6 hours agoSo if they kiss you deeply and intently but say they just want to be “friends” or “buddy’s”what is that? There’s definitely chemistry
7 hours agoThis makes sense 🤔🤔 whenever I feel more secure or get more attention from my poly bf, I have zero problems hearing one of his other partners talk about things he did or that they did. But when I feel neglected or feeling loss of connection I seem to get withdrawn or make backhanded comments to said partner :/ I feel bad about it too (when I catch it, sometimes I don't notice)... I consider both other partners friends, and would be dysphoric if I lost them
12 hours agoThxs for sharing I’ve been having trouble how to explain to my special guy exactly what you described. I’ll be sharing this with him. 👍🫶🏽
18 hours agowhy would you, as a gay man, call another man a „bitch”..? or am i hearing it wrong?
19 hours agoJust for people confused: in monogamous world being sexually involved with someone it’s the same thing as staring at someone’s eyes for too long or kissing passionately, sex is not just sex in monogamous romantic world as different in poly (sometimes) so it’s totally understandable that everyone has different preferences about what love means to you that’s why for him (assuming pronouns) was a jealousy moment kissing rather fuckn it’s not too hard to understand and remember we are all different acceptance is the key just find someone that match your vibe and that’s it not a big deal
a day agoMy bf and I actually started using 🤟, ASL shorthand for "I love you", to communicate visually or by touch that little unique sentiment. Since noone else we are around really gets it, all we have to do is do the hand sign or touch the other with our fingers in that sort of pattern and the message is across. It's so nice to be able to just give each other that little boost of love wherever, whenever.
a day agoFor me a kiss during sex is part of the act. I don’t understand why anyone would set it aside as something more personal than any of the other acts. I don’t want to have sex without the kissing component. I was in a 48 year open relationship with my late husband. We played together and separately. We enjoyed a variety of group activities. Watching him kissing someone else never bothered me. Sex and love are not the same things.
