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This Black Maternal Mental Health Week, we’re celebrating joy. The joy that can be found in connection, in being seen, and in having a community around you.

@falsownclub is a group of mums who show up for each other every week in London, creating space to walk, talk, connect and simply be together.

Yesterday, we had the joy of supporting their walk. At MAM, we both understand the importance of having a community around you, especially through motherhood, and what it means to have people who continue to show up.

So this was about exactly that: celebrating Black motherhood, celebrating joy, and showing up for the mums who show up for each other every week. 💙

Black Maternal Mental Health Week UK is led nationally by @themotherhoodgroup by @onlydestt
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12 days ago
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This Black Maternal Mental Health Week, we’re shining a light on some of the issues that disproportionately affect Black women throughout pregnancy and postpartum.

During her pregnancy, Destinie experienced fibroids and was surprised by the lack of clear information and support around how they could affect her pregnancy journey.

With up to 8 in 10 Black women developing fibroids, Destinie’s experience is far from rare. Yet information and support can still be difficult to find.

Women like Destinie deserve to have their voices heard and their concerns prioritised. We’re grateful to Destinie for sharing her story and helping bring greater awareness to an issue that affects so many.

Black Maternal Mental Health Week UK is led nationally by @themotherhoodgroup by @onlydestt
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14 days ago
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our first GIRLS NIGHT OUT was a beautiful success 🥹🫂💃🏽🍷💅🏾🧚🏾

thank you to all the ladies who came out, to have fun, connect, shake a leg & also just vibeeee & enjoy a great experience at @pergolabrixton 

thinking we should do another??? always good to create new experiences just as us GIRLS! 💗🫂

would you attend a Fal’s Own Club - Girls night out? 

#motherhoodcommunity #thingstodoinlondon #coolmums #walkingclub #ukmums taken in London, United Kingdom by @onlydestt
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21 days ago
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Mums, allies, supporters and friends, this invitation is for you! 💗🌿

Wear pink and join @themotherhoodgroup and @mumbrite for our FREE Walk & Talk during Black Maternal Mental Health Week UK.

Join our founder @sandeeigwe, Christina @xtinaokenla of Bodied By XO, and @onlydestt of @falsownclub for a morning outdoors with other mothers and supporters. Expect a relaxed walk, honest conversations, new connections and a gentle fitness session led by Christina.

Supported by the Perinatal Mental Health Team at Oxleas NHS Foundation Trust. 💕

Supporting Black maternal mental health takes a community. Bringing mothers, friends, community organisations and healthcare professionals together creates space to listen, connect and strengthen that support. Walking outdoors gives us an opportunity to pause, move and check in with one another.

📅 Thursday 24 September 2026
📍 Greenwich Park, meeting at Pavilion Café
⏰ 11am–12.30pm, arrive from 10.45am
🎟 Completely FREE. Registration required via Eventbrite.
💗 Wear pink
👶 Babies, children and prams welcome

And we have an exciting prize for you to win! 👀 More details coming soon.

Come with a friend, bring your colleagues or join us on your own. Everyone who wants to support Black maternal mental health is welcome.

Tag someone you’d love to walk with! 💗

#BMMHW26 #BlackMaternalMentalHealthWeek #TheMotherhoodGroup #Mumbrite #WalkAndTalk by @onlydestt
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a month ago
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Happy Mother’s Day 🤍🫂✨

becoming a mum changed my life in ways I never expected. 
It showed me how important community, support, and spaces for mothers really are. 

That’s one of the reasons I started Fal’s Own Club: to create somewhere mums can connect, feel seen, and continue discovering themselves alongside motherhood.

So grateful to be Fallon’s mum, and so grateful for all the amazing mothers who are part of this community.

