to know the group better & co-create a vision of what you would like the evening to look like. we’ll then move into the hamam - to share small acts of care like washing each other or simply sweating next to each other 💧 💫 tickets: 15€ for 5 hours entry (paid upon arrival directly to hamam) + additional 5-15€ (sliding scale to reserve your spot via eventbrite) for facilitation & orga 💫 2 reduced spots available for BIPoC 💫 tickets, more info & what to bring on eventbrite let’s rest, resist & remember together with love momo & sıla taken in Hamam, Das Türkische Bad für Frauen im Frauenzentrum Schokoladenfabrik e.V. by @charming.theys
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2 months ago
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Your requests have been heard! Here we go again with another round of a sapphic dating special for all FLINTA* over 35. Please register via Eventbrite, link in bio. We start sharp, so please be there 7.20 max 😘 ❤️ momo/ @charming.theys will open the evening with a short introduction and then invite you to place yourself along an imaginary spectrum regarding your preferences to find the peeps with similar interests & view points. After around one hour you are invited to free flow, to continue connecting to those who caught your attention or to simply enjoy another drink at the bar. Let’s have a cozy and cute evening together! 🍹 Open from 7pm, we start at 7.20 pm latest. 💸 How much is it? Momo asks for 5 to 15 € per person for the facilitation and the orga. Please write to them if that is currently not possible. Accessibility? There is a ramp to enter, the entrance door is about 90cm wide. There is no wheelchair accessible toilet (we can send photos of the toilet upon request). We expect this event to be rather sound intense with a maximum of 20 participants in one room. You can take a break in the first room or outside at any time. 🇬🇧🇩🇪Language momo speaks English and German but generally facilitates the event in English - you can choose which language to speak with each match :) 👤About the facilitator momo‘s (momo/they) biggest passion is to connect Quirky Quings ~ so basically anyone who doesn’t fit the norm. They initiated @charming.theys as an alternative to binary dating formats as well as trying to do things a bit different to usual speed dating events so also cuties who struggle with social interactions feel more comfortable. momo is agender, highly sensitive, white & queer. They work actively on dismantling internalized -isms and -phobias, any form of discrimination is not welcome in their spaces. If you have any requests regarding accessibility, questions or need a clearer description please write to hi@charmingtheys.de We would love to hear from you! momo & the Curly Bar Team by @charming.theys
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2 months ago
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💦 Liquid Love in a new shape 💖 📆 Tuesday 1st September 18:30-22:00 📍 cozy location at Hermannplatz I am very happy to announce a new facilitator who will be holding space with me: Wonderful @charming.theys was already part of the events and hosts own events on queer dating 💞 We will co-create a safer space with bodywork to arrive in your own body and consensually connect with others. We can take it to an oil-pouring, slippery, sensual time together in which we embrace our own bodies and receive warm showers of worship in a gentle, soft, and cherishing way. 🫠😌😇☺️ This event will be for all genders with an emphasis for queer peeps 🏳️‍🌈 If you need more clarification, don’t hesitate to ask your question: @musemeduse or @charming.theys 🎟 See you there (bio) taken in Berlin, Germany by @charming.theys
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2 months ago
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Charming Theys Sleepover in April was really a dream coming true 🥹🍬💚 So we will do it again - in different formats! 🤭🐬 10-12 OCT SLiNTAs open for Dating @arruda_collective & 16-19 OCT Queerplatonic Editon in collab with Anni from @ace_arovolution & 3 - 8 JAN Beach Edition in Las Palmas de Gran Canaria @donarosehostels 🏄‍♀️ Pj @savel.nokupalugar created a true masterpiece from our first sleepover together - especially considering that the majority of us 21 didn’t wanna appear with their faces on social media (understandable!) (in case you were wondering why you keep seeing the same faces 😁) several of us - including me - cried watching this for the first time and i wonder if it will transport what we have felt also to people who didn’t join the weekend? it was truly truly special. ✨ but what feels even more special is seeing what grew out of this weekend: a true community feeling with very regular meet ups (we will meet today to watch the first @charmings.official and tomorrow for the demo ), we planned another beach trip together and so much more - AND peeps are dating each other still 🤭 AH it makes me so HAPPi to know we can create this - so yeah if you enjoy this - the aftermovie is even better because it’s in real daily life and not filmed 💜💚💛 All (pre)sign up links for the 3 next Charming Days are - guess whereeeee - if you have any question or concerns please let me know know! eiii exciting please let me know what you feel while watching this - can you feel the tingly magic? 🥹🥹🥹 Thank you @savel.nokupalugar for contributing soo much to this project already and also my two dear awareness peeps and co-facilitators to make this possible - and of course every single charming cutie who joined - i will never forget this initiation and your openness 🥹 miau miau miau momo 🧚 taken in Cöthen, Brandenburg, Germany by @charming.theys
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