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Femininity Coach Jai Monae

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AWAKEN THE WIFE WITHIN YOU
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The finale. ☀️♥️

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Home sweet home 😍💕✨

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Cowboy boots, monster trucks, dirt, dust, legos, football, fights, and so much more. I am truly a #boymom and I am loving every minute of it 💙

The baby’s socks aren’t pictured 🤣

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Congratulations to the Valez’s 💍🤍

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Do healthy relationships get boring OR is this a time for self reflection?

Of course you and your man should do fun things together, because that is what creates awesome memories! But ladies, should the “fun time” solely or mainly be left up to him?

Also, to what end should these experiences be? As small as playing a two-man game of Spades over a glass of wine and chill vibes or an excursion on a tropical island?

I think it is his AND YOUR duty to find a multitude of ways to “spice things up”. But personally, sometimes I just want to cuddle up and binge a super interesting science fiction series 🤷🏽‍♀️

CLICK THE LINK IN MY BIO TO WATCH THE FULL VIDEO. Find the title “THE REASON WHY WOMEN SAY HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS ARE BORING”.

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I am beyond blessed.
Thank you, Jesus 💕
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🌸💍 A healthy marriage requires humility, continual self-reflection, self improvement, respecting your spouse, open and honest communication, submission, and refusing to react on what your EGO (pride) is telling you.

Why do you think it is important to keep your ego or pride under control within a relationship? What are some ways you can this?

Follow me for more marriage based #femininity content. The link to my YouTube channel is in my bio.

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🌸💍 Do healthy relationships get boring? In my opinion, that is a loaded question but I will TRY to keep this one short 🤭

A mixture of spontaneity and stability is what keeps a healthy relationship healthy. I think both the man and woman in the relationship should make an effort to uphold that, whether it be with large or small gestures. It take two to tango, right?🤔

What I think #marriageminded women should keep in mind is, a good man who is husband material will automatically bring order and structure to your life to attempt to contain the natural “disorder”/chaos that you (yes… me too) come with.

Think… a wild fire 🔥 versus a fire going in a fireplace. One is out of control and causing destruction and the other is contained and bringing light and warmth to an area.

Are you willing to submit to his order?

✔️Click on the link in my bio to watch the full video to this clip on my YouTube channel and find the video “THE REASON WHY WOMEN SAY HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS ARE BORING”.

👣👣👣 Follow for more marriage based #femininity content. 🌸💍

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🌸💍 One of my PET PEEVES is when married women speak ill of marriage to the point where they DISCOURAGE women from desiring it. Of course, I am referring a healthy and fulfilling marriage but that caveat is usual rarely made, which makes marriage seem generally miserable.🤦🏽‍♀️

In my opinion, we should advocate by teaching girls and women how to have a healthy marriage. Not with the “he should cater to you” toxic talking points but rather with “how to show up” humble, submissive, and insightful. Those types of conversations lean into women shedding her selfish nature and tapping into her feminine nature. This can strengthen her for the moments in her relationship that will not be so easy.

Feminine women attract masculine men, right? Yes, along with other types men who may not be so good. However, what is MORE important is when a woman who operates in her renewed and reflective feminine nature, she will gain the ability to PICK THE RIGHT MAN and be able to keep him.

It’s disheartening to me when married women do the disservice by neglecting to speak up on how to pick right and show up even better.💍🌸

What are your thoughts on this?

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The final stretch…

God is good ✨

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ARE WOMEN WHO HAVE GOOD HUSBANDS “LUCKY”?

My answer to that question would be “no”.

When my husband and I were in the courting and dating phase, he showed me that not only is he a good man but would be a good husband to me. Here are a few things that told me that he was #husbandmaterial:

🩷 Prioritized our time together and made time for me.
🩷 Fed me and offered kind and unasked for gestures 🫂like sending me flowers, opening my door and picking up a favorite snack item.
🩷 Displayed kindness to strangers, the less fortunate, family, and friends.
🩷 Showed that he is reliable and a man of his word.
🩷 Expressed his personal goals and worked towards them.
🩷 Made it clear about his intentions with me, us, and the future he looked forward to with us together.
🩷 Small gestures of protection such as waking on the street side, ensuring I communicated when I made it home safely, and carrying 🔫
🩷 Expressed that he learned from his past mistakes in relationship, wanting to be married (to me), and looked forward to having children.
🩷 Gave me advice on how I could better myself as a women, which required accountability and introspective work, and even showing me how to properly workout 🏋️‍♀️
🩷 Displaying confidence and #masculinity by requiring respect from me and giving me a choice as to if I wanted to follow his lead or not.
🩷 Willingness to listen to my points of dissatisfaction and actively working on improving them for the sake of the relationship.

And the list can go on…

With that, I am blessed to have such a wonderful husband but it was not “luck” but a conscious choice that I made, to accept his purposal and ultimately marrying him because his actions PROVED that he was good man and could be a good husband and eventual father.

“A good man, makes a good husband, and a good husband makes a good father.” - Femininity Coach Bella

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What are some other signs that a man is husband material?

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