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🩷 a love for wellness, woo-woo & wild nights
🦋 here for a good time & a long time
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Living life at 48 with my favorite things...cats, travel, yoga, and Mojitos! 🌟 Mumma, wife, world explorer (25+ countries!) and mindset cheerleader. I’m all about helping women 40+ flip the script and embrace their best midlife. Let’s make this next chapter fun, energised, and full of possibility ✨ Follow if you're looking for a midlife your obsessed with...I'm your biggest HYPE girl for inspiration and positive vibes! #MidlifeVibes #WhyNotLife #WomenOnTheRise by @iamameliaclayton
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a year ago
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birthday shopping… for me, obviously 😂🛍️

green or brown? 💚🤎 which one are you choosing?

#BaliShopping . #SteveMadden . #BaliLife . #BirthdayTreat . #IconMallBali

🦋 amelia taken in ICON BALI MALL by @iamameliaclayton
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2 hours ago
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ARTBAT, ya legends….you made this old girl very happy! 

great music, amazing people in the crowd (❤️ @ha14173 ) and the perfect date night with @benji_lala.

thank you @zumanabali for bringing ARTBAT to bali 🙌 & a special thanks to @batish_artbat for the bro shake at the end! 

wish you’d played Return to Oz…but maybe next time? come back soon!

stay till the end to watch the crowd going OFF! 

Anyone else seen these dudes? Did they play Return to Oz 🥹

🦋 amelia

#ARTBAT #balinightlife #datenight❤️ #baliliving  #melodictechno taken in Bali, Indonesia by @iamameliaclayton
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2 days ago
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bali doesn’t always go to plan, but every day she surprises me in the best way possible.

thank you @wardkloppers for capturing this moment & to @ayic_27 for her commitment to us & her family, we couldn’t do bali life without you. 

🦋 amelia

#balilife . #balifuel . #balicommunity . #lifeinbali . #baliindonesia taken in Canggu, Bali by @iamameliaclayton
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3 days ago
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✨ a little bali magic, whatever your vibe

we made the trek from umalas to the pyramids of chi in ubud, & it was quite the lengthy journey… but oh my what an experience.

the grounds were beautiful, the coffee was good & the food is all vegan. 🌱

my chickpea salad was… well, chickpeas 😂 next time, i’m definitely choosing a hot meal!

but the real treat was inside the pyramid. lying back, listening to the gongs & letting the sound take me somewhere else entirely. a real treat for the soul & such a pleasure to experience & share with my gal pals. 

spiritual or simply curious, i’d say it’s worth a visit. 🌴

sound healing or sound annoying, what are your thoughts? 

🦋 amelia

@pyramidsofchi 
@rachel.zubak 
@hannahglasson 

🫡 @officialthebangles thanks for this cracking track 🎶

#midlifemagic #womenover40 #bali #balitravel #pyramaidsofchi taken in Pyramids of Chi, Bali by @iamameliaclayton
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3 days ago
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🇹🇭 trading one tropical paradise for another

& that’s how our august ended… 😂

from bali to phuket, with questionable tuk-tuk playlists, a little muay thai madness, beach days & the most incredible carnival of lights (with 9 world records, that massive popcorn machine is 1)

family adventures, happy memories, the “we have plenty of time to get to airport’ missed flight … family holidays are never what you actually expect but that’s thrill I guess. 

🦋 wouldn’t have it any other way. 
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i'm amelia, fighting hormones & making the most of this midlife era

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#phuket #familytravel #balilife #thailandtravel #lifelately taken in Phuket, Thailand by @iamameliaclayton
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4 days ago
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august was a bit of a blur 🎉

family, friends visiting, celebrating 20 years 💍, festivals 🪁and the occasional sunset to remind us where we live.

& somewhere in there ben decided two drinks were better than one. 😂

bali life lately. 🦋

#Bali #Midlifeera #Friends #Family #Blur taken in Bali, Indonesia by @iamameliaclayton
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5 days ago
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I didn’t skip the workout because I was lazy. I skipped it because I didn’t want to wake my husband rummaging in the dark. Poor excuse given that he’s a deep sleeper, but it was rational in my mind. 

There I’d be, 6am, half motivated, genuinely intending to move my body & then I’d remember the sports bra was somewhere in the drawer, the leggings were probably on the chair in the corner, and the socks were anyone’s guess.
Too much noise. Too much effort. Too much risk of waking my overtired hubby. 

So I’d put it off till later. And later, as later tends to do, never came.

Small Win #4 fixed what no habit tracker ever did.
The night before — not folded, not perfect, just gathered. Mismatched sports bra, old leggings, one sock that doesn’t match the other. Dropped in a visible spot on the bedroom chair.  That’s it. That’s the whole win.

Because when the mood takes you at 6am, it’s already sorted. No rummaging. No excuses. No accidentally elbowing your husband in the dark & losing the moral high ground before breakfast.

None of it looked like a wellness routine. All of it removed the one thing that was quietly talking me out of moving my body every single morning.

Friction. That’s all it was. Not laziness. Not lack of motivation. Just friction ai never thought to remove.

