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Announcement: I have launched my new Etsy shop! Currently there is a print and a sticker available. We will have a wider variety of curiosities available soon!

I have launched this to try and bring in some extra money because I am severely struggling. I'm too severely Disabled to work, even part time, and I have extremely high monthly costs due to my disabilities and care needs.

Note: as with everything, I do this with significant support from my partners and carers, this is not done independently by any means.
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[ID: 1) "Valkyrie Cain. Announcement: I have updated and re-opened my Etsy store. Currently we have a print and a sticker up. Earrings, boot charms, neck chains, candles, wax melts and more will be added shortly." With a screenshot of the Etsy store. 2) "you're worth the effort it takes to keep you alive" on a purple background with drawings of: a hearing aid with a purple mould, a walking stick, an ostomy bag, a catheter balloon, a powerchair, an IV pole, a hoist and a feeding tube pump with the tube looping around the quote having a rainbow tape and a flowery tape on it.]
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#Etsy #Disabled #Tubie #HSN #MSN "Valkyrie Cain. Announcement: I have updated and re-opened my Etsy store. Currently we have a print and a sticker up. Earrings, boot charms, be k chains, candles, wax melts and more will be added shortly." With a screenshot of the Etsy store. by @mx.syd
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13 days ago
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This is, ofc, not the only privelidge that exists within the community. The Disabled community can often be racist, fatphobic etc! This is just the one I'm talking about today!

Accounts that talk about their own experiences of being M/HSN (these are collected from the community, if you want removing let me know. If an account posts something bad please also let me know and we'll assess if we need to remove them) :

@getaway_autist_mobile
@daytodaywitheviemay
@stella.and.venus
@angry_autist
@authentically.aspen
@another.autistic.aussie
@shelbykinsxo
@andrewgurza6
@lucywebsterjournalist
@harlows.journey
@maxwellmnight
@daisyslife2010
@frankiegrace_
@thrive_on_wheels
@yes.eyecan
@autistic.qualia
@autistic_tyler
@livedexperienceeducator
@hypermobileguy
@lozzagilbert
@the_tubie_mathematician
@daisymaysjourney
@sofiasnkhlife
@the_non_speaking_traveler
@katie_andm.e
@stacey_and_jade2017

If you recommended other accounts and I didn't tag them, it's because they either have tags off or are private and I wanted to at least briefly check over the accounts I recommended. I also focused on people talking about their own experience (independently or with assistance) rather than parents documenting their children's existence without the child's input.

Credit to:
@lou_at_anteiku
@daytodaywitheviemay
And multiple anonymous contributors 

♿ Carer assisted post 
Image Description in Comments! (Insta isn't letting me comment right now, so I'll add them when it does!)

#HSN #MSN #LSN #HighSupportNeeds #MediumSupportNeeds #LowSupportNeeds #SupportNeeds #Disabled #Spoonie #SpecificLearningDisorder #Autism #Disability #Neurodivergent #EDS #EDSAndCo #NeuroCripQueer #DisabledAlly Slide 1: "Ableism & Disability: Medium & High Support Needs. @Mx.Syd" 

Yellow writing on a black starry background. The text is at the top and central; below is a line drawing of a celestial woman, also in yellow. taken in Manchester, United Kingdom by @mx.syd
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3 years ago
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With my birthday coming up and me trying to save up for multiple expensive access aids (after forking out for a fan and a £100 powerbank for my powerchair this month) I thought I'd set up a Throne. I get nervous to do stuff like this, so I won't be pushing it hard or anything, it's just there if anyone that can afford it and wants to help out can do so! 🖤🕸️
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[ID: 1) "I've launched a Throne. Link in bio!" On a space/purple starry background with the Throne logo (a rainbow crown style image). 2) "Throne is a gifting platform that allows people to give content creators gifts. This can be anything from shopping vouchers to specific objects. I decided to launch one to allow those who can afford it to help me pay to keep making educational content. It is largely full of accessibility aids right now, but I will add more. Some items are 'crowdsourcing' as they're expensive. You can also 'suggest' gifts to creators through Throne. There is never any pressure to contribute if you cannot afford to."] "I've launched a Throne. Link in bio!" On a space/purple starry background with the Throne logo (a rainbow crown style image). by @mx.syd
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3 years ago
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🎃 October shop update 🎃
📢NOTE: This is not AI, Instagram is just doing this atm, I am FIRMLY against GenAI!
🎃We've been busy behind the scenes to add a bunch of new products to the Etsy, including wax melts, more earrings and boot charms, and new themed mystery packs! 
🎃Order before October 18th for delivery before Halloween!
Can you guess the themes of the 8 mystery packs based on their emojis?
[ID coming shortly due to technical issues]
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#GothicJewllery #DisabledOwned #WaxMelts #Halloween #Goth taken in Manchester, United Kingdom by @mx.syd
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9 hours ago
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🎃 HALLOWEEN RAFFLE FOR MARI (UK DELIVERY ONLY) 👻 

‼️ The next £100 of entries after this post will be matched by @systems4change ‼️

This raffle is doing significantly worse than previous raffles, despite there being some great (and expensive!) prizes. Pls support if you can to make these raffles worthwhile running! 

