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Connecting Cuties for all genders with various editions hosted by momo+ 🧚🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈
💓13.-15.11. LOVE is QUEER 💓
🔥19.-22.11. TOO GAY TO HANDLE 🔥
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Demand was high - so you get another chance for a FLINTA* Monogam-ish dating night! We welcome all women, lesbians, inter, non-binary, trans, agender and all sapphic babes no matter how you present [yess trans-mascs and amab peeps are invited!] who wanna date each other monogamishly! 🌈 Why or what is monogamish? There are many different ways to define (serial) monogamy - e.g. is cuddling with friends or going to sensual positive events still okay or not - so I prefer to call it monogamish. Also it invites peeps who say they are open for any relationship-style but if truly honest would prefer monogamy if they would feel that is actually still an option in Berlin (it is!!) :) ❤️ momo will open the evening with a short introduction and then invite you to place yourself along imaginary spectrum lines regarding your preferences to find the peeps with similar interests & view points. After around one hour you are invited to free flow, to continue connecting to those who caught your attention or to simply enjoy another drink at the bar. Let's have a cozy and cute evening together! 🍹Open from 7pm, we start at 7.20 latest. 💸 How much is it? Please donate between 5 - 10 - 15 Euros based on your current financial situation - sliding scales require collective responsibility balancing each others realities out. If you have a regular income and/or savings, you might be able to donate more so I can continue doing these events. If that is currently not possible for you please write me - I will never return anyone for lack of funds! :) Accessibility? There is a ramp to enter, the entrance door is about 85cm wide. There is no wheelchair accessible toilet. We can send photos of the toilet upon request. We expect this event to be rather sound intense with a maximum of 25 participants in one room. You can take a break in the first room or outside at any time. Smoking is not allowed inside of Curly Bar. 🇬🇧 Language momo speaks English and German but will host the event in English - but you can choose with each person you get matched with which language you prefer to speak.
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The non-monogamous edition is baaack! We welcome all women, lesbians, inter, non-binary, trans, agender and all sapphic babes no matter how you present for a non-monogamous Queer Dating Night at Curly Bar 🐬 ❤️ momo will open the evening with a short introduction and then invite you to place yourself along imaginary spectrum lines regarding your preferences to find the peeps with similar interests & view points, for example: Where on the spectrum of poly or open relationship do you see yourself? After around one hour you are invited to free flow, to continue connecting to those who caught your attention or to simply enjoy another drink at the bar. Let's have a cozy and cute evening together! 🍹 Open from 7pm, we start at 7.30 latest. 💸 How much is it? Momo asks for 5 to 15 Euro per person for the facilitation and the orga. Please write them if that is currently not possible. We are doing it through this donation system to keep extra fees as low as possible :) Accessibility There is a ramp to enter, the entrance door is about 85cm wide. There is no wheelchair accessible toilet. We can send photos of the toilet upon request. We expect this event to be rather sound intense with a maximum of 20 participants in one room. You can take a break in the first room or outside at any time. Smoking is not allowed inside of Curly Bar. 🇬🇧 Language momo speaks English and German and will host the event in English - but you can speak in any language with the other participants ofc :) 👤About the facilitator momo‘s (momo/they) biggest passion is to connect Quirky Quings ~ so basically anyone who doesn’t fit the norm. They initiated @connecting_passions 4 years ago to create queer-centered events together with other facilitators. momo is agender, highly sensitive, white & queer. They work actively on dismantling internalized -isms and -phobias, any form of discrimination is not welcome in their spaces! If you have any requests regarding accessibility, other questions or need a clearer description please write to hi@charmingtheys.de We would love to hear from you! momo & the Curly Bar Team
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Unser neues Bildungsprogramm 2027 ist da 🥳🥳🥳 Ihr findet das vollständige Programm zum Download und als Printversion zum Bestellen und Auslegen in euren Institutionen, Beratungsstellen, Hausprojekten, WGs und liebsten Communityspaces, auf unserer Website lilabunt.de/programm Tausend Dank an unsere AG Bildungsplanung und vor allem an Ricci, unsere hauptamtliche Bildungsplanerin, für dieses fantastische Programm 💜 Danke auch an all die Referierenden, die ihre Ideen bei uns einreichen und umsetzen. Auf den nächsten Slides findet ihr kleine Teaser zu den geplanten Seminaren und Bildungsurlauben. Wir werden diese nach und nach ausführlich auf unserer Website und hier vorstellen und zur Anmeldung freigeben. Viel Spaß beim stöbern 💜🌈
