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Posted On: May 17th 2026, 03:17 pm
“It took me a long time to say the word rape. Because men don’t get raped. Well, yes, they do.” Ty Herndon, on The Patrick Custer Show EP 08. Full episode link in bio @thepatrickcustershow

*Content note: discussion of sexual assault and male survivors.

@tyherndonofficial describes the assault that happened to him at 21 on a national TV show. The cognitive distortion of “I participated.” The first time he medicated. The blueprint for years of self-blame and worthlessness before he found language for what had happened.

In partnership with @glaad

Resources for male survivors of sexual abuse:
@rainn - RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
@1in6org - 1in6.org weekly online helpline for male survivors
@trevorproject for LGBTQ+ youth: 1-866-488-7386, text START to 678-678
@988lifeline - Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: call or text 988
@samhsagov - SAMHSA: 1-800-662-4357

#TyHerndon #MaleSurvivors #1in6 #RAINN #SexualAssaultAwareness SurvivorStory, ThePatrickCusterShow, CountryMusic, Recovery, LGBTQ.
Comments (52)
fantasticvoyage67 4 months ago

fantasticvoyage67

This topic needs more exposure and honesty. praying for healing for all of those abused by other men on men abuse

almighty_heidi 4 months ago
maidforyou55 4 months ago

maidforyou55

People don’t understand what that does to a person! Much love goes out to him! It’s something that leaves you for the rest of your life

jsm_pdx 4 months ago

jsm_pdx

❤️❤️

kwwhiz 4 months ago

kwwhiz

#metoo. Stay strong God loves us. No matter our journey. Thanks for being brave and sharing.

philippeincanada 5 months ago

philippeincanada

This is so heartbreaking.

simplyxomandy 5 months ago

simplyxomandy

We can NEVER ignore that men are SAd too. I am so sorry for any man, teen or little boy who was abused, assault€d or graped

johndiaz6939 5 months ago

johndiaz6939

20 is nothing. Try understanding what happened to you at the age of 7. Being beaten into the dirt, pants pulled down and sodomized. No one saved me

gov215 5 months ago

gov215

❤️

jrhall65 5 months ago

jrhall65

My brothers were abused. Never talked about it. Two have died.

timarra.w 5 months ago

timarra.w

As a rape survivor myself I understand that journey. I was told that I deserved to be raped because I was an openly gay guy in a small town. I was 19.

misha1962 5 months ago

misha1962

This hits me.

bethanyecranfield 5 months ago

bethanyecranfield

@tyherdofficial Thank you for your daily courage ❤️❤️❤️ Cheering you on.

angelwings7190 5 months ago

angelwings7190

😢😢😢 so sorry you had that happen to you @tyherndonofficial 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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