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Your abusive boyfriend’s worst nightmare 👻
BSc Zoology 🐙 | almost JD ⚖️
Freediving, travelling & girlhood 🌊
Currently in SYD 🇦🇺

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The shallow water struggle gets me every time

#Freediving #Freedive #Underwater #Ocean #OneBreath by @gracevspatriarchy

I would also love a wife, actually.

#FeministHumor
#GenderRoles
#WeaponizedIncompetence
#MarriageHumor
#WomenOfInstagram by @gracevspatriarchy

This is why I find it so infuriating when tourists take shells as souvenirs.

This video is from my first visit to Raja Ampat in Feb 2026. It made me wonder… if just one fewer tourist had taken a shell home to sit on a shelf a world away, this hermit crab might have had a safe home instead. 💭🐚

#RajaAmpat #HermitCrab #OceanConservation #MarineLife #LeaveOnlyFootprints by @gracevspatriarchy

Maybe he calls you “baby” because he’s affectionate.

Maybe he calls everyone “baby” because remembering which woman he’s talking to would require administrative support.

Either way: if the intimacy is moving faster than the actual relationship, clock it.

#DatingRedFlags
#LoveBombing
#ManipulationTactics
#DatingAdviceForWomen
#WomensSafety by @gracevspatriarchy

Women: centuries of systemic inequality. Men: she said something mean about men 😔

#Feminism
#Misogyny
#WomensRights
#GenderEquality
#Patriarchy by @gracevspatriarchy

Kindness is not weakness. Some people deserve to learn that the hard way.

#HealingJourney
#Boundaries
#SelfRespect
#PersonalGrowth
#KnowYourWorth by @gracevspatriarchy

The truth is patient. They’ll discover it for themselves, whether it takes days or a decade.

#AbuseAwareness
#CoerciveControl
#NarcissisticAbuse
#EmotionalAbuse
#WomensSafety by @gracevspatriarchy

If he’ll lie about something you can verify by simply standing next to him, imagine what he’ll lie about when there’s no measuring tape.

#DatingRedFlags
#DatingAdviceForWomen
#WomenInDating
#RelationshipRedFlags
#TrustYourInstincts by @gracevspatriarchy

If the man he pretended to be would’ve protected you from the man he really was, that tells you everything.

#Manipulation

#EmotionalAbuse

#CoerciveControl

#NarcissisticAbuse

#WomensSafety by @gracevspatriarchy

Most sexual violence doesn’t lead to a conviction. It leads to the perpetrators leading a totally normal and unbothered life.

#SexualViolence

#RapeCulture

#EndSexualViolence

#WomensSafety

#HoldMenAccountable by @gracevspatriarchy

If exploitation was really the problem, increased autonomy should have made you happier.

So why did everyone get louder?

#SexWorkDecriminalisation
#OnlyFans
#WomensRights
#SexWorkerRights
#FeministAnalysis by @gracevspatriarchy

The things you learn from narcissists

#DatingRedFlags
#CheatingSigns
#RelationshipAdvice
#DatingTok
#WomenHelpingWomen by @gracevspatriarchy