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after last year’s charming days: queerplatonic edition, we’ve been getting requests to host another charming days weekend. soooo now, we want to hear from you to see if and how we should make this happen in 2027! Let us know by filling out the survey until october 12th, 2026 – we are so curious to hear from you!! miau miau Anni & momo Link to survey: https://forms.gle/2NyqUT748YSqUM3U8 PS: if you know of any fundings for these kinds of projects or want to financially support making this happen it is oh so welcome! Colorful circles on a pink background. Text says: "charming days 2.0 survey interested in a long weekend focusing on queerplatonic relationships with a potential focus on aspec+ topics? let us know what else you're looking foe in our survey (link in bio or below)!" Below that, a QR code and two logos, one from charming theys and one from ace_arovolution
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Okkk now an extended thank you post (better late than never)!🧍🏽‍♂️ because each festival is unique and belongs to everyone who joined, we deserve a collective thank youu! To everyone who showed up, danced, listened, argued, laughed, flirted, cried, ate, wandered, hugged, crafted and stayed too long, you filled the space and our hearts <3<3 THANK YOU to all the artists who made us feel something all the time, to the panelists who made us think long after their panel, to the workshop facilitators who made us participate in things we never dared to touch before, to the market people who challenged capitalism and brought the community vibe we love. A serious thank you to all the volunteers for giving your time and your bodies to this ambitious lesbian* fever dream. Thank you for coming to the festival! ❤️ The dyke* festival happens with no corporations, no state money, nobody telling us what our culture should look like. 🦾 Nine months of voluntary preparation bring us here each year. It’s not easy, it's sometimes chaotic, but it's ours and it's beautiful ❤️ ☆ All beautiful pictures above are by @ceci.drf ☆ if you would like to use/access any of the pictures, please contact the photographer ☆
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✨ we are back from summer break with more cozy & cute editions of FLINTA* hamam nights of collective rest & care 💕 mark your calendars & join us on 15.09., 20.10. & 10.11. ✨ because we deserve to rest. to slow down. to exhale. to gather, to soften, to care & be cared for. to let go, wash it off, sweat it out & simply be 🫧 come alone, with friends, or lovers — all FLINTA*s are welcome, no matter how you present 💜 we slowly arrive from 5 pm, gather around 6 pm with tea & shared snacks. momo & sıla will hold the space with an opening circle, intro into the hamam & gentle facilitation, where you can get to know the group better & co-create a vision of what you would like the evening to look like. we’ll then move into the hamam - to share small acts of care like washing each other or simply sweating next to each other 💧 💫 tickets: 15€ for 5 hours entry (paid upon arrival directly to hamam) + additional 5-15€ (sliding scale to reserve your spot via eventbrite) for facilitation & orga 💫 2 reduced spots available for BIPoC 💫 tickets, more info & what to bring on eventbrite let’s rest, resist & remember together with love momo & sıla
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September can come! 🌈🍃 We’re ending the summer with slightly fewer (but still very delightful) events than usual, which only means more space and time for bar nights and aperitivo on the terrace! Pop by or book a table (hallo@curlybar.de). We look forward to seeing you, your Curlies 🌈🩷 Please not that dating on 3.9. is already fully booked, but momo/ @charming.theys will curate more, please reach out to momo in case you have questions 🥰
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LOVE iS QUEER is here! 🌈 From 13. to 15. November 20 queers who are interested in dating other SLINTA* meet at Arruda near Berlin for a weekend of connection, inner teen healing, exploration and lotsa fuuuun! momo & Nins will facilitate several cute offerings like playful playfights+, massage exchange, dänce lessons, aerobic karaoke, prom night and ofc lotsa dating specific time slots <3 There will also be dedicated space for 1:1 connections, rest, nature walks, craaafting, cuddling, co-cooking ~~~ you won't get bored! We will have two calls before the weekend where we will play "love is blind" without cameras to already prepare the matchmaking for the weekend and give you some intros on some topics already :) @arruda.collective doors open on Friday 13.11. at 1pm and our opening circle starts at 4:30 pm - please try to be there on time. We have many exciting things planned for you!! The weekend is welcoming all Sapphic, Lesbian, Inter, Non-Binary, Trans and Agender peeps - no matter how you present!! Usually the age average is around 30+, it is sober-ish and camera free*! Find all details and the sign up form in our links in b!0 - we can't wait for this first edition of LOVE iS QUEER ❤️ miau miau momo & Nins *We have a photo and video policy attatched