(TW DV) Mari is an oppressed person with severe ME who has been fundraising to escape over 5 years of brutal DV for over a year now. She has finally escaped and just recently moved into her own place! — BUT she urgently needs to meet the full gofundme goal in order to survive alone, hire paid caregivers, and afford essential survival and medical needs.

🎃 To enter:

- Donate £5 per entry or £12 for 3 entries to Mari’s GFM: gofundme.com/marigfm (link in my linktree)
- Send a screenshot DM confirming the donation to @franhaddock_
- *Deadline is midnight 24th October!* 
- The goal is to raise $3000
- Prizes shipped to UK only! (Non-UK can still enter and nominate a UK friend to receive the prizes)

🧡 THE PRIZE:

One person will win:

- @thechocolatesmiths ‘Dr Bradbury’s Compendium of Curiosities’ 13 days of Halloween calendar (worth £75) 
- Crochet pumpkin wreath made by @memyselfandcrochet
- The amusables S’mores jellycat (worth £35) donated by @livinglowonspoons
- Chronic illness merch including cards, stickers, a meds diary and a spoonie hat! 
- 2 sets of Halloween stickers and Halloween colouring pages from @rana.theartist
- Cute Halloween prints and stickers made by @therealchronicillnesscrafter 

We will aim to get the prizes posted out before Halloween but pls remember health limitations can sometimes cause a delay. 

For legal purposes this raffle should be considered a prize draw with 1 free entry via post per entrant. Please contact @franhaddock_ if you need more info on this. 

Tags: #Halloween #TheChocolateSmiths #CommunityCare #MECFS #October, win, prizes, chronic illness, disabled, community care, whimsical, autumn, fall, fyp, scary season, horror, ME/CFS, myalgic encephalomyelitis, millions missing by @mx.syd
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10 hours ago
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🩵 S*icide prevention is community care 💙

➡️ Mari’s GFM: gofundme.com/marigfm

After more than five years trapped in an ab*sive and inaccessible environment, Mari has finally escaped and moved into a safe home. 

But getting out was only the first step.

Mari is severely ill with M.E., and the immense physical toll of escaping and relocating has left her desperately needing time to rest and recover. 

A significant portion of the funds raised was required to get her to safety, and the fundraiser is still only halfway to its goal.

Mari urgently needs continued support so she can rest, recover from the extreme trauma of DV, receive care, remain safely housed, and access survival needs without being forced to rely on anyone harmful for her basic survival needs again.

💙 Safe housing is sui prevention
💙 Food is sui prevention
💙 Medical care is sui prevention
💙 Severe ME advocacy is sui prevention
💙 Community care is sui prevention

#SuicideAwarenessMonth #SuicidePrevention #SevereME #CommunityCare #myalgicencephalomyelitis by @mx.syd
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15 days ago
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‼️ Help ensure Mari’s longterm safety by raising the remaining GFM funds‼️

GFM: gofundme.com/marigfm
Wishlist: bit.ly/marisurvivalneeds

MARI IS CURRENTLY IN THE PROCESS OF ESCAPING AND NEEDS AS MUCH SUPPORT AS POSSIBLE! The majority of the funds raised have been used on moving expenses, food and medical expenses as outlined in the GFM.

Mari’s fundraising goal was to reach the GFM total by September 2026. The remaining 45% is urgently needed to cover longterm care and basic needs after the move.

Mari is a DV survivor with severe ME who has been failed repeatedy by instituations that are supposed to protect her.

Let’s help ensure Mari’s longterm safety and survival! by @mx.syd
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a month ago
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Levenshulme Pride 2026 | with @mx.m0rt1s | @levenshulmepride 
A march, LGBTQ+ Service, Lesbian Cheese Party (yes they had Vegan cheese!!), Dog Show and immaculate vibes 🐶✝️🧀🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 by @mx.syd
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2 months ago
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I often say that autistic life doesn’t come with a handbook for surviving a non-autistic world. But mine came in the form of an Ellen Jones, who taught me everything she knew about navigating a world that was never designed for us and, more importantly, showed me that I would never have to navigate it alone. Like so many in our community, I owe her more than she will ever know.

