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STEAL OUR CHALLENGE!

Aaron decided that we’re gonna do a week-long challenge, and I love the idea while simultaneously feeling VERY uncomfortable by it 😂 And I think many of you would benefit from it too, so I invite you to join!

Although I’ve come a long way, I’m still working through allowing myself to fully receive, whether that’s help, pleasure, etc. Giving is a lot easier + more comfortable for me, so Aaron has centered a challenge around that.

Every day for the next 7 days, I have to ask him to give to me for a minimum of 20 minutes each day. It has to be some form of pleasure or care, whether that’s spicy-related, a massage, him reading me a book, etc.

Another rule I’m not allowed to give in return for the WHOLE WEEK. If I break any of the rules, he said there will be consequences hehe. Part of me wants to break the rules out of curiosity + brattiness 😈 But I will not

The past two days he has solely given to me, so I thought that meant I only had 5 days left. Apparently not 😂 He informed me that the challenge starts TOMORROW, making this a total of 9 days of receiving.

And the reason I specifically have to ASK each day is because that makes it even harder for me.

I’m so nervous about this challenge because asking for care and then not being able to give it back feels incredibly difficult for me.

But what an angel he is for dreaming this up + offering it to me 🥹 And the fact that he is so excited about it is so heart warming!

So if receiving, asking for what you want, or allowing someone to care for you without immediately reciprocating makes you squirm a little too, I invite y’all to steal our challenge 🌹