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Riana Malia | Identity Architect

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Love Expert | Relationship Authority for women who have built an amazing life except for the thing they want most- Extraordinary Love that matches it

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If you keep dating the same person over and over again, this is for you.

On Wednesday, November 4, I’m hosting Everything But This™, 90 minutes live on Zoom, so you can join from wherever you are.

Not only will we answer the question “Why do you keep ending up in the same relationships over and over again?” but, in real time, we are going to do something together to make sure it never happens again.

10:00 am Pacific, 1:00 pm Eastern. Come as my guest.

Comment EBT and I’ll send you the link. by @rianamalia

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Three things coming up that I want you to know about. Here’s the quick version.

Everything But This™ is back on Wednesday, November 4, at 10:00 am Pacific. Ninety minutes, live with me on Zoom, so you can join from wherever you are, and it’s my gift to you. We answer why you keep ending up in the same relationships, over and over again, and then we do something together to make sure it never happens again.

Bay Area women, on November 21 I’m hosting a one-day neurosomatic retreat, right before the holidays. A day full of surprises, and very, very limited spots.

And for those of you who want a bucket list experience, I have a big surprise. I’m not telling you all the things yet, but imagine one of the most transformative experiences of your life, in one of the most transformative places in the world.

Comment BUCKET and you’ll hear first. by @rianamalia

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Twice now I have fallen in love with puppies that did not exist.

Full accounts. New videos every day. Comments underneath from people saying they got theirs and he is perfect. Then you ask one normal question, “Can I see her on a video call?” and the temperature changes. Suddenly you are the difficult one for asking, so you soften it and you say never mind, I’m sure it’s fine.

By then your heart is already in it.

The third time I led with my condition. I told her I had been deceived twice and I was not engaging with anybody until we were on FaceTime and I could see the puppies in real life. She wrote back, “Oh my God, there are so many scams out there. I’m so sorry for your heart.”

Spoiler alert. She was exactly the same as the first two.

You have done a version of this in your love life. You saw something in week three. You asked about it, he made you feel like the problem for asking, and you dropped it.

I wrote about what to do in the sixty seconds after you ask.

Comment LOVE and I will send it to you.

#extraordinarylove #redflags #datingover40 #relationshipadvice #thelastpiece by @rianamalia

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🎙️ Introducing She Leads, She Receives, a special interview series on The Polarity Podcast.

I'm honored to open it with love expert Riana Malia, Board Certified Integrative Neurosomatic Practitioner, featured on CBS, NBC, and Fox.

Together, we explore why so many high achieving women build extraordinary lives yet struggle to find love that matches them, and how rewiring the patterns beneath the surface changes everything.

Listen to this powerful conversation now through the link in my bio 🎧 Then take Riana's free Extraordinary Love Index at taketheeli.com 💜

@rianamalia by @rianamalia

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I have hosted 15 Brilliance Brunches over the last two years, here in the Bay Area. A table of twelve women, real conversation, nobody performing. And every single time I hear the same thing afterward. It wasn’t long enough. We would just be getting into these incredible conversations and all of a sudden it was over.

So I listened. Next month, November, I am creating a one-day retreat for us.

I bet your life looks really pretty freaking good. and yet.....there is this one area... the last piece. Maybe it is that everything works except the thing you want most... extraordinary love? Maybe it is what am I going to do career wise now, in my mid fifties, with a reorg happening around me? Maybe it is the last kid just left and the house is a completely different place? Maybe it is I feel stuck, and I know there is more meant for me, and I do not know how?

Everyone has their version of: everyone else has their shit together but me. Which is of course not true. And getting to be somewhere you can be fully you and actually have the conversation is freaking amazing.

This is a day for you, to really look at where things are for you personally and professionally. Not in the therapy way. In a freaking clarity way. And the timing is on purpose, a day for us before we roll into the holidays and everything gets crazy and we are pulled in 79,000 different directions.

Space is limited, and the sooner you RSVP the more surprises I can put together.

Comment DAY or send me a message and I will put you on the invite list.

xo,

~R

#bayareawomen #marincounty #womenover50 #sanfrancisco #womensretreat taken in San Francisco Bay Area by @rianamalia

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As of this morning, I’m first in my group for Top Host, and I am so grateful.

Top Host is a public vote, and the host who wins gets a six-episode podcast produced by iHeartRadio, $25,000, and a guest spot on On Air with Ryan Seacrest.

Thank you to every one of you who has voted, shared it with a friend, or sent me a message cheering me on.

My show, The Last Piece™, premieres on the Motivation Success Network in November. Every guest on it has built a life most people would love to have, and I ask each of them the same question: what is your last piece? For some, it’s love that finally matches everything they’ve built. For others, it’s faith, or how to hold on to all they worked so hard to create.

The Last Piece™ is the show, my Substack and the live experiences I host, and every one of them comes back to that question and your own answer to it. An iHeartRadio podcast would carry those conversations to so many more people.

You can vote free once every 24 hours until October 15. If you already voted today, come back tomorrow and vote again.

Comment VOTE and I’ll send you the link.

Thank you for being in this with me.

xo,

~R by @rianamalia

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You can know exactly why your last relationship ended. The whole story. The timeline. What happened, what you tolerated, the night you knew.