Please:
Donate to the fundraiser
Share the fundraiser
Get in touch with Ellen for any press coverage enquiries
Get in touch if you can offer legal support
Tag @officialthanetcouncil in the comments by @mx.syd
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2 months ago
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🧡 Support “N” 🧡

*N must be kept anonymous in these posts. If you know their name please don’t mention it in the comments or when sharing*

GFM LINK:

bit.ly/helpnescape
(Case sensitive)

PayPal link:

bit.ly/helpnpaypal

Text on slides: 

N is a marginalised person living with very severe Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (ME/CFS), after becoming ill in early childhood. They are bedbound and also live with multiple complex co-morbidities. N is simultaneously trying to escape domestic and gender-based violence while living in the SWANA region. For safety reasons, they cannot speak publicly about many aspects of their situation and are currently having to negotiate with their abuser resulting in repeated crashes and further deterioration in health.

Unlike many countries, there is no meaningful disability safety net in the form of carers or welfare payments available to support independent living, and N is completely reliant on paid caregivers to stay live. Financial support is urgently needed to help secure legal protection from their ab*ser, to pay multiple, longterm PAs, and other necessities required to escape the current situation. Please share this post!
Every donation helps move N closer to safety, stability, and access to the care they need to survive.

#SevereME #MECFS #CommunityCare #ChronicIllness #myalgicencephalomyelitis 

[Image ID: text as above. Both images have a light orange background with gold butterflies. In the bottom left corner is a graphic of a brown person with dark shoulder length hair in bed with a strip over their forehead and a thermometer in their mouth] by @mx.syd
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2 months ago
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August 8th is Severe ME day. I have had ME since childhood, but I have been Severe for about 4 years. ME is a complex condition that comes in 4 severity levels (Mild, Moderate, Severe, Very Severe), with Severe and Very Severe being classified usually as having some element of being housebound or bedbound, although this doesn't need to be 100%. 

For me, I am very regularly housebound, I can go weeks without leaving the house, and usually only leave for medical appointments and very occasionally am I able to do social things. When I'm at home I am lying in bed 99% of the time, except for very exceptional circumstances, I can't sit on the sofa, I can't sit in my chair. And I spend about 70% of that time in bed lying down, and can't tolerate sitting up for very long. Compared to a lot of other Severe people, I have it easy, but this disease has still ruined my life, and killed my friends.

⚠️ACTION: please donate to my friends Mari and Nevra who have Severe/Very Severe ME and desperately need our help. You can find their links in my bio, from @saveliznevraofficial and from @franhaddock_
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[ID: 10 ways my condition affects me: Myalgic Encephalomyelitis
1) Profound fatigue leading me to be very regularly housebound and often bed bound
2) Unrefreshing sleep that does not stop the fatigue
3) Insomnia - being horribly fatigued, but unable to sleep
4) Immunocompromised - we believe my ME compounds with other things and has caused this
5) Post Exertional Malaise - over exertion causes an intense flu like hellish state often for weeks
6) Time Dilation (perceiving time as moving slower than it is)
7) Migraine attacks and low-level neuroinflammation
8) Difficulty tolerating being upright, sometimes at all, and usually for more than an hour
9) PEM and over-exertion can (and has) led to a permanent lowering of my baseline (twice)
10) Isolation - everything combined causes a LOT of isolation esp if friends don’t understand
Followed with 4 photos of Syd in their bed, either asleep with an eye mask, or lying down, most feature their cat also asleep on or next to them]
#SevereME #SevereMEDay #MyalgicEncephalomyelitis #ChronicFatigueSyndrome #CFSME 10 ways my condition affects me:
Myalgic Encephalomyelitis
1) Profound fatigue leading me to be very regularly housebound and often bed bound
2) Unrefreshing sleep that does not stop the fatigue
3) Insomnia - being horribly fatigued, but unable to sleep
4) Immunocompromised - we believe my ME compounds with other things and has caused this
5) Post Exertional Malaise - over exertion causes an intense flu like hellish state often for weeks by @mx.syd
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2 months ago
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🚨‼️ HELP MARI SAFELY RELOCATE and PERMANENTLY ESCAPE DV ‼️🚨

‼️ Mari is a DV survivor who is at one of the lowest points of her illness and trapped alone in an inaccessible environment without the care and support she needs to survive. She urgently needs support to safely relocate to accessible housing, hire qualified caregivers and to meet her basic survival and nutrition needs.‼️

GFM ➡️ gofundme.com/marigfm

Wishlist to purchase DoorDash and Uber Eats vouchers ➡️ bit.ly/marisurvivalneeds

Could you commit to a monthly donation or monthly DoorDash/uber eats voucher to help ensure Mari can receive the ongoing care she needs to survive?

Please donate, share this post, and answer the questions in the comments below. ⬇️

#chronicillness #communitycare #SevereME #MECFS #myalgicencephalomyelitis by @mx.syd
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