Sending love to every mama today 🤍

thank you all for being here & showing up for yourself 🧚🏾❤️
📷 : @swlpic 

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#mothersday #walkingclub #mumcommunity #londonmums #founderstory taken in London, United Kingdom by @onlydestt
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7 months ago
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fally turns 2 🥹🤍🧚🏾🫂

my gorgeous, smart, iconic, stargirl!!! so much love for you fal & so grateful you’re surrounded by amazing people who love & adore you also!! two years into motherhood, and its the best hood yet. 🥹🥹🥹😭😭😭😭❤️🧚🏾 happy birthday girlyyyy

her party on saturday was soo beautiful, good vibes, amazing community, planning parties are not for the weak, but it was so worth it. i even baked her cake, 2nd year in a row!!! 
thank you for spending it with us. ❤️

topknotch entertainment from @lilexplorerss softplay, it was a must!! 🤍🥲✨ by @onlydestt
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8 months ago
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biggest achievement for me in 2025 was building @falsownclub 🧚🏾🤍

a lot of travelling this year, and also a lot of reflection. excited for more growth & structure in 2026 ✨🫂 taken in London, England by @onlydestt
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9 months ago
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these curated experiences are so wholesome! 
another sold out event! 🫟🤍

thank you to all the ladies that attended & created beautiful pieces that they love!! 

thanks to @potterystudioldn for hosting us, an amazing pottery studio.
thanks to @drinklivingthings for supplying some sips for this event, all the mamas loved them.

more bigger & more beautiful events upcoming, join our community & find your village 🧚🏾🧚🏾

🔗 in bio for our upcoming events! 

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#mumcommunity walkingclub #thingstodoinlondon #mumsofinstagram #ukmums #mumwalkingclub #wellnessforwomen #wellnessformums #falsownclub #founderstory taken in London, United Kingdom by @onlydestt
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a year ago
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Our second curated event was a success!! 🥹🤍

Pottery & Pours (for the mamas only) at @potterystudioldn was so wholesome, full of good vibes, sipping, a lotttt of yapping & unlocking creative parts of ourselves. 

If you are looking for an amazing mama community, please join our walks & curated experiences. We would love to have you. 💕💕

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#walkingclub #mumcommunity #potterypainting #falsownclub #thingstodoinlondon #mumsofinstagram #ukmums #mumwalkingclub #walkingclubs taken in London, United Kingdom by @onlydestt
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a year ago
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We don’t get enough photos with our babies.
So often, we’re the ones behind the lens — capturing everyone else’s moments and forgetting our own.

At our Softplay & Portraits event, making sure our mamas got their photos with their little ones was so key, because moments like these matter! 

Giving mums a space to be seen, beautifully and intentionally, having portraits that belong on walls, not just on phones 🥹🧚🏾

Thank you so much @marianap.res for taking these beautiful images.

These are some of the gorgeous mamas that attended our event at @_millieandmaisie in September, and we are always so grateful for this growing community. 

Next curated event is coming up soon! Follow along for updates 🤍🫟

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#walkingclub #mumcommunity #falsownclub #portraitswithlove #editorialphotography #thingstodoinlondon taken in London, United Kingdom by @onlydestt
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a year ago
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welcome to Fal’s Own Club 🤎 
this is a walking club & growing community for mothers, blending movement, mindful connections and a love for sipping as we stroll. 

Becoming a mum has been such an interesting ride (lol). Especially during that first year, I kept asking myself: How can I still feel connected? How can I create something that reflects this new stage of life—especially as a creative individual?

That’s how Fal’s Own Club began. Last year, I started documenting my 10k daily walks with my baby during early postpartum (on my Tiktok, yall follow meeee (@onlydestt) ) Those walks became a time to breathe, think, connect, and just be. Now, 16 months into motherhood, I’m so excited to officially launch Fal’s Own Club: a weekly walking club and growing community for mums of children from babies to older (and soon-to-be mums too 🥹).

We’ll meet every Wednesday in Greenwich Park (so if you’re based in South East London or even would love to travel down, this is for you! We will expand to different parks & days but this is where we are starting at). We’ll grab a drink, walk, talk, sip, laugh, and connect… building real friendships and our village along the way.

This means so much to me. 
Motherhood made me slow down and be present with my daughter, which wasn’t easy—but it’s been worth it. It’s shaped how I want motherhood to feel: connected, soft, empowered, and joyful, whilst still tapping into my creative endeavours.

Our first walk is Wednesday, 4th June at 11AM till 12.45PM
Please RSVP using the link in my bio & share to other mama friends!! 

Also follow @falsownclub for the journeyy, newest mama community 🥹💕💁🏾🤰🏽 

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#walkingclub #mamawalkingclub #workingmoms #momswhowalk #creativemoms by @onlydestt
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a year ago
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the best of bits in st. lucia 🎀🤍✈️ by @onlydestt
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2 years ago
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