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Trauma-Informed Family Life Coach | Marriage Coach

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6 months ago

How to Work With Us at BloomNest Company

At BloomNest, we help individuals, families, and organizations heal, grow, and truly thrive.

Whether you need emotional healing, relationship support, or professional guidance, there’s a pathway for you here.

👇🏽 Here’s how you can work with us:

🔹 Individual Therapy & Counseling
Gain clarity on your emotions, relationships, purpose, and life direction in a safe, supportive space.

🔹 Family & Relationship Services
From singleness to marriage, we help you build healthy, meaningful, and lasting relationships through coaching and tailored support.

🔹 Professional Coaching (For Coaches & Therapists)
We help you grow your practice with proven frameworks, business strategies, and content direction.

🔹 Organizational Services
We partner with churches, schools, and organizations to deliver training in leadership, emotional intelligence, and team development.

📌 How to Get Started

✔️ Explore our page for more details and client results.
✔️ Send a DM or click the link in bio to book a session.
✔️ Share this with someone who needs it.

Transformation doesn’t have to wait.
Let’s walk this journey together.

#BloomNest #EmotionalHealing #Coaching #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalWellness by @nikefolagbade

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5 months ago

I’ve had the privilege of working with singles, engaged couples, and married couples and one thing I’ve learned is this:

No two stories are ever the same.

Even when situations look similar, I don’t approach people the same way. I take my time to understand patterns, mindsets, resistance, openness and then guide each person or couple accordingly.

That’s why the work is always deeply personal.
And that’s also why the transformations are real.

Over the years, I’ve seen consistent results not because the process is easy, but because it works when people show up ready to do the work.

Sincerity.
Accountability.
Willingness to grow.

These are the things that make the difference.

And for those who come in with that posture, the outcome has always been powerful.

My approach is not surface-level. As a trauma-informed coach and therapist, I go beyond what is happening to understand why it is happening by exploring family systems, emotional patterns, and root causes.

Because real change doesn’t happen on the surface, it happens beneath it.

If you’ve been considering working with me, I want you to know this:

You’re not just getting advice.
You’re stepping into a structured, intentional process designed to help you build better.

Take your time to go through the slides.
These are just a few of the stories.

When you’re ready, visit my website to begin. by @nikefolagbade

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5 months ago

THROWBACK to when I attended Tobi and Bukunmi’s wedding. ❤️💍

There is something deeply fulfilling about working with a couple through premarital counselling and then finally watching them walk down the aisle. I spent about two months working with this beautiful couple, and being there to witness their big day was such a joy.

I like to surprise some of my clients by showing up at their weddings, especially when the location is within my reach. And even though I attended alone, I didn’t feel alone for long! I met one of their friends who had followed my work for years, and she made me feel so welcome. She even sent me a gift afterwards. 🥹❤️ Some people are just intentional, and I hope she sees this because I can’t remember her handle!

Now, here’s something I always say: premarital counselling is not about preparing for a wedding. It is about preparing for a marriage.

Having been married for almost ten years myself, I know there are conversations and issues that may seem small while dating but become significant when you begin building a life together.

For Tobi and Bukunmi, navigating an intertribal marriage also meant paying attention to family backgrounds, expectations and how to build a home that honours both partners while establishing their own family culture.

And now, I’m excited to introduce our refreshed group programme, Settling in Bliss: A Marriage Preparatory Program! 🥂

✨ Five weekends of guided, practical learning
✨ Conversations around communication, conflict and emotional safety
✨ Understanding personality, values and expectations
✨ Exploring family, money, intimacy, boundaries and parenting
✨ Live weekend sessions, with replays available if you miss a session.

Registration is open until October 29th, and the programme begins October 30th, 2026.

If you’re preparing for marriage, please talk to your partner about this. Don’t leave these important conversations until after the wedding.

Visit the link in my bio to read more and register. I can’t wait to welcome you!

Prepare well. Build wisely. Marry intentionally. ❤️

#SettlingInBliss #PremaritalCounselling #MarriagePreparation #BloomNestCompany #BuildWisely by @nikefolagbade

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3 days ago

While desiring and praying for success in different areas of your life, how intentional are you about the work you’re to do to make it possible.

In this video, I share 5 steps to take to align with your desires and the second one breaks down a deeper kind of alignment we often overlook.

Which of these points are you going to become intentional with? Talk to me. by @nikefolagbade

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4 days ago

One of the most beautiful things about working with teenagers is discovering that sometimes, beneath the confidence, the questions, and even the “I already know this” attitude, there is a young person who genuinely wants to grow.

On Day 2 of our Teen Identity and Life Design Program in Lagos,
some of the older teenagers, whom I initially wondered might struggle to connect with the sessions, came to express how happy they were to be part of the learning experience. They wanted to learn more, connect, and ask questions.

And some teens were asking how they could connect with influential people who could mentor them in their areas of interest.

That got me thinking.

Sometimes, young people are so eager to access opportunities that they forget to prepare themselves for those opportunities.

