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Liba Greenman • Marriage Coach / Tanya Code

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6️⃣ Years ago I didn’t know how we’d keep going.

Today I get to experience feelings I didn’t think were possible for me with my husband! 🪄💞

🙌 My mission is to help build a generation of strong families- so our kids grow up in healthy and safe homes and get to build their own.

The way to do that - The Tanya code to Marriage

Join my Inner circle ⭕️ Group to learn more ( link in bio)
or send me a DM with the word CODE 🤎 I’d be honored to lead you on a journey towards a healthy and strong marriage 🙌

#jewishmarriage #tanya #kabbalah #jewishmarriagecoach #happywife #jewishmama #relationshipgoals #relationshipcoach #marriagecomedy by @libagreenman

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10 months ago

It can all turn around. Even if you feel like you have tried it ALL!

And if you need a guide - I’m here.

Round 3 of The Tanya code is going to be better and more powerful than ever!

Change your life. Change your marriage.
Bring Geula to your home 🔥

Comment CODE for details ✨ by @libagreenman

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8 months ago

Marriages are burning up left and right 🔥

I hear the stories and I hear the reasons and obviously, people are doing their best.

Some really need to get out.

But too many, and MOST are just missing tools and understanding 😔

I speak to women who tell me they figured out a little too late why their marriage was suffering. They could have fixed it if they knew what they know now…

It drives me crazy, because this knowledge isn’t available enough. Isn’t being taught.

We hear negative messaging all the time.

He’s toxic, he’s abus1ve, he’s stupid, he’s a narcissist…

I want to flip the script.

Actually, he loves you. But you’re both not speaking the same language.

If you want to learn the tools to create a STRONG, SOLID marriage that can withstand the storms and do so with joy, I am opening up
THE GEULA MARRIAGE RESET for Beta launch.

DM me CODE to learn more

With love, Liba by @libagreenman

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a year ago

Your husband is not another part of the house you need to fix. 👀

A woman carries incredible gevurah, the strength to organize, create structure, and hold the walls of her home together.

But that same strength can quietly turn into control.

We start correcting. Managing. Trying to get our husband to do things our way.

And sometimes our greatest work isn’t doing more… it’s rising above the need to control.

Because your husband doesn’t need another manager. He needs a wife who can make space for who he is.

That’s where your gevurah becomes greatness.

That’s the work of a Gorgeous Mama. 👑🤍

#JewishMarriage #ShalomBayis #JewishWomen #MarriageAdvice #GorgeousMama by @libagreenman

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8 days ago

Touch more.

More than you do now, wherever that is for you!

Being roommates doesn’t work.

Touch is the glue. Touch regulates us. Touch is care. Touch is crucial.

Touch can be the thing that actually allows for emotional connection, like talking and sharing to open up. So don’t hold it back 🫶🏼

To get the replay of exactly how I transformed my marriage from lonely and frustrating to connected and held comment REPLAY below 👇🏼

There is a step by step process, and it works! 🙌😆 by @libagreenman

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13 days ago

Have you ever looked at your husband and thought… “How in the world did I marry this man?”

You’re not alone.

Of course you’re different. If two heads were exactly the same, one of them wouldn’t be necessary.

Marriage isn’t about finding someone who thinks, feels, or reacts exactly like you. It’s about understanding that your differences can actually complete each other.

The goal isn’t to eliminate the differences. It’s to learn how to understand each other deeply enough to work through them, even when you feel worlds apart. 🤍

Sometimes the very thing that makes you think, “We’re SO different” is exactly where your marriage has the most room to grow.

#JewishMarriage #MarriageAdvice #ShalomBayis #JewishWomen #RelationshipAdvice by @libagreenman

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9 days ago

When we grip so tight, trying to get our men to care, to spent time with us, to make us a priority, we hurt everyone.

Ourselves, and our man.

It is SO much easier to let go.

But sometimes letting go feels too dangerous.
Our body is screaming I CANT

This is why I don’t believe that simply learning practical relationship tools is enough.

We gotta get the body on board!

And when we do we can take that control and fear and let it go ✨

It feels amazing to simply be ok, no matter what.
To know your chosen, no matter what.

BECOMING is a 4 month journey to embody the women who is whole, secure and alive, healing her relationship with herself and her husband to create REAL MAGIC and JOY in her life!!

Comment BECOMING to apply 👇🏼 by @libagreenman

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17 days ago

I may be a marriage coach but I still have moments where suddenly my tone changes.

There is something I’m stressed about or trying to prove, maybe feeling defensive.

When that happens the best thing to do is simply to stop.

Take a minute. (Or 5)

Take a breath, return to logic and understand what happened here? Why was a I triggered?

And return.

Calm and clear. With an apology.

We both do this and it has become a helpful way to process our feelings instead of throw them at each other.

Try this next time your about to spiral, a little moment of a pattern disruption can ripple and create a new way of communicating 🙌 by @libagreenman

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19 days ago

My husband lost 20 pounds… and it started before he changed anything about his body.

I stopped seeing him as someone who “needed to get healthier” and started seeing the healthy, active man that was already in him.

And slowly, he started seeing himself that way too.

The more I believed that was who he was, the more he wanted to live like it.

What we choose to see in the people we love matters more than we realize.#weightloss #vulnerable #therapy #honest #fyp by @libagreenman

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19 days ago

Going to tell you the truth though…

Being delusional includes letting go of expectations too.

Believing everything is possible and at the same dropping control, dropping instructions, dropping the need to FIX your husband.

Because you attract when you are OPEN.
And when you KNOW and RADIATE your self worth.

With acceptance, and care, and love, and allowing for space yourself and your husband to breath and thrive!

I have TRULY seen stories fall apart in weeks and months.
Stories like there is no attraction, he may be into something else…
He’s not capable of taking responsibility…
Stories of maybe I chose wrong… attachment styles that don’t match.

We go under that all, learn your dynamic, what’s broken, how to bring back alignment and magic comes in.

We also heal and clear the reasons that got you into this distance in the first place, so you’re not operating from wounds anymore and can ACTUALLY hold the good that’s coming!

Ready for this kind of work?

Comment APPLY for more info 👇🏼 by @libagreenman

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21 days ago

Your marriage will start looking like whatever you keep looking for.

If you rehearse everything he’s doing wrong, you’ll find proof everywhere. But start looking for the ways he provides, shows up, and loves you, and suddenly you’ll find proof of that too, and start having the marriage you always wanted#jewishmarriage #spicy #fyp #relationshipgoals #marriage by @libagreenman

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21 days ago

Positive delusion isn’t pretending your marriage is perfect. It’s understanding that your mind is always collecting evidence for the story you already believe. If the story is “my husband doesn’t care about me, work matters more than I do,” you’ll notice every moment that proves it. But when you begin choosing a different story, “my husband loves me, he cares about me, he wants us to be good,” your mind starts noticing evidence for that too. And slowly, you stop living inside the marriage you’re afraid you have and start creating the marriage you actually want.#jewishmarriage #spicy #delusion #relationships #relationshipgoals by @libagreenman

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