Posted On: October 14th 2026, 10:38 am
I was actually excited for him to try my new recipe.
Years ago, a last-minute change of plans like this would have bothered me.
Over the years, I’ve learned that flexibility is such an important part of a happy marriage.
We each need things outside our marriage that bring us joy, connection, energy, and make us feel alive.
Time with friends, hobbies, experiences, and the freedom to enjoy them without guilt.
Of course, communication and consideration matter. Plans affect both of us.
I’ve also learned that being happy for my husband, even when it means adjusting my own plans, is another way of loving him.
A healthy marriage gives us room to grow as individuals while continuing to grow together. ❤️
Xoxo 💕 Beth