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Your requests have been heard! Here we go again with another round of a sapphic dating special for all FLINTA* over 35. Please register via Eventbrite, link in bio. We start sharp, so please be there 7.20 max 😘 ❤️ momo/ @charming.theys will open the evening with a short introduction and then invite you to place yourself along an imaginary spectrum regarding your preferences to find the peeps with similar interests & view points. After around one hour you are invited to free flow, to continue connecting to those who caught your attention or to simply enjoy another drink at the bar. Let’s have a cozy and cute evening together! 🍹 Open from 7pm, we start at 7.20 pm latest. 💸 How much is it? Momo asks for 5 to 15 € per person for the facilitation and the orga. Please write to them if that is currently not possible. Accessibility? There is a ramp to enter, the entrance door is about 90cm wide. There is no wheelchair accessible toilet (we can send photos of the toilet upon request). We expect this event to be rather sound intense with a maximum of 20 participants in one room. You can take a break in the first room or outside at any time. 🇬🇧🇩🇪Language momo speaks English and German but generally facilitates the event in English - you can choose which language to speak with each match :) 👤About the facilitator momo‘s (momo/they) biggest passion is to connect Quirky Quings ~ so basically anyone who doesn’t fit the norm. They initiated @charming.theys as an alternative to binary dating formats as well as trying to do things a bit different to usual speed dating events so also cuties who struggle with social interactions feel more comfortable. momo is agender, highly sensitive, white & queer. They work actively on dismantling internalized -isms and -phobias, any form of discrimination is not welcome in their spaces. If you have any requests regarding accessibility, questions or need a clearer description please write to hi@charmingtheys.de We would love to hear from you! momo & the Curly Bar Team
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🥵🔥💦You’re in search of a hot summer flirt for cute dates at the lake, drinks at your favourite queer bar (Curly obviously) or the next festival? Come and find them at another one of momo‘s / @charming.theys queer dating events. Please register via Eventbrite, link in bio. We start sharp, so please be there 7.20 max 😘 ❤️ momo will open the evening with a short introduction and then invite you to place yourself along an imaginary spectrum regarding your preferences to find the peeps with similar interests & view points. After around one hour you are invited to free flow, to continue connecting to those who caught your attention or to simply enjoy another drink at the bar. Let’s have a cozy and cute evening together! 🍹 Open from 7pm, we start at 7.20 pm latest. 💸 How much is it? Momo asks for 5 to 15 € per person for the facilitation and the orga. Please write to them if that is currently not possible. Accessibility? There is a ramp to enter, the entrance door is about 90cm wide. There is no wheelchair accessible toilet (we can send photos of the toilet upon request). We expect this event to be rather sound intense with a maximum of 20 participants in one room. You can take a break in the first room or outside at any time. 🇬🇧🇩🇪Language momo speaks English and German but generally facilitates the event in English - you can choose which language to speak with each match :) 👤About the facilitator momo‘s (momo/they) biggest passion is to connect Quirky Quings ~ so basically anyone who doesn’t fit the norm. They initiated @charming.theys as an alternative to binary dating formats as well as trying to do things a bit different to usual speed dating events so also cuties who struggle with social interactions feel more comfortable. momo is agender, highly sensitive, white & queer. They work actively on dismantling internalized -isms and -phobias, any form of discrimination is not welcome in their spaces. If you have any requests regarding accessibility, questions or need a clearer description please write to hi@charmingtheys.de We would love to hear from you! momo & the Curly Bar Team
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Connections, friends, community... You're never really alone at the Dyke* Festival, but if you're nervous speaking to strangers (aren't we all) these activities might help: 🧚‍♂️🧚 connecting cuties & speed dating for dykes with @connecting_passions momo (momo/they) is a connection faerie sparking connections in a soft, playful & deep way via @charming.theys and TOO GAY TO HANDLE <3 Dating for Dykes is for all of you who desire to date, welcome a little flirt or a hot hook up and appreciate a little icebreaker support - so yess also more introverted dykes are very welcome!! <3 See you Sunday on the rooftop. Connecting Cuties welcomes everyone wanting to meet other dykes* in a playful yet deep way - the intention is to find festival buddies, maybe even friends for life, but any other connection evolving is also oh so welcome! <3 See you Saturday in the main stage area. ☆ 🫂 L-night Berlin @lnightberlin is a welcoming, primarily English-speaking social group for queer FLINTA+. On saturday at 13:00 and 16:00 you can meet up with the L-night team, if you arrive at the festival alone! Making new friends is fuuun and there's no funner place to do it ✨️️ meeting spot: terrasse next to the market (ground floor)
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☀️🌈August is here! We’ve got a few cute events planned and lots of evenings to enjoy a drink on the terrace!
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