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Posted On: November 1st 2026, 11:00 pm
Sometimes jealousy isn’t about what your partner needs to change. It’s about what you need: to feel special, loved, and secure. 💜

Listening to your jealousy can transform the way you build relationships.

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Comments (54)
nicole_newfie 6 hours ago

nicole_newfie

Tell me you're Latino without saying you're Latino

osayar_dingo 6 hours ago

osayar_dingo

So if they kiss you deeply and intently but say they just want to be “friends” or “buddy’s”what is that? There’s definitely chemistry

glitterbugrayray 7 hours ago

glitterbugrayray

This makes sense 🤔🤔 whenever I feel more secure or get more attention from my poly bf, I have zero problems hearing one of his other partners talk about things he did or that they did. But when I feel neglected or feeling loss of connection I seem to get withdrawn or make backhanded comments to said partner :/ I feel bad about it too (when I catch it, sometimes I don't notice)... I consider both other partners friends, and would be dysphoric if I lost them

j_garcia_747 12 hours ago

j_garcia_747

Thxs for sharing I’ve been having trouble how to explain to my special guy exactly what you described. I’ll be sharing this with him. 👍🫶🏽

prac_oo 13 hours ago

prac_oo

You should not have power over anyone. You for sure need to get some treatment.

einafetsai 13 hours ago

einafetsai

"but do you want to?" gets me every time

ovopeach 15 hours ago

ovopeach

🔥🔥🔥

towangelic 18 hours ago

towangelic

why would you, as a gay man, call another man a „bitch”..? or am i hearing it wrong?

libenmusic 19 hours ago

libenmusic

Just for people confused: in monogamous world being sexually involved with someone it’s the same thing as staring at someone’s eyes for too long or kissing passionately, sex is not just sex in monogamous romantic world as different in poly (sometimes) so it’s totally understandable that everyone has different preferences about what love means to you that’s why for him (assuming pronouns) was a jealousy moment kissing rather fuckn it’s not too hard to understand and remember we are all different acceptance is the key just find someone that match your vibe and that’s it not a big deal

monkey.butt666 19 hours ago
zjacques160 a day ago

zjacques160

My bf and I actually started using 🤟, ASL shorthand for "I love you", to communicate visually or by touch that little unique sentiment. Since noone else we are around really gets it, all we have to do is do the hand sign or touch the other with our fingers in that sort of pattern and the message is across. It's so nice to be able to just give each other that little boost of love wherever, whenever.

dorsettcurtis a day ago

dorsettcurtis

For me a kiss during sex is part of the act. I don’t understand why anyone would set it aside as something more personal than any of the other acts. I don’t want to have sex without the kissing component. I was in a 48 year open relationship with my late husband. We played together and separately. We enjoyed a variety of group activities. Watching him kissing someone else never bothered me. Sex and love are not the same things.

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