Then you meet someone new, the same old feeling shows up, and you call it chemistry.

Think about a pantry full of expired food. Oil gone rancid, pasta from four years ago, cans you keep reaching around every time you open the door. You can know every item on that shelf went bad and exactly when you bought it. The shelf stays full. Knowing has never thrown out a single thing.

That is what has been happening in your love life. Understanding why it ended last time has never once changed who you reach for next.

I wrote about what actually empties the shelf, and what becomes possible once it is empty.

Comment PANTRY and I will send it to you. by @rianamalia

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Last week I had the pleasure of being in South Florida and attending Called to Lead.

I reached out to this fabulous stranger, Dee Dee @dedeecai , who so graciously posted in the Called to Lead group that she’d be around Wednesday night if anyone wanted to gather for dinner. We had dinner both nights, had wonderful conversations, and now we’re going to collaborate on the magic we do in the world, impacting women.

Kelly @kellyroachofficial and Sandi @sandiglandt gathered the most extraordinary women for @calledtoleadmovement in Boca.

It was so fun to see Sara @saraconnell and Beth @bethnydick . It has been a while since we were all together.

It was such a joy to spend time with Dennis @dennismpostema and Carrie @carrie.carr2012 and talk about how excited I am for my new show, The Last Piece, premiering on @motivationsuccessnetwork next month. Hugs in real life are the best.

Loved my conversation with Jasmine @drjasmineescalera We met briefly at dinner and then talked about what a powerful podcast conversation we will have.

It was so special to spend a great part of the day with Christina @christinachambersdenali and Jamie @jamiegsamuelson

Thursday dinner conversations also did not disappoint, getting to spend time with Tami @freetobewomensleadership and Mairin @mairinmoorecane

So glad to have met @aprilbeachlicensing @julieciardi @annabarbararurak_ @aleshiainmotion @stacynaquin and @cassandrahillco

Here’s what I want for you: I want you to understand that you get to be a badass and run the fricking world during the day and still come home, put your hair in a messy bun, have someone hand you a glass of wine, and be taken care of. You get to be successful and soft. You get to be ambitious and be taken care of.

Throughout the day I listened to incredible keynote speakers, women who have built thriving businesses and beautiful lives on a foundation of faith, resilience, and keeping going in the times when you’re questioning, “What the hell am I doing?”

I’d love to know: who is someone you met as a stranger who changed your life in all the best ways?

xo,
~R

#CalledToLead #WomenInBusiness #FaithDrivenEntrepreneur by @rianamalia

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We have something exciting to share and we’d love your help supporting Riana Malia.

Riana @rianamalia is officially in the running for Top Host, and voting is now open. If she wins, iHeartRadio will produce a six-episode podcast with her, she’ll receive $25,000, and she’ll earn a guest spot on On Air with Ryan Seacrest.
And the timing couldn’t be more exciting.

Riana’s new show, The Last Piece™, is coming to the Motivation Success Network on Apple TV, Roku, and Amazon Fire.

Every guest on The Last Piece™ has built a life most people would love to have and Riana asks each of them the same question:
What is your last piece?

For some, it’s finding a love that finally matches the life they’ve built. For others, it’s faith, purpose, or learning how to hold on to everything they’ve worked so hard to create.

These are the conversations The Last Piece™ was created to bring into the open and winning Top Host would give Riana the opportunity to bring them to an even bigger audience.

You can vote for Riana for free once every 24 hours. If you’d like to support her, cast your vote here:
https://tophost.org/2026/riana-malia

We’re incredibly excited to have Riana and The Last Piece™ as part of the Motivation Success Network and we’d love to see our community get behind her.

#RianaMalia #TheLastPiece #TopHost2026 #TopHost #VoteForRiana #MotivationSuccess #MotivationSuccessNetwork #PodcastHost #PodcastCommunity #WomenInMedia #PurposeDriven #InspiringConversations #AppleTV #Roku #AmazonFireTV by @rianamalia

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A little support would mean so much to me 🤍

You can vote for me for FREE every 24 hours! ✨ Just click the link in my bio to cast your vote.

⏰ Voting ends October 15 at 7:00 Pacific Time. You’ll also see the live countdown when you click the voting link, so you’ll know exactly how much time is left! 🫶🏻

Thank you so much for your support! by @rianamalia

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I said yes to MentorBox 2.0 as a mentor. And I’m also sitting on the advisory board, helping build what I believe is one of the most extraordinary spaces there is. It is an honor.

I said yes because it is a rare room full of people who actually deliver. Real access to real experts, instead of another recorded course collecting dust in a folder.

You can take the course, read the book and watch the replay, and still be missing the people in the room with you.

Your first 30 days are free. 🧡

Here is what is waiting inside:
✨ Mentors who want you to succeed, chosen for substance.
✨ Practical knowledge and fresh perspectives.
✨ Relationships that support your growth, whether you are building a business, stepping into a new chapter, or finally putting time into yourself.

Bring your questions, your goals and your curiosity, and come see what’s inside.

Start your free 30-day trial here ✨
bit.ly/riana-mentorbox

Tag the friend who belongs in this room with you. 🧡

xo, Riana

#MentorBox #MentorBox20 #RianaMalia #FreeTrial #Mentorship PersonalGrowth BusinessGrowth JoinTheMovement by @rianamalia

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