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Onita Simpson

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How is spent my 45th Birthday

There’s nothing slight about making it to 45! I decided to solo travel to Barcelona and cruise for 8 days on the #celebrityxcel and they didn’t disappoint!

We stopped in Nice, Portofino, Florence/Pisa, Rome, Naples, & the Amalfi Coast. The food, the history, the people, the sights, the shopping…. A girls dream!

10/10 I’f do it again. This was the perfect way to bring in my 45th!

If you’re considering traveling alone, DO IT! You make the itinerary and change it without a consensus from others. Live YOUR life the way you want!

#solotraveling #eurosummer #over40club #blackgirlstravel by @looking_4_me

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a month ago

25 •July •2026 Mr. & Mrs. Davis

My baby girl is now married and living with her HUSBAND

9 months of planning and it was perfect in every area. God made sure that everything that was needed was RIGHT there! It was truly a magical day!

I showed up that morning a mother of 2 daughters and left that night as a mother of 2 daughters and a son.

Congratulations @_joeboe_ & @diimplessbaby

Location: @evergreenalleyevents
Dress: @elizabethcolebridal
Photographer: @creativeimagesphotographyllc
Suit: @menssuitwarehouse

#younglovers #weddingdressinspo #brideandgroomphotos #weddingdressinspo #summerweddings by @looking_4_me

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2 months ago

Let’s talk about location…
@evergreenalleyevents you were a DREAM! I found this beautiful hidden gem while scrolling on TikTok & couldn’t believe it! I called and booked a viewing for 2 weeks later. @diimplessbaby @_joeboe_ fell in love with it just like I did! They even have a farm house at the front on the property that’s perfect for guest or the wedding party.

Soooo of course I booked the compound for the weekend 🤷🏽‍♀️! Such a beautiful location and the owners were sooo GREAT to work with! We couldn’t ask for a better experience!

@creativelyyoursevents.sc took the inspo we provided and ran with it! It truly turned out BETTER than they expected or even imagine! You ladies are truly GIFTED in what you do!!

Some people say wedding planning is stressful but I can’t relate. This was a great experience for my family and me!

#evergreenalleyevents #weddingvenue #weddinginspration #marriagegodsway #farmhousewedding by @looking_4_me

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3 months ago

It’s official! Mr. & Mrs. Davis 7.25.26

Yesterday morning I arrived a mother of 2 daughters and I left last night with 2 daughters and a son 🥹. Congratulations @diimplessbaby & @_joeboe_ I hope it was the wedding of your dreams! I love you both
#married #issawife #issahusband #foreverandever #alwaysforever by @looking_4_me

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3 months ago

Last summer I had my deck extended and couldn’t find anything that I liked to pull it all together. So last week I decided to I asked #chatgp for a deck design and I think it came out GREAT! Just in time for the start of summer.

I found the table set on sale at @homedepot, the deck paint is @behrpaint Terracotta, the seating came from everyone’s favorite place @amazon and the rug came from @biglots

I have spot to unwind at the end of the day. What summer projects are y’all working on?

#amazonfind #homedepotdeals #biglotsfinds #deckproject by @looking_4_me

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4 months ago

The Columbia Food & Wine Festival is just what I really needed. Good food, and Great company! Thank you @minninasmith for dilly dallying.. it was a much needed break. #dillydilly #dillydally #foodtasting
#columbiafoodandwine #foodandwinefestival by @looking_4_me

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6 months ago

“JORDAN YEAR”

Happy Birthday to our House Manager @desi.queenn! I pray this new year unlocks another level of blessings in your life! Keep reaching for greatness! I love you 💋

@macc.fiya 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Thank you for bringing my baby vision to life!

#jordanyear #23birthday #housemanager #oldestdaughter❤️ #bdayvibes by @looking_4_me

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6 months ago

In 2016 I was really in my closet and in the streets! 😆😆😆 It was a GREAT year financially and I was starting to get a lot of traction on social media… at the cost of losing time with my daughters who were 11 & 12. So like any good mother would do I accessed the cost and realized that it wasn’t worth it to me.

I logged out for 6 months and my timeline ain’t been the same since and that’s ok with me. If I’m going to repeat anything it’s spending time with my family, getting dressed, and getting to the money! 💰

#2026isthenew2016 #flashbackfridays #dressedtoimpress #ınstafashion #styleforwomen by @looking_4_me

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9 months ago

This is year is all about putting me first! Yesterday at @flongloivcolumbia went a little like this. I’ll definitely be back! Ohhh and they’re veteran owned! Yall know how I feel about supporting my battle buddies!

Go check them out!
#spatherapy #veteranownedandoperated #wellnes #skincare #columbiascfacial by @looking_4_me

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9 months ago

The last day of the year calls for cutting anything that no longer serves me… including hair.

Bobbyana has entered the chat 💬 😘

#boblife✂️ #blackgirlhairstyles #hairstylesoftheday #softgirlera #40andoverclub by @looking_4_me

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9 months ago

🎄 ❤️Tis’ the season 🎄❤️

Giving more, worrying less, and seeing my girls grow into beautiful women. That’s what I’m thankful for. That’s the gift.

#cʜʀɪsᴛᴍᴀs2025 #familyphotosession #christmasishere #instachristmastree #holidayseason2025 by @looking_4_me

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10 months ago

From my growing family to yours… 🎄Merry Christmas!

#merrychristmas2025 #familyphotoshooting #christmastreedecorating by @looking_4_me

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10 months ago