I asked them a simple question: What have you started doing in the area you want someone to mentor you in?

If you are interested in technology, have you tried building something? If you love literature, have you written anything? If you want to become a great entrepreneur, what are you learning or experimenting with already?

Because when you eventually meet the people you admire, it helps to have something to show them beyond your desire to be mentored.

Their curiosity is a great starting point, but their willingness to learn, practise, create and grow is what helps them make the most of opportunities.

I also reminded them of something equally important: not everyone who offers to help you have the right intentions.

And this is only one part of what we do at BloomNest.

Beyond the Teen Identity and Life Design Program, we also train facilitators who want to guide teenagers effectively. We recently facilitated a training for a church in Uganda, and we look forward to opening registration for our facilitator training to participants from different churches and institutions soon.

Do you have teenagers in your church or school who need this kind of training? Or would you like to equip the people responsible for guiding them?

We would love to partner with you.

📩 Send an email to hello@bloomnestcompany.com for details on how to get started.

#teenstraining #bloomnestcompany by @nikefolagbade

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4 days ago

@nikefolagbade is another voice joining the conversation!

When Faith Meets Action will take us into some of the difficult questions around faith, family, relationships, support, accountability, and what we actually do when things at home get complicated. This one is going to give us a lot to think about.

October 31 | 6 PM WAT | Live on Zoom | FREE

Save your spot through the link in my bio. by @nikefolagbade

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6 days ago

I’ll keep saying it as loud as I can, if you prioritize your healing journey, you’ll bloom better and thrive in many areas of your life.

Your relationships will be better for you.
Your health will thank you.
Your finances will be more focused.
Your life will move in upward trajectory.

Denying and suppressing what you experienced won’t take it away, it’s just waiting for a time to explode and your body will betray you. Today, choose YOU. by @nikefolagbade

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7 days ago

I watched My 30th Wedding and honestly, I really enjoyed it. ❤️

But as a trauma-informed life coach, I couldn’t watch it only as a love story. I kept seeing the emotional stories underneath the romance. Great movie @bimboademoye

From grief and emotional readiness to parental pressure, anger, apologies, trust and the choices we make under pressure, there was a lot to unpack.

So I put together 11 lessons from the movie that can help us avoid emotional pitfalls in our relationships.

Swipe through and tell me, which one stood out to you the most?

#My30thWedding #RelationshipLessons #TraumaInformed #BloomNest #HealthyRelationships by @nikefolagbade

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12 days ago

You may be repeating patterns because you’re not paying attention, why not sit down and do the work that requires you to process your responses reactions mindset, beliefs, and habits.

You may be saving the next generation from repeating all that you always take as normal.

I hope this video helps you to sit down and think things through. by @nikefolagbade

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13 days ago

There are patterns in your life that may make more sense when you stop looking only at what is happening today and begin looking at what shaped you.

Maybe you understand what you want, but still feel stuck. Maybe you keep having the same relationship conflicts, reacting defensively, struggling to regulate your emotions or finding it difficult to truly rest.

Maybe you have moved forward in many areas of your life, yet certain experiences from the past still seem to have a voice in your present.

That does not mean something is wrong with you. It may mean there are parts of your story that need to be understood more deeply.

Trauma-informed coaching creates space to explore these patterns with greater awareness while helping you develop practical tools for regulation, clarity, healthier communication and intentional action.

You do not have to keep navigating the same cycles without understanding why they keep returning.

If you are ready for deeper work with structure and support, you can explore my trauma-informed coaching sessions and choose the package that best fits your needs.

🔗 Click the link in my bio to explore the available coaching sessions and choose the package that fits your needs.

What pattern in your life keeps repeating that you are beginning to wonder may have a deeper story behind it? by @nikefolagbade

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16 days ago

This October, I’d love to invite you to join us on a 31-Day Journey of Victory in Prayer.

This year, God has been speaking to us about Rest and Establishment.

And in this season, we are partnering with Him in prayer to enforce the victory Christ has already purchased for us through His finished work and the blood of Jesus.

For 31 days, we will gather in prayer, standing on God’s Word, contending for what He has promised, and trusting Him for results in our lives, families and destinies.

This is more than a prayer meeting. It is a journey of faith, alignment, establishment and victory.

📅 Every day in October
🕦 11:30 PM – 12:15 AM
📍 Zoom

Come with your faith and expectations.
Come ready to pray.

Join us. Invite someone. Let’s pray for results together.

🔗 Join our community:
www.thelifeintheark.com or visit the link in bio.

PS: If you’re looking to join a ministry committed to emotional, spiritual and family transformation, I invite you to join Life in the Ark.

At LIFA, we have a growing community where we pray together, engage in monthly spiritual discipleship, and intentionally grow in different areas of our lives.

It’s a community where faith meets practical transformation by helping you grow spiritually, emotionally, relationally and as a whole person.

Join our community:
www.thelifeintheark.com

Follow us: @thelifeintheark by @nikefolagbade

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