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♡ I help women stop proving & start receiving, so they build love & wealth from ease
》Half fairy, half visionary 🧚‍♀️

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Guilt isn't proof you're wrong. It's proof you were taught to please.

Hope my story makes you see that you are here for more.

Love,

E x by @elena.embodied

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7 days ago

Send this to your bestie who's been "figuring him out" for the last 6 months.

Babe, he already showed you. 🤍 by @elena.embodied

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6 months ago

The system is broken. But they want you to believe that you are.

1. The "real job" lie.
After 5 pm, you don't go home to live. You go home to recover. The system was never designed to help you thrive. It was designed to keep you just tired enough not to ask questions. To bury your gifts under deadlines and survival mode. To keep you poor, fearful,and controlled.

2. The modern society lie.
You are an intuitive, cyclical, feeling being. Yet the system told you to hustle to be seen and heard. To earn your worth. To prove yourself in a world that pushed down the feminine disconnecting you from your intuition and brainwashing you into believing you're never enough.

3. The media lie.
Your body isn't equipped to absorb all the world's problems through a screen. So when you feel guilty while the world seems to be falling apart, that guilt isn't yours to carry. They want you to feel it. Guilt is the lowest frequency human can feel. Pure survival mode. Easy to control.

4. The beauty standards lie.
Never in history have people spent so much time in the mirror, in comparison, chasing standards that keep shifting. Stop thinking that your appearance is the criteria that makes a man choose you. The right man will not choose you because of how you look.

5. The "men are all the same" lie. 💔
S3x and the City came out in 1998. This narrative was there. Women want love, and men are unreliable, unavailable, and afraid of commitment. We've been sold stories that divided men and women for decades through our favorite shows, music, and movies.

6. The social media lie.
The biggest distraction of our time yet you have a choice. You can choose what you consume. And you can choose to use it to share your voice and create real impact.

The more you connect with yourself and source, the more power you have to change things that are close to your heart.

Do you.
Your dream life is still available. I promise. by @elena.embodied

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7 months ago

This is your sign to book that fairy house with your girlfriends 🧚‍♀️💓 by @elena.embodied

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15 hours ago

Fairies on a trip north Bali 🧚‍♀️🌻🍄

@wabisabi.lodge thank you for having us 💓 by @elena.embodied

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2 days ago

This quote 💓 by @elena.embodied

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11 days ago

Duuuuude!!! Listen to me 💓

We've all been in messy situations.

The situationships where you want more. Where you're craving real love and real intimacy.
But you stay. Because he's so hot. The s*x is amazing. The chemistry is unreal. The way he looks at you makes you feel that he really cares.

None of it matters if he doesn't genuinely hold dear about your wellbeing. Your heart.

Attraction matters, of course it does. But when you're choosing someone to share your life with, you have to think way beyond that.

Think about who you want next to you when everything is going well, but especially when it's not.

Because you don't just choose a pretty face.
You choose who to walk through life with. 🤍

If this hit a little too close to home, follow @Elena.embodied 🥰 by @elena.embodied

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11 days ago

Accept the love you know you deserve 💖 by @elena.embodied

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12 days ago

Living to please others feels like a prison cell. 🔒

Being afraid to choose you. Being more focused on not disappointing others. Feeling controlled like that.

I've been there. Being raised in an Eastern European, super traditional household with an extremely controlling father made me distrust myself so many times. Being terrified of making mistakes. And being my biggest critic. Never happy with my achievements. Never proud. Because that's what I was used to.

I treated myself the way I was treated. 💔

It took all of my 20s to change that. It started at 19, leaving home. Then, three years later, I dropped out of university in my last year. Then, I'm started to backpack solo at 24. Leaving my 9-5. Pursuing coaching and the online business world. Wanting to make my life meaningful, fun, adventurous, pleasurable.

All things my parents weren't familiar with, because they had to sacrifice, work hard, do things by the book.

I had to do it and inform them, not the other way around. Otherwise, I'd end up living on their terms. So I let them be pissed off. Argue. I kept choosing myself anyway. Not because they were wrong. They raised me with real virtues and values, and they have more life experience than I do. But I'm the one who knows what's actually better for me.

Sounds harsh, but the sooner you disappoint people, the better.

Follow along if you're building your own path but still catch yourself trying to keep everyone happy. 🦋

#ChooseYourself #InnerChild #FemininePath #SelfWorthJourney #BreakingGenerationalPatterns by @elena.embodied

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16 days ago

Under the Aries full moon, we gathered, breathed, wrote, shared, and let go 🌕

Thank you to every woman who showed up as she is 🤍

Want to join us at our next gathering? Follow @rimbuncanggu for updates on upcoming events ✨

#DevotionToSelf taken in Rimbun Canggu by @elena.embodied

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14 days ago

I used to think you had to pick one.

We were taught to work like men: hustle, prove it, don't stop until you've made it. So that's how you build too. No room for slow. No room for rest without guilt 💕

The truth is you don't have to choose 🦋
You just have to stop building it the way you were taught. There's another way to create and lead that doesn't cost you the slow life.

If you're tired of performing and working hard just to feel unsupported anyway, and you're figuring out a different way to build, follow along. I'll be sharing more of what that actually looks like.💓 by @elena.embodied

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15 days ago

If you've ever been the one holding a relationship together while he barely showed up, if you've mistaken anxious for passionate and unavailable for a challenge worth winning, there's nothing wrong with you.

You just learned love had to be earned, not *easely* received.

I'm figuring out what it looks like to have a partner without abandoning myself. If that's you too, follow along. I'll be sharing more of what that actually looks like. 💓 by @elena.embodied

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