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Photo by Katy Jon Went on June 01, 2023.
Photo by Katy Jon Went on June 01, 2023.
Photo by Katy Jon Went on June 01, 2023.
Photo by Katy Jon Went on June 01, 2023.
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Posted On: June 1st 2023, 07:35 pm
Channel 4's #GenderWars, aimed at a show rather than tell approach, has humanised but still divided its varied participants. The majority of its trans contributors felt unable to support the final version, I was the exception. Perhaps because I respected and trusted the director @pamelaezra03 and producer Carlo's own humanity. I experienced so much care and check-ins from them, and I know they did that for the others, too. Whether you agree with Kathleen Stock or the Trans voices or are conflicted or confused, I hope you will agree that hate, hurt, and dehumanising anyone are never acceptable and that informed understanding will lead to more hopeful outcomes for all. It was hard to watch the film a third time as I kept spotting bits I wish I'd rephrased, contextualised or caveated, and being on the receiving end of twitter abuse today, I have to remind myself it's worth it.

In my years of trying to find common ground, I've also gained uncommon friends from the religious to Brexiteers, right wing to Gender critical, among these I not only count Linda Bellos, stretching back a dozen years but also Julie Bindel more recently. We don't have to agree, but we do respect and recognise each other's motives and passion. (And in case they see this, the lovely neighbours in no2 aren't bad either!)

Do have a watch of @channel4's documentary and let me know what you think or join the heated debate on my twitter! But please no personal attacks on anyone
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#Gender #SexvGender #Transgender #Trans #SexMatters #Dialogue #KathleenStock #Talk #GenderNotSex #JulieBindel #SexNotGender #TransRights #C4GenderWars #Channel4 #StephenWhittle #LindaBellos #SexAndGender #BrookLapping #ZincMedia #GenderAndSex #Feminism #TWAW #GenderCritical #CommonGround #UncommonFriends
Comments (25)
faithgenevaa a month ago

faithgenevaa

Dm me it won't let me send one

luanadauntlesspr 9 months ago

luanadauntlesspr

You’re awesome

dulchedaleche 3 years ago

dulchedaleche

Katy I have just seen you on the Storm Huntley show, amazing. Just so reasoned and calm, we need more people like you on both sides of the debate, particularly in terms of mental health support and slowing of the process. Then I saw lots of pictures of cats in your posts - yes, that's my kind of person!

raju.ku1514 3 years ago

raju.ku1514

please contact @petsazi.official

thecroydonnurse48 3 years ago

thecroydonnurse48

I thought you were brilliant, your contribution was invaluable and your ability to engage readily in really difficult conversations was a skill that we can all learn from.

higginz_1991 3 years ago

higginz_1991

Just finished watching! As someone with no skin in the trans debate so to speak, I thought you were exceptionally well spoken and eloquent. It was excellent to hear your point of view 👌 😀

ddopics 3 years ago

ddopics

I thought you came across brilliantly, articulate and ready to listen. This is such a polarising debate and I can appreciate both sides. Your voice really helped bring some clarity to the conversation. Keep up the good work.

noirunalla 3 years ago

noirunalla

#KathleenStock is the business. Eloquent, respectful and sane.

apabseek 3 years ago

apabseek

Accepting diversity includes diversity of thought. I think everyone needs to give each other more grace around this issue.

nicolewithanenotana 3 years ago

nicolewithanenotana

Spewing more abuse into the world.

nicolewithanenotana 3 years ago

nicolewithanenotana

Hold your head up high. You were honest, decent, ready to listen and argued your points without resorting to hyperbole and venomous insults. The people on both sides that don't, need to check their behaviour and stop t

susanisaacartist 3 years ago

susanisaacartist

The voice of reason Katy-well done!

lord_knop 3 years ago

lord_knop

❤️ so fucking proud ❤️

trulylucye 3 years ago

trulylucye

Brilliant guidance and I hope others listen. How is it that some of us have forgotten that it’s ok to disagree , to be different, to hold out own space and find middle grounds we all compromise on? This can only happen with empathy and understanding and bloody listening! All the name calling and abuse needs to stop. Totally behind this doc and well done for being true to you 😍

deborahdalgleish 3 years ago

deborahdalgleish

Thank you so much for your calm, respectful, insightful views - you represent the only civilised way forward. You are a wonderful role model.

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