Over half of women aren’t moving as much as they’d like. I’d bet most of them have a version of the dark bedroom rummage in their excuse bank too 

Consider this your friction removal. 

Share this with the friend who you can go walking with on a Saturday, & then coffee & rant with afterwards. 

Type GUIDE and I’ll send you my No-Nonsense Guide to Doable Wellness — free. 

Follow to join the Small Wins Club. We open the community page at 1,000 followers — Instagram’s rule, not mine — so every follow genuinely counts.

Link in bio
Mucho love, Amelia

#midlifewomen #womenover40 #smallwin #organised 
perimenopause • menopausal • taken in Bali, Indonesia by @iamameliaclayton
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4 months ago
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Nobody told me the guilt was the actual problem. Not the exercise.

I used to think being healthy meant being active. More steps. More discipline. More guilt when I didn’t do either.

I’d catch myself running through everything I hadn’t done for myself that day. The walk I skipped. The vitamins I didn’t take. The stretch I kept putting off. And instead of ending the day feeling okay, I’d feel like I’d failed myself. Again.
That went on for years, decades even. So I set big challenges like 100 days of yoga to stay accountable and focused but by the time the countdown was over I felt like I could ease off which ended up being no yoga at all. For months at times. 

Then I started doing something different. Not a programme. Not a transformation. Just small, almost embarrassingly tiny things woven into the day I was already having.

Ten sit-ups after a bathroom visit, a deliberate forward fold as I was putting the washing out. Carrying the shopping basket instead of using the trolley. Relocating the cat. That counts too, can you see my face going red, Dumpling is such a pudding 🐱

None of it looked like wellness, all of it made me feel productive.

And here’s what changed, not my body at first, but the feeling at that shone over me at the end of the day. That quiet little yes, I did something for me today. No guilt. No self-hate. No I’ll do better tomorrow. Just a small win, banked.
That’s why Im banking Small Wins & launching a Small Wins Club to build a community of ‘give us a break’ woman. We’re not doing more, we’re just doing enough, with a little intention, to change how you feel at the end of a busy day.

I’ve read that over half of all women aren’t moving as much as they’d like. Not because they’re lazy but because because the bar is too high and nobody gave them permission to lower it. Consider this your permission.

Type GUIDE and I’ll send you my No-Nonsense Guide to Doable Wellness — free. Follow to join the Small Wins Club. We open the community page properly at 1,000 followers (instas rules not mine) so every follow counts.
Link in comment 🔗

Mucho love, Amelia 

#smallwinsclub #doablewellness #midlifewomen #w taken in Bali, Indonesia by @iamameliaclayton
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4 months ago
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Yes : to wellness. But : make it yours.

The yoga wearing pjs in your lounge kinda yours. 

Not the influencer with the 4:30am alarm & the cold plunge. Not the woman on your FYP who batch cooks seventeen meals on a Sunday.

Yours.

Yoga in the shala or yoga in the lounge. Both count. Both are the practice.

Doable wellness isn’t a programme. It’s permission to stop copying someone else’s routine & start noticing what actually works for you.

That’s Small Wins Club way. That’s why we’re here.

Save this for the next time you feel like you’re doing wellness wrong.

Type GUIDE and I’ll DM you the No-Nonsense Guide to doable wellness. Follow to join the Small Wins Club — we open properly at 1,000 followers and every follow counts. Link in bio for full details. 

#smallwinsclub #doablewellness #midlifewomen #wellnessrebellion #perimenopausehealth • midlife health • yoga • woman over 40 • yoga life • fitness menopause taken in Bali, Indonesia by @iamameliaclayton
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4 months ago
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None of them are sexy. All of them are true.

Four things midlife taught me that no influencer, supplement brand, or 12-week program ever did. None of them are sexy. All of them are true.

Save this for the next time you feel like you’re “not doing enough” for your wellness.

Comment GUIDE and I’ll DM you the No-Nonsense Guide to Doable Wellness. Follow to join the Small Wins Club — link in bio for first dibs.

#smallwinsclub #doablewellness #midlifewomen #wellnessrebellion #nofluff • woman over 40 • perimenopause • menopause • wellness tips • wellness mindset • pro health tips for everyday wellness • taken in Bali, Indonesia by @iamameliaclayton
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4 months ago
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It took me 4 years to open this box. Took 20 minutes to love its contents. 

It moved with me through 3 three house moves & a lot of “I’ll deal with that later.” Today I finally sorted it properly & found things I’d completely forgotten about….like the Grease badge & a locket my dad gave me during their divorce. Small treasures, totally forgotten about until about 20 minutes ago. 

That’s the whole win. One box. Some nice surprises. Nothing to dramatic, but feels like a small win. 

Type GUIDE and I’ll DM you the No-Nonsense Guide. Follow for more small self hugs & join the Small Wins Club community (link in bio)

#smallwinsclub #doablewellness #midlifewomen #nofluff #tipoftheday • mindset • easy self care • woman • menopause • perimenopause taken in Bali, Indonesia by @iamameliaclayton
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4